Abusive Relationships/counseling

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A year ago I was verbally attacked horribly by someone. This person screamed at me at the top of their lungs for about 15 minutes and said horrible things. They screamed with violent rage and hatred and their head was snapping back and forth while they screamed at me. Other people were laughing while this happened.

I am still traumatized about this incident a year after it happened.

When it happened, I had blocked it out from my brain. But now it suddenly came back to me a year later and I find that I am not over it.

How can I get over this?

Can you give me some tips?

Answer
I would seek counseling if this has still bothered you after a year and if people were standing around laughing hopefully they're not friends of yours. If they were I would get rid of them and find new friends because your real friends will come to your defense and put a stop to it.

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I can answer just about anything on abusive relationships, but I can't give legal advice on how to get out of one that's something you need to speak with an attorney or a counselor trained and certified to deal with domestic violence issues to get resources in pursuing any/all legal recourse(s).

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I have been in abusive relationships and I have shared my experience in helping others to get out of these types of relationships. I was in two abusive relationships one lasting nearly 2 years and the other for 5 years.

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Associates degree, bachelors degree, and I am a certified nursing assistant

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