AboutDavid Simonsen Expertise I can answer questions directly related to your challenging relationships. I will give you a straight forward answer to what I think the problem is.
Experience I have the experience needed to help you sort out how to work through your relationship. I meet weekly with people who have challenging relationships so let me help you!
Organizations AAMFT;AACC
Education/Credentials B.A. M.S. Marriage & Family Therapy
Question Hello, My concern is this I have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 long years, and living with him in one big studio for about 2 years,, our relationship has changed over time, meaning he has anger issues, like in the morning he turns into a monster, were for some apparent reason, he starts to get angry at me and brakes things in the house or almost brakes them( maybe its something I have said to make him like this),, sometimes its worst then other times,, I still care about him, and always will,, but now I think its time for me to move out and live independently with roommates or someone( it also scares me to live with strangers as roommates, since I have never done it before), but still contact as a friend with him.. what exactly should I do, I have already talked about this with him,,he seems indifferent.. ( both of us are in the our 20's, 23 and 24, if it matters), thanks alot for any help you can give me and any advice,, thanks again :) p.s. I need the courage in actually making a move, please help.
Answer Jenna,
So how much more of your life are you willing to waste with this guy. What has been the point of being together for 6 years only to end up here. I would encourage you NOW to move on. He is not interested in making things long-term with you otherwise he would have by now and he wouldn't be indifferent as well. Look in the paper tomorrow for rentals and move out.
David
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