Abusive Relationships/Boyfriend.

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Hey, David.

When I first hooked up with my boyfriend, it was great, he was really nice and romantic. It has been a couple of months since then, he has been ignoring me as if I was like lower than him? I approached him a couple of weeks ago about this, he got angry and started shouting obscenities at me. He even pushed me onto the couch. Well since then it has gotten worse. Usually the only time he is nice to me is when he wants to have sex and when we do, its usually pretty rough. I don't like this. What the hell should I do? Break up? I'm afraid if I do he might get angry again and do something he might regret

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Michelle,
If you don't have the strength to break up with him then you shouldn't be dating in the first place. Break up with him and have a father, brother, male friend be present outside the room when you do it. Get out now while you are still alive to do it.
David
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