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Expert: - 8/28/2011


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I am a 48 years old man, retired firefighter, married with two son. I met though facebook a 28 years old girl who works for another fire service. I enjoyed too much chating with her and she was interested on me, but:
*she asked me not find out about her with her workmates....
*I met and the same day she gave me a kiss on my mouth (plenty of kisses) and I soacked her breast in to my car in a parking lot.
My problem is that when I licke someone I fall in love instantaneously. She told me that she is not a saint. That once she kissed two firefighters during a prevention guard on a beach.
I am terrified with this woman if she falls in love with me.
What is your opinion. By the way she is trated for depression.
Thank you from Venezuela.

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Dear Auripol,

Greetings and peace to you.

Hope this e-mail  finds you  helty and hay!

I understand your problem. I suggest  you to be friendly with this lady.Falling in love   can bring problems in your life in the near future and drain off your peace from you.

You need to  be more careful with people  who are treated for depression.


I suggest you to do meditation and prayer so hat  your heart will be  strengthened  not to easily  fall  fall in love and spill the peace of mind you enjoy!

Have  a nice day

Dr.Sunu

www.mindpanchakarma.or

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I am a psychologist committed to Christ and enjoy relationship in His company.I can answer questions related to sexually abusive relationships in families. I can effectively deal with victims of abusive relationship. I am also efficient in dealing with child abuse and incest. I am here to help others who have questions related to above said issues. You may visit www.mindpanchakarma.org to know more about my mission

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I have been a dealing with victims of sexual abuse since 2000.I have dealt with many teenagers who suffered abusive relationships. Listening to victims of incest and child sexual abuse has made me a better counselor in dealing with these issues.

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Mind Detoxification Therapy Home Ashram(MDT) In Mind Detoxification Therapy Home Ashram we treat people focusing on holistic healing. Various types of therapies offered here for detoxifiying the mind and body are derived from the wisdom of traditional Indian medical system and medicines. Victims of abusive relationship are offered special One to One residential therapy for complete healing of mind. Special packages for healthy life are available for couples and students. Treatments offered her are based on alternative medical system derived from the wisdom of saints on ancient times. Treatments are harmless with no side effects. A team of doctors headed by Dr.Sunu,committed towards the welfare of the patients are on duty in the MDT clinic

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I have been writing on psychological issues in a Tamil monthly magazine called 'KULANTHAIGAL PARALUMANTAM'. I also write in a health magazine Makkal Maruthuvam.

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I have a Master degree in Psychology. I also have another Master degree in Sociology. I have taken intense training from the Jesuits for seven years in the field of Personality, Self, Discipline and Morality. I am a psychologist committed to Christ and enjoy relationship in His company.

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