Expert: james52144@earthlink.net - 12/12/2011

Question
hello Sir, my friend aishwarya is in different kind of love. actually a year before aishwarya liked a boy but a friend ( female friend of aishwarya) did not liked it and she introduced to his cousin omkar who was staying at a distant place. this introduction was on phone.. initially aishwarya hesitated but later on omkar's sense of talking his humorous talks impressed her. and then the chatting on fb and talking on phone started. they have not met a single time yet. but aishwarya is very deeply in love with omkar. One thing to tell u sir that omkar is always trying to do things or make things as he likes.. he is always telling to do things to aishwarya as he likes , but when aishwarya opposes then omkar gets bit tensed and angry and then does not talk for long time..aishwarya is deeply in love.and does things according to him.. but due to his behaviour she sometimes tried to forget him.. but all of the sudden when omkars phone comes then she again starts to rethink abt their relation. when onkar is not in good mood he tells aishwarya that we should break our relation but aishwarya does not agree, she says i will not break it , if u want u break the relation. it is not possible for me to do so..for some days onmkar is not talking to her.. what should aishwarya do pls give suggestions or reasons whether to continue or why to stop this relation thanks..in advance

Answer
Dear Sudhir

The first thing to realize is that this entire relationship is an illusion. Your friend is in love with a fantasy which her mind has created. The person on the other end of the phone may not be who she thinks he is. I think aishwarya should look for a real man, not someone on the end of the phone.