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Cookie wrote at 2012-09-19 09:35:35
No matter what you try to do to have a bond with your sister your in-law will always tear you both apart.  My sister lived the same life and recently died,  i did ask her to phone or visit,  she chose him.  I had a break of three years by not seeing my brother-inlaw and of course my sister.  In the last three weeks of her life i did for her whatever i could.  Blood is thicker than water and perhaps you could phone her on a regular basis when the arshole is not at home.  You do not have to be subjected to this stuff going on,  the only way you will survive and stay normal is do that something special for your sister and don't make him a part of it.  Do not do what i did as this will remain in your thoughts on a daily basis.  Perhaps you could e-mail her if that is an option.  Please do not loose touch with your sister and avoid talking about him.  All the best.  

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