Expert: David Simonsen - 1/21/2009

Question
Hi,

There was this guy I was interested in and he likes me back, I know he likes me because he told all of his friends. The thing is though, the guy has had sex with a lot of girls, he used to go to bars every night and pick up girls and fuck them and have a new girl every night of the week. He also had several girlfriends simultaneously and was known as a player. He is amazingly hot, he is 6 feet tall and has a huge, muscular body with tattoos. The quintessential bad boy. I'm the sweet, innocent nice girl who doesn't have too much experience with men.

It was very obvious that he liked me a lot. But he never asked me out.

I see him looking at me longingly a lot. Whenever I walk by him he gives me a huge smile. It's obvious he is hot for me.

His friends told me that he liked me a lot and he felt very passionately towards me, and he was still interested, but he was holding back from asking me out because he sees me as the "marrying kind" and the "type to settle down" and they said he was not ready for that yet. They said he saw me as much higher "above" all the other women.

Why do you think he didn't ask me out. He didn't want to hurt me?

Answer
Ana,
The actual question should be "why in Hades name would you want to hang with this loser?" He will treat you like he does other women. He has issues of using and abusing. You DO NOT have the magic to make him change. If you want to be used then go for it. If you want to find a quality guy then do that. I would suggest the quality guy, there is much less drama involved in that choice.
David
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