Expert: David Simonsen - 1/14/2010

Question
My ex husband cannot leave me alone. We have 3 children together, but have been divorced for about 2 years. He seems obsessed because he keeps getting into my relationships. I was his "lover" after our divorce but not any more. I was once in a relationship with someone and he did everything in his power to make it fail. Now I have been dating my bf for about 1 year and he has been asking my kids about everything. He got in contact with my boyfriends ex wife and now they are both trying to split us up.  He knows where I am at, he knows what I talk about, I feel as if I am being watched. I feel so violated because he doesn't leave me alone and I don't have any privacy because he knows my every step. He even tells me stuff that my bf and I talked about alone. What can I do? Please help

Answer
Jackie,
First I suggest that you don't date. Your kids don't need to have your energy divided from raising them. Secondly, I think you need to get some type of restraining order if her truly is doing all the things you have said.
David
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