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nermine writes on 2008-05-25 04:59:16
I can really relate to what u r going thru , but i think that no man would stay in a relationship for 4 years unless he wants to , u guys havent got married yet and u dont have kids so unless you feel he is using u someway financially for example then i believe he loves u , but maybe u r making your self too avaliable for him , men really want what they cant have , so dont break up with him just yet , maybe try some tough love
go out with ur girlfriends start taking care of yourself maybe get a new hair cut lose a few pounds if u need to , and totally ignore him ,trust me he will wanna spend more time with u , and when he does dont be too needy , and plzzzzz stop compromising caz most men dont realize what u do for them and u'll end up resenting him , make ur self number 1 ,u come first , anyway no one can really tell u what u should do caz u r the one who's suffering listen to ur heart if u really cant take it anymore and u dont have the energy to try to fix things so just say goodbye to him caz no one is worth being unhappy for