Abusive Relationships/what do i do

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hello,i am in an online relationship.we met almost 16 months ago.i do not know what to do my boyfriend has become verbally/emotionally abusive,because we are not together yet!he has abandonment and anger issues.he says i am pushing his anger until he snaps,i am forcing him to drop bomb,he cant see i am going through just as much as he is,but i cant just turn off my feelings 4 him and he saved my life the day we met!

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Dear Sandra,

Check and introspect your hear, mind and feelings to see if you have  become already  a victim of  human emotions that  hides realities of life from you.

In my opinion it is best to  cut off   from this  relationship to avoid   future bitterness. Yet all  left to your choice

Have  a nice  day

Dr.Sunu Sundar

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Dr.Sunu Sundar

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I am a psychologist committed to Christ and enjoy relationship in His company.I can answer questions related to sexually abusive relationships in families. I can effectively deal with victims of abusive relationship. I am also efficient in dealing with child abuse and incest. I am here to help others who have questions related to above said issues. You may visit www.mindpanchakarma.org to know more about my mission

Experience

I have been a dealing with victims of sexual abuse since 2000.I have dealt with many teenagers who suffered abusive relationships. Listening to victims of incest and child sexual abuse has made me a better counselor in dealing with these issues.

Organizations
Mind Detoxification Therapy Home Ashram(MDT) In Mind Detoxification Therapy Home Ashram we treat people focusing on holistic healing. Various types of therapies offered here for detoxifiying the mind and body are derived from the wisdom of traditional Indian medical system and medicines. Victims of abusive relationship are offered special One to One residential therapy for complete healing of mind. Special packages for healthy life are available for couples and students. Treatments offered her are based on alternative medical system derived from the wisdom of saints on ancient times. Treatments are harmless with no side effects. A team of doctors headed by Dr.Sunu,committed towards the welfare of the patients are on duty in the MDT clinic

Publications
I have been writing on psychological issues in a Tamil monthly magazine called 'KULANTHAIGAL PARALUMANTAM'. I also write in a health magazine Makkal Maruthuvam.

Education/Credentials
I have a Master degree in Psychology. I also have another Master degree in Sociology. I have taken intense training from the Jesuits for seven years in the field of Personality, Self, Discipline and Morality. I am a psychologist committed to Christ and enjoy relationship in His company.

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