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About Alina Neal
Expertise
I can answer any questions concerning abuse whether it be physical, emotional and or sexual. I have been a counselor and a nurse in my life time and have lived and fought my way to being safe in all aspects.

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I have experienced every form of abuse and have lived through it, and come out of it stronger emotionally and physically.

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www.Helium.com

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Social work/psychology Human Relations/Counseling

 
   

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Abusive Relationships - plzz HElp


Expert: Alina Neal - 5/10/2008

Question
My Name Is CAndi ...I Have Been With My Husband FOr 7 Years I Am 24 Now We Went Through A Seperation Ofr About 6  Months .. Since He Has Been BAck .. All He Has DOne Is Tourment Me Evryday I Cry SO HArd SOmetimes That I Loose It And HUrt Myself I Dont KNow what To Do My Body SHakes My HEad Just Hurts So BAd My HEart Just Feels Like It's Going To Explode He Dosent Hit Me Just Say7s Really MEan Stuff And He Will Sit And Listen To Me Cry For Hours .. I think Mabey He Just Dont Understand How Bad It Really DOes Hurt .. But Its To The Point If It Wasnt for My Kids I Would Prolly Kill Myself I Dont Want To Leave Him I Just Want To Find Help For Him I Dont Know If He Is Just Being Cruel Or If He DOnt Realize He Is Doing It .. I'm Not Sure About Anything Anymore Except I Need Help And Fast ANd If It Came Down to it How Would I Leave I Have 3 Kids And No Family Or Friends .. I Dont Know How Much More I Can Take Someone Plzzz Help Me

Answer
Candi

You need to get a grip. NO ONE is worth this pain and no one is worth killing yourself over! You are obviously being abused, you need to get yourself and your children into a womans shelter. From there get counseling, get a job and start supporting yourself the best way you can.
There is always a way out honey, you just have to find resources. You need to stop this cycle for your children and most of all yourself.

If you demand respect for yourself by taking steps to better yourself then you will get the respect and love that you so deserve!

Good Luck

Alina

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