Abusive Relationships/abusive boyfriend

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Expert: - 10/15/2011


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hi  i am from india . i had been in relationship with an abusive guy for 7 years. bt last week i lied to him that my parents had chosen a groom for me and i am engaged also . he now knew that i  am engaged also bt this guy is trying every bit to get me back . the fact is i am nt engaged with anyone. i want to be free. my mom knew i live with my parents bt my dad did nt know abt this guy . my bf knew my house also . i am very scared. wat to do . i dont want to be with him. plz help

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Hi Anony,

Congrats that you have made the right  decision to get away from this  relationship.You must, by all means keep away from this  guy.Your ex-bf cannot do any thing if you are strong in heart and mind.
I will be a able to guide you to safety strategies   only if you write to me in detail about  your  love history and  life history, likes, dislikes, qualification, profession, religion and  faith in God. I  need  the same details about the boy also.

You may  contact me  through outreach.matters@gmail.com

Have  a nice day

Dr.Sunu
www.mindpanchakarma.org

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Dr.Sunu Sundar

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I am a psychologist committed to Christ and enjoy relationship in His company.I can answer questions related to sexually abusive relationships in families. I can effectively deal with victims of abusive relationship. I am also efficient in dealing with child abuse and incest. I am here to help others who have questions related to above said issues. You may visit www.mindpanchakarma.org to know more about my mission

Experience

I have been a dealing with victims of sexual abuse since 2000.I have dealt with many teenagers who suffered abusive relationships. Listening to victims of incest and child sexual abuse has made me a better counselor in dealing with these issues.

Organizations
Mind Detoxification Therapy Home Ashram(MDT) In Mind Detoxification Therapy Home Ashram we treat people focusing on holistic healing. Various types of therapies offered here for detoxifiying the mind and body are derived from the wisdom of traditional Indian medical system and medicines. Victims of abusive relationship are offered special One to One residential therapy for complete healing of mind. Special packages for healthy life are available for couples and students. Treatments offered her are based on alternative medical system derived from the wisdom of saints on ancient times. Treatments are harmless with no side effects. A team of doctors headed by Dr.Sunu,committed towards the welfare of the patients are on duty in the MDT clinic

Publications
I have been writing on psychological issues in a Tamil monthly magazine called 'KULANTHAIGAL PARALUMANTAM'. I also write in a health magazine Makkal Maruthuvam.

Education/Credentials
I have a Master degree in Psychology. I also have another Master degree in Sociology. I have taken intense training from the Jesuits for seven years in the field of Personality, Self, Discipline and Morality. I am a psychologist committed to Christ and enjoy relationship in His company.

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