| Subject | Date Asked |
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| Self Abuse | 7/29/2008 |
Q: I dont know if this is the right category to put this in but i wanted to give it a try If you know ...
A: You've gotta stop cutting yourself, one day you'll end up killing yourself. What would your parents ...
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| Self Abuse | 7/28/2008 |
Q: I dont know if this is the right category to put this in but i wanted to give it a try If you know ...
A: you're not alone when it comes to self abuse. Many people cut their wrists, I know because I knew a ...
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| Is the abuse MY fault? | 7/27/2008 |
Q: .. I've been married to my husband for 15 years. He has a volatile temper and has been verbally, ...
A: abusers can change their behavior and overcome their problems. They need to understand that abuse ...
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| Is the abuse MY fault? | 7/27/2008 |
Q: .. I've been married to my husband for 15 years. He has a volatile temper and has been verbally, ...
A: abuse is never the victim's fault. The abuser is the one who resorts to such actions, yet there is ...
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| Please help me.Reading this requires patience. | 4/3/2008 |
Q: "Please help me. My boyfriend of 2.5 years completed his graduation from abroad, then came back ...
A: it is never someone else's fault when someone changes. Changes in a person's life can affect his or ...
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| Dwayne Please Help! THANK U!!! | 4/1/2008 |
Q: First of all thank you so much for taking in my question. I am under a lot of duress, and issues. My ...
A: Apparently, he's not over his ex and his heart has been broken by the whole ordeal. Also, in my ...
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| I never received your reply | 3/31/2008 |
Q: I never received your answer...how do I find it?? Or, could you resend it?
A: alcohol destroys a person's sense of judgement. Often people who get drunk lose control over ...
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| Is he abusive, or is he just angry? | 1/20/2008 |
Q: I married my husband Jacob in July of 2007. Not that I think we argue more than any other couple ...
A: this definately sounds like abuse. Abuse can come in several forms: physical: what you're ...
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| boyfriend issues | 1/18/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, I have lived with him for a couple months in ...
A: some abusers such as your boyfriend have a history of being abused themselves. If he's abusing you, ...
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| Abusive Husband | 1/5/2008 |
Q: My husband has a rough past with alcohol. Anytime he drinks he gets very violent. A couple weeks ...
A: alcohol can affect one's actions or judgment. Even if he's beating you under the influence, it's ...
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| How Can I Help My Daughter | 1/4/2008 |
Q: My daughter is in a verbally abusive relationship. I have tried talking to her but she doesn't want ...
A: if she's being verbally abused, then she should get out of this relationship. She needs to know that ...
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| Abusive bf | 12/19/2007 |
Q: I'm 16 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. At first he was ...
A: rape is a serious sexual offense that is also a crime against women. If he has hurt you in any way, ...
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| Abuse | 12/13/2007 |
Q: Dwayne, My daughter 22, started seeing a man (her age?) They have spent time together going on 3 ...
A: whenever people are in abusive relationships, the best thing do to is to seek professional help and ...
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| my daughter in an abusive marriage | 11/28/2007 |
Q: I have a step daughter who is married to a man that is physically verbally and sexually abusive ...
A: she must get help immediately. Abuse should never be tolerated. Abuse comes in many forms: physical ...
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| Controlling Relationship | 10/25/2007 |
Q: I feel deep down inside that I was involved in a controlling relationship with my boyfriend of 3 ...
A: you have every right to see your friends and do other things besides being in this relationship. ...
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| daughter | 10/10/2007 |
Q: my daughter ended a 4yr relationship 4months ago. her boyfriend was verbally and physically abusive. ...
A: going back to him is only accepting abuse. Abuse should not be tolerated. No one should ever be a ...
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| I don't know what to do or how to do it | 8/15/2007 |
Q: I have been in a relationship for about 2 years now. The first 2 months of my relationship were ...
A: even in a relationship, those involved in it have every right to live their own lives and be ...
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| Control, and more control | 8/12/2007 |
Q: I just got married only 4 months ago after being with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. When we were ...
A: you have every right to live your own life your way and be who you are, and he shouldn't be allowed ...
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| Abusive Relationship | 8/8/2007 |
Q: I am in a abusive relationship my question is how to go out of it he blames me for everything we ...
A: You shouldn't put up with abuse. Start taking steps to protect yourself from being a victim. Talk to ...
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| child abuse victim | 6/18/2007 |
Q: i have experienced every single form of abuse: , phsyical, sexual, verbal, neglect,and emotional. If ...
A: this indeed is child abuse that you were put through. There are other forms of abuse that your ...
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| marriage | 1/19/2007 |
Q: I have been dating a man for 8yrs and I want to be married and have at one child. He has been ...
A: even though he and his wife are separated, they are still legally married, at least until they ...
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| i think im in an abusive relationship & need help &/or advice | 1/5/2007 |
Q: I'm Brittany, a 15 year old girl that needs help. I'm not exactly sure how to say this but, him ...
A: every boyfriend should respect his girlfriends rights and priviledges. Whether its to see her ...
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| Silent Abuse | 1/4/2007 |
Q: I have just learn about this abuse and realized that i am a victim, my husband does not talk to me ...
A: has he said anything to you to hurt your feelings? Has he hit you? Has he shouted profanity at you? ...
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| Lack of Trust | 1/2/2007 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. He is 29 and I am 21. We have been ...
A: you have every right to surf the internet and he shouldn't invade your privacy by having every site ...
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| Im scared and depressed cuz of him!!! | 12/19/2006 |
Q: Where can I begin...my story is like most of the ones posted...the relationship started great and ...
A: trust is the foundation to every healthy relationship. Without trust, there can be no relationship ...
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| How to keep from going back to an abusive boyfriend | 12/15/2006 |
Q: I dated an abuser for a year and it was hell on earth, it was nothing but a plethora of emotional ...
A: people who abuse you do not love you. Love is how you treat those you say you love. If your ...
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| is this abuse | 12/13/2006 |
Q: I have been married 21yrs and i am starting to think i am nuts. I works, and have always looked ...
A: you do have a right to make a comment or an opinion. If your husband doesn't respect that, it's ...
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| Who is the Abuser ??? | 11/18/2006 |
Q: If your spouse intentionally pushes you buttons by making statements or accusations she knows ...
A: if she said something to him that makes him angry, he may lash out or cuss in self-defense. That ...
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| mental and sexual abuse..... what can i do to help | 10/5/2006 |
Q: ok heres the deal i am 21 and i just started dating my now girlfriend (22) and she had told me about ...
A: the situation involving your girlfriend and her stepfather is something called incest. if you ...
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| Physical & emotional abuse | 9/28/2006 |
Q: Last week I ended an 18-month relationship. I'm 22 and he was 24. He had a bad temper. I could ...
A: love is how you treat those you say you love. if your boyfriend abused you, then he didn't love you. ...
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| Person who wants total control | 7/12/2006 |
Q: My son waited until he was 36 to get married because he wanted to be sure he married the right girl. ...
A: your daughter-inlaw needs to understand that your son does have a right to stay in touch with his ...
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| a bad relationship | 7/11/2006 |
Q: i have been in a unhealthy relationship for a while. in the beganing of the relationship was the ...
A: it is possible for those who abuse you to change who they are if they understand they have a problem ...
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| Is this a Physically , Mentally & Monetary Abusive Relationship | 7/7/2006 |
Q: My Spouse (Wife) says she lives in a Physically Abusive relationship because of ONE Minor incident ...
A: You haven't done anything wrong. All you did was grab her arms. That's not abuse. This reminds me ...
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| Looking for information | 6/4/2006 |
Q: I am a online student and for my COM112 class we have to write a report. My report is about domestic ...
A: I recently borrowed an interesting book from the library on Family Violence. According to the book, ...
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| bad boyfriend | 5/2/2006 |
Q: i like this girl and she likes me but unfortunatley shes got a boyfriend, she said she dont like him ...
A: Violence only brings more violence. As for this girl, she doesn't deserve to be in this abusive ...
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