About Schuyler V Johnson Expertise I can answer any questions about abusive relationships, I have been around them all my life, and have seen them and been part of them. I do not speculate, I give blunt, honest, straightforward answers and I do not hesitate to say what I feel about the situation. I feel it is a serious subject and should be taken seriously at all times.
Experience Used to be on AskMe.com and still on PointAsk.com
Question Hi there, this is the situation, im 25, my mom is 53 and we are sexually active by almost 2 years now. She is divorced, i got a gf from time to time. We really enjoy when we have sex. Is that wrong?. What we should do?.. Thank you for your answer.
Answer Hi Dan,
Yes, it is wrong...I think you already know that, so let me underscore the point; it is unhealthy and damaging for both of you, especially you. The answer is, never be alone with her and focus on your g/f or find a new one who will hold your attention. This is wrong and harmful on a variety of levels, and is one of society's oldest taboos. On the surface, it does not seem so harmful, but it is the psyche, the mind, that suffers. Deep down inside both of you know it is not acceptable and is wrong and your own consciences will haunt you until you "cease and desist." Your mother needs to find people her age, and not family members, and you need to stay away from her entirely for a time until you regain your mental and emotional equilibrium. Without knowing how long this has been going on I will state unequivocally, stop now. Whether this is a continuation of a childhood experience or an adult one, it is unhealthy, abnormal and will affect you in a negative way. For your own peace of mind and future viable relationships, I urge you to take control now and stop. I enclosed an URL/site for you to read, and plkease write anytime if you have any questions.
