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I know much about abusive relationships as I have some with members of my family. Come to me if you need assistance with your relationship problems.

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Experiencing abusive relationships with family.

 
   

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Abusive Relationships - Abusive bf


Expert: Dwayne Anderson - 12/19/2007

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I'm 16 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. At first he was really nice and treated me really well. A few weeks into our relationship he started asking me if I wanted to have sex with him, I wasn't ready at the time he asked me so I said no. He was fine with it at first then he started yelling at me and hitting me. I loved him too much to break up with him and I didn't think it was that bigger deal until, it got worse after a while and he started cutting me and raping me.

After this I realized I was more scared then in love. His mates know what he does to me and they don't care at all. A while ago he got really jealous cause I was talking to one of his best mates, he started thinking I liked him, so he took me into another room and put a scalpel inside me. he cut me up really bad then he said he loved me that much that he wanted to have a baby with me, I knew that there was nothing I could do so I just let him have what he wanted. He raped me once again and I was so cut up there was blood every where. His mates had an idea of what was going on and didn't try and stop it.

I'm pregnant and I'm so scared of him I just don't know what to do and I don't know who to tell or talk to because I'm scared that if the cops find out and he is sent to juvi he is going to get his mates onto me and I don't want to raise a baby on my own and if he doesn't go to juvi will he have custody of the baby?. PLEASE HELP! I don't know what to do or who to talk to.

Answer
rape is a serious sexual offense that is also a crime against women. If he has hurt you in any way, it's best to end this relationship ASAP.

Talk to someone you know and trust such as a friend or a parent. They can help you get through this ordeal.

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