About Dwayne Anderson Expertise I know much about abusive relationships as I have some with members of my family. Come to me if you need assistance with your relationship problems.
Experience Experiencing abusive relationships with family.
Question I just got married only 4 months ago after being with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. When we were dating he started to tell me to dress different and change my cell phone, I didn't think any of it except that he didn't want ex's calling, and I dressed more like a bartender than a respectable mate. Since being married, he chooses what job I should take....he likes only ones that have minimum contact with the outside public, has informed me that I am never to have lunch with my boss, and not allowed to go out for drinks with the girls. He tells me what to wear and every piece of clothing I buy, he pulls the material and holds it up to the light and if he can see slightly through it - Well no way I will be allowed to wear it out of the house. He has gotten mad at me for not wearing nylons with a skirt, or recently wearing tanktops is no longer acceptable attire. Now he has started a huge fight with me every single time I try to see a friend, all of them are no good in his eyes and threatens divorce if I want to see them. This week my grandparents are down I live on the other side of Canada from my family, he won't let me have the car to see them. Last week he tried to cancel my gym membership using the excuse that I am wasting my money (its $25 a month) I was able to retrieve the gym membership but he's not happy. I am not allowed to have blonde hair anymore even though this was the color it was when he met me and I have been for 10 years. And in 2 years of dating only once has he met my friends and I think he only came because he knew I would go without him so this way he could watch me. I know all of these are signs of a controlling personality....may question is do you think there is anyway of helping him over come this, or will it only get worse once we have children, because I know he wants to get me pregnant and I am worried that the only reason he wants to get me pregnant is to have more control on me and limit even more my access to the outside world. He has us living with his parents I believe to watch me, as he works nights and wants to make sure extra eyes are on me. What should I do.
Answer you have every right to live your own life your way and be who you are, and he shouldn't be allowed to force you to change. He doesn't control you, you're a grown woman now who is perfectly capable of making her own decisions.
Be yourself and stay true to it. And he has to become aware that he has no right to force you to change that.
