Abusive Relationships/bf abuse

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im 16 and i've been going out with my bf for about a year and a half now. at 1st he was really nice and treated me really well. a few months into our relationship he started asking me if i wanted to have sex with him, i wasnt ready at the time and i said no. he was fine with it at first then he started yelling at me and hitting me. i loved him too much to break up with him and i didnt think it was that bigger deal until, it got worse after a while a started cutting me and rapeing me after this i relised i was more scared then in love. his mates know what he does to me and they dont care at all. a while ago he got really jelous cause i was talking to one of his best mates, he started thinking i liked him, so he took me into another room and put a scalpel inside me. he cut me up really bad then he said he loved me that much that he wanted to have a baby with me i knew that there was nothing i could do so i just let him have what he wanted. he raped me once again and i was so cut up there was blood every where his mates had an idea of what was going on and didnt try and stop it. im pregnant and im so scared of him i just dont know what to do and i dont know who to tell or talk to because im scared that if the cops find out and he is sent to juvi he is going to get his mates onto me and i dont wanna raise a baby on my own. PLEASE HELP! i dont know what to do or who to talk to

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THESE ARE CRIMINAL ACTS OF SERIOUS ASSAULT; THE MAN NEEDS TO BE LOCKED UP FOR MANY YEARS; TELL THE POLICE TODAY, YOUR FAMILY AND BEST FRIENDS; HIS FRIENDS WILL FEAR JAIL TIME, WON'T DO ANYTHING; RAISING THE BABY IS THE LEAST OF YOUR CONCERNS--YOU COULD CONSIDER AN ABORTION OR ADOPTION..GET COUNSELING AS WELL...I repeat, these are serious crimes--this idiot cannot remain free to harm you or others ACT ON THIS TODAY..

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