Expert: james52144@earthlink.net - 10/7/2006

Question
ive been seeing a girl for almost two years and i like her alo but im starting to like her friend who also has had a boyfrind for two years...we flirt alot and had even had an intense lip stare (almost a kiss) and we make plans on a reguar basis for breakfast and stuff...should i let her know that i like her because i would liek to see what will happen between me and her...i always think about her and shes always on my mind....help please?

Answer
Dear Matt

You are faced with a dilemma, because if you make a play for the friend and it fizzles she is sure to tell your girlfriend and she will dump you for sure. So you better be really sure before you leap on this one. However, it sounds like you aren't into your girlfriend anyway, so why not? Go for it!