Expert: Nafeesah - 3/13/2009

Question
just started a relationship with a guy. i adore cus he is so loving towards me. only trouble is when he is with me he is so different away from me when texting. he constantly texts me all day and night when i dont answer immediatley he gets very annoyed angry always asking what am i doing . do i love him. constantly. if i dont answer him he continually texts all time he can be abusive in test messageswhen he with me in person he different. is this abusive relationship waiting to happen

Answer
Having been in a abusive relationship myself yes this is an abusive relationship waiting to happen. My boyfriend had constantly called me and usually at some of the most inappropriate times. It could be 4 in the morning and he would be calling me especially when I had to get up for work the next day. He would then call me when I was at work repeatedly and then he would manipulate the situation accusing me of cheating or if I was with some other guy. If this isnt a sign of insecurity at its finest what isnt? You can do better because this can later escalate to emotional abuse. I would decide whether you want to keep staying with this guy or making a clean break and moving on.