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About Dr.Sunu Sundar
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Expertise
I can answer questions related to sexually abusive relationships in families. I can effectively deal with victims of abusive relationship. I am also efficient in dealing with child abuse and incest. I am here to help others who have questions related to above said issues.

Experience
I have been a dealing with victims of sexual abuse since 2000.I have dealt with many teenagers who suffered abusive relationships. Listening to victims of incest and child sexual abuse has made me a better counsellor in dealing with these issues.

Publications
I have been writing on psychological issues in a Tamil monthly magazine called 'KULANTHAIGAL PARALUMANTAM'

Education/Credentials
I have a Master degree in Psychology. I also have another Master degree in Sociology. I have taken intense training from the Jesuits for seven years in the field of Personality, Self, Discipline and Morality.

   

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Questions Answered By Expert  Dr.Sunu Sundar 
In Category  Abusive Relationships

SubjectDate Asked

Verbal abuse11/19/2009
  Q: please help me with your advice! I'm 27 years old and 4 months pregnant. My husband and I have been ...
  A: Regarding the restraining order....I suggest you to decide after consulting a an experienced ...
Verbal abuse11/18/2009
  Q: please help me with your advice! I'm 27 years old and 4 months pregnant. My husband and I have been ...
  A: I understand your situation. I wonder how you 'cooperated' to carry his second child again ...
my ex boyfriend11/16/2009
  Q: hey i hate my ex he used to beat and forced to have sex and now i think i am prego and he wants to ...
  A: I understand your situation and the pain you are in. I highly recomend you to share your ...
incest10/31/2009
  Q: I am 22 years old and was involved in an incestuous relationship with my dad from 16-19. The sex ...
  A: I am not at all suggesting you to go to church or attend church services.This will never solve ...
incest10/31/2009
  Q: I am 22 years old and was involved in an incestuous relationship with my dad from 16-19. The sex ...
  A: I empathize with you. Before I could say anything on this , I wish to know was this consensual ...
Rocking & Abusive Marriage10/28/2009
  Q: I knew my current husband 1 1/2 year ago online after the traumatic death of my father and ...
  A: Greetings! I appreciate that you wrote a detailed mail.Kushboo there is hope for a happy future ...
Please help with your advice9/16/2009
  Q: First of all I want to thank you for reading this. I do not want to disclose my details hope you ...
  A: Greetings and peace be with you I carefully read the mail you sent and understood the sufferings ...
Abusive man9/10/2009
  Q: First a little background. Let me tell you I am not a young woman with no experience in the world of ...
  A: Greetings I an unable to answer all of your questions because it is difficult in online ...
Mental abuse9/3/2009
  Q: I am currently in an abussive relationship (I think) although he says its me that is the problem, we ...
  A: Greetings. I appreciate that you desire to break off from this relationship.He is not your ...
help me9/2/2009
  Q: I am in a distant relationship with a boy, who proposed me in a very aggressive way say "Say yes ...
  A: I very well understand your love for him. However you must know that your love for him does not ...
disfunctional relationship8/26/2009
  Q: I am a 23 year old mother of two small children under 4 years of age, both of which i had with a man ...
  A: Respected Young lady, Greetings and peace. I very well empathize with you. In my opinion, no ...
what do i do8/26/2009
  Q: i am in an online relationship.we met almost 16 months ago.i do not know what to do my boyfriend has ...
  A: Check and introspect your hear, mind and feelings to see if you have become already a victim of ...
??what am I waiting for??8/19/2009
  Q: , I have been married for 24 years and dated 7 before we got married. He was always self employed ...
  A: Peace be with you. Indeed you are a strong woman in heart in your marriage life journey!. All ...
complaint8/5/2009
  Q: I'm a PHD student in America (I'm originally from India) and I was verbally harassed by another ...
  A: Tara, Anger and hatred can be well managed with regular prayer, meditation, yoga and ...
complaint8/4/2009
  Q: I'm a PHD student in America (I'm originally from India) and I was verbally harassed by another ...
  A: Greetings and peace. I read your mail and understood the seriousness of the problem.I empathize ...
abuse8/1/2009
  Q: Thursday morning, I am waiting to go to surgery to unlblock my tubes so my husband and I can have a ...
  A: I empathize with you. I believe that your husband needs counseling. Only then he will be made ...
confusion7/28/2009
  Q: Sundar: I really don't know where to begin. Recently I had a severe allergic reaction to an unknown ...
  A: I carefully read your words and find that you are in great pain. I empathize with you. Even ...
sexual abuse7/18/2009
  Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and we are completely in love with each ...
  A: Give her ample time to be herself. Keep pumping love to her. Get her to learn simple meditation. ...
assistance please7/16/2009
  Q: My sister confides and her husband confide a lot in me and they decide to bring me into a bit a ...
  A: Peace be with you. Answers for your questions 1) Is this normal? It is not normal. A tussle ...
Abusive 38 year marraige7/1/2009
  Q: Good Morning, I have been married for 38 years. I was first married at age 17 which lasted only 1 ...
  A: I suggest you to separate from him permanently(physically, mentally) through legal means. Keeping ...
want to stop relation with my boyfriend...6/30/2009
  Q: sir,i am 21 yr old..i hav a boyfriend..it was not a serious relation..now my dad decided to do my ...
  A: Since it is not a serious relationship, I suggest you to take a bold step to tell the matter ...
Abusive 38 year marraige6/29/2009
  Q: Good Morning, I have been married for 38 years. I was first married at age 17 which lasted only 1 ...
  A: It is high time that you left this man.You need a deliverance. Consult your local pastor, engage ...
i need to get myself and my siblings out. . help6/23/2009
  Q: I'm 23years old and was adopted when i was 5. my adopted dad which i lived with for 11 years ...
  A: As you say there are two options. I suggest you to go ahead with the option which will bring ...
questionable abuse of 2 yo boy5/29/2009
  Q: I have custody of my 2yo grandson (since 1/09). His parents have every other weekend unsupervised ...
  A: I empathize with you fully.I understand very well your serious concerns. Since online counseling ...
My boyfriend has become a jerk.5/12/2009
  Q: Me and my bf have been together for over 2 years, its a long-distance relationship. We both are 18 ...
  A: I read your mail carefully and understood your situation. I have some suggestions for you. ...
moving on after spousal abuse5/8/2009
  Q: How do you move on after an abusive relationship? I was married to a man almost 20 years ago that ...
  A: I think a few sessions of counseling and psychotherapy will enable to heal yourself. Help of ...
dating two girls with same name4/27/2009
  Q: Okay I am going to try to keep this as short as possible…..I met Anthony while out one night we got ...
  A: Good you wrote to me in detail which helped me to understand your scenario better. I write this ...
Taking a break in a relationship4/13/2009
  Q: Okay this is going to be a complicated issue. Tony and I have been dating since September 2008. ...
  A: Natalie, The first thing you have to learn to do is to keep your mind in tranquility of kinds of ...
bullying1/22/2009
  Q: I happen to be a really beautiful woman, I used to model. I'm 6 feet tall and very thin. I live in a ...
  A: Greetings and peace. I am unable to go in depth of what you exactly are in to.I will be happy if ...
please help me out1/8/2009
  Q: i am a college going girl. my best friend had experienced a bitter childhood parental divorce. so ...
  A: Greetings and peace I very well understand your situation.As far as I understand from your letter I ...
Is it still worth a try12/16/2008
  Q: i am 20 years old i have been married to my husband since July 2007. I am from India and so is he, ...
  A: Greetings and peace. I very well understand your inner plight. It is painful especially when ...
physical and mental abuse10/30/2008
  Q: This is in response to the additional information u wanted 1) I filed for divorce in August 2008, ...
  A: You say, "..However, as time went on, the degree of his control increased and I realized that he ...
Is it time to leave?10/27/2008
  Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for one year. I am 23 and my boyfriend is 24. In late August ...
  A: Greetings. As I read your mail I am reminded of one of the similar cases like that of yours. The ...
Emotional and physical abuse10/27/2008
  Q: I have been married for a year now to a man I have known and been in love with for almost 6 years. ...
  A: Greetings. I appreciate your long and detailed mail. I very well could understand your 'inner ...
abuse8/16/2008
  Q: "I've been married to my wife for four months. We are part of a religion that encourages arranged ...
  A: Take your wife to psychologist/counselor for a few sessions. Make a mutual agreement with your ...
helping a partner move on after an abusive relationship.8/6/2008
  Q: I'm 22 and my wife is 19. We started going out five years ago and have been married for four ...
  A: First It would help me if she can tell me vividly all that she is remembering about the ...
helping a partner move on after an abusive relationship.8/5/2008
  Q: I'm 22 and my wife is 19. We started going out five years ago and have been married for four ...
  A: I understand the gravity of the past abuse that your wife is suffering presently from your ...
successful working women and husband's jealousy7/10/2008
  Q: Many women are well educated and career oriented in Saudi Arabia and Arab countries. They use their ...
  A: Greetings of peace. You have asked me to detail about the psyche of men in looking down ...
what to do?6/11/2008
  Q: i recently left an abusive relationship and moved out on my own. We have a 2 year old daughter ...
  A: Greetings from Dr.Sunu Sundar. As I read through your mail I could feel the density of of the ...
Problems5/26/2008
  Q: I have been with my husband for 2 years, was married to him 16 years ago, left him and got back ...
  A: The person you are referring to may change and start loving you. OR He may ...
abuse5/23/2008
  Q: My daughter has a six your old, she got pregnant and just had a bad 5 weeks ago while she was ...
  A: I fully empathize with you the emotional scenario that you are in. Your fears are normal as of any ...

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