| Subject | Date Asked |
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| Hurting friend | 11/18/2009 |
Q: My best friend is in a abusive relationship. He physically and metal abuses her. She has came to me ...
A: Stacy, It is not easy to stand by and watch a loved one make self- defeating decisions. You can ...
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| new relationship | 11/11/2009 |
Q: my question is to you: i grew up with an abused father although he would say otherwise,and at the ...
A: Dan, I am not clear on who it is you are being guarded with. You said you recently divorced. Are ...
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| Lacks impulse Control | 11/6/2009 |
Q: OK Let me start by saying I love my husband and I want our marriage to last a life time. We got ...
A: Amy, are you asking if your husband is over-reacting? No, I do not think he is over-reacting. If ...
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| Control Vs. Oversensitivity | 11/4/2009 |
Q: I broke up with my boyfriend late last year around the holidays because of the continual emotional ...
A: Nicole, What is important here is not this young man's motivation. Obviously, the person you ...
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| unsure if I am in a potentially dangerous situation | 11/3/2009 |
Q: He broke up with me at the beginning of September, and since then, has sent me a numerous text ...
A: C, This man is evidently out to control your life, and he starts with playing with your mind. The ...
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| scared of ex | 9/25/2009 |
Q: i must mark this question private. he knows I visit this website and he knows what to search for. he ...
A: A tight, warm hug, and a firm congratulatory handshake. Tonight you summoned the courage to honor ...
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| abusive boyfriend | 9/17/2009 |
Q: I am 44 year-old unmarried woman in a relationship with 33 year-old man for last 8 months. We ...
A: Serena, You are playing with fire. Yes, loss of face could feel unbearable, but if you do not ...
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| Please HELP I know i have to get out | 9/7/2009 |
Q: My name is Leah. I am 22 and a mother of 3. I have been in the same abusive relationship since I was ...
A: Leah, You must have been deprived of a nurturing childhood. You had to be if from such an early ...
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| moving on from a abusive boyfriend | 6/17/2009 |
Q: Hi I am recently moving on from a abusive boyfriend why do I still feel like I love him and ...
A: Life brainwashes us, Kathy. Life has also brainwashed him. But regardless of who or what is ...
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| Abusive Moment II | 6/10/2009 |
Q: However, as you stated, I am willing to get help and show that I can change. I know that I cannot ...
A: Israel, I can advise you about what I think is best for you, but truth is you have to work from ...
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| Abusive Moment | 6/6/2009 |
Q: Good Afternoon - I was wondering how am I able to mend things and fix my relationship? I hit my ...
A: Are you underestimating the seriousness of your "assault" on your boyfriend? Any sound thinking, ...
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| My abusive behaviour | 6/4/2009 |
Q: How can i stop being abusive to my Partner?i have sent him abusive texts abusive phone calls raged ...
A: Vivien, I am glad you are asking for help. You need spiritual healing. Somewhere I read the ...
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| help to recover | 5/29/2009 |
Q: I left a 16 year abusive marriage<my ex whom i had aprotective order against spent ayear n jail for ...
A: Lon, Go right now to Social Services in your area, ask for protection. It seems a shelter out of ...
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| verbal abuse | 5/27/2009 |
Q: my 19 year old son is the abuser is constantly verbally abusive intimidating and frightening to ...
A: Sally, This is serious, and frightening. He is out of control, and needs to have limits ...
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| Can Abuse be Cured | 5/26/2009 |
Q: I am a young lady that is dating a man twice my size. We went away for the weekend and were having a ...
A: Sheba, Interesting that you who suffered abuse as a child, and vowed never to subject yourself to ...
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| Abuse | 5/20/2009 |
Q: I wanted to understand how when my relationship started 6 years ago I could see the abuse now I feel ...
A: it figures -- what you say. Deep in our soul we know we are important. Self hate comes from some ...
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| My boyfriend has become a jerk. | 5/12/2009 |
Q: Me and my bf have been together for over 2 years, its a long-distance relationship. We both are 18 ...
A: Jiya, Sorry about the delay in responding to you. I will get back to you within a day. ES Jiya, ...
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| Should I leave my boyfriend | 5/11/2009 |
Q: Help! I need to know.... Should I leave my boyfriend? Long story. Thank you for taking the time to ...
A: Cherilyn, Why all these complex issues with your relationship with another student? Maybe it is ...
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| counseling | 5/11/2009 |
Q: A year ago I was verbally attacked horribly by someone. This person screamed at me at the top of ...
A: What you describe is so similar to behavior I saw in a video someone sent me recently at this site. ...
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| abusive relationship | 5/4/2009 |
Q: I was going out with this guy for almost 3 yrs and we were doing good till about the last yr of the ...
A: Amanda, I don't know how old you are, but there are some issues within you that need to be settled. ...
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| not willing to be silent bystander | 5/2/2009 |
Q: I have a question about how to effectively stop a verbal "bully" face-to-face, in the moment. The ...
A: Emily, Think of it, whose problem is this? Are you setting up yourself to do battle with your ...
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| dating two girls with same name | 4/27/2009 |
Q: Okay I am going to try to keep this as short as possible…..I met Anthony while out one night we got ...
A: Natalie, Some people would do whatever it takes to get what they want. Not everyone has ...
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| Do abusers change? | 4/27/2009 |
Q: I was with a man for 14 years,we are broke up 4 months now.I had two children when we met,and after ...
A: Elizabeth, No matter how abusive a partner might be, once you have invested time and emotions in ...
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| I'm an abuser | 3/30/2009 |
Q: Dr. Springer, I have verbally abused my wife, and now we are divorced. We have a child together ...
A: Todd, Your honesty is commendable. And the truth of what you have said, "it is not the way I feel ...
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| feeling trapped | 3/28/2009 |
Q: I am in an abusive relationship. I,43, live with my daughter Laura, 12, and my partner chris,47. I ...
A: Margaret, As cold as it may sound, the truth is that you are responsible for yourself and your ...
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| not cheating the buddy | 3/27/2009 |
Q: i am in relation with a girl who is 31 and i am 28 . not for marriage but a close relationship. with ...
A: Amir, You sound like a wise soul in a 28 year old's body. Which of the options you are ...
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| Should I leave my husband? | 3/25/2009 |
Q: My husband and I got married just over a year ago. We got married fast after only a month of dating ...
A: Courtney, With the fullest respect to your phrasing of the question, allow me to rephrase it ...
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| i dont want our marriage to break down because of uncontrollable anger and misunderstandings. | 3/24/2009 |
Q: i have been in a inter-racial marriage with my husband for 6 yrs. we support each other and respect ...
A: Mena, Your soul is at war within you. Truth and lies are locked in battle. The truth is that you ...
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| Abusive? Should I go back to him? | 3/23/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years now and living together for nearly 4 years. I have ...
A: Karen, A bit of advice...be kind to yourself, by allowing yourself to feel confused if that is the ...
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| Not really know what I should do with my rekationship and where it's going | 3/21/2009 |
Q: I have been married for alittle over a year and the first part of the marriage was great than about ...
A: Jacqueline, I don't think it is so much that to him you are doing something wrong, as it is that ...
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| Abusive? Should I go back to him? | 3/18/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years now and living together for nearly 4 years. I have ...
A: Karen, I read your letter very carefully. Very, very carefully, and I am wondering if what you are ...
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| How can I heal and move on | 3/17/2009 |
Q: I am a 47 year-old woman. I have been married for 30 years and have three children; the boys are 25, ...
A: Maria, I spent a long time answering you last night, but perhaps stayed too long on the site, so my ...
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| explosive anger | 3/9/2009 |
Q: My husband has explosive anger issues. He'll totally flip out over the smallest most insignificant ...
A: Sorry I took so long to get back to you. Actually, I read your letter almost immediately after it ...
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| Is this abuse? | 1/12/2009 |
Q: I am 38 and have been married for almost 10 years. I am wondering if my husband is verbally abusing ...
A: M, You ask if your husband is abusing you, the answer is not a simple, yes. It is not so much that ...
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| *** What should we do??? *** | 11/15/2008 |
Q: I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 21. We've been together for over 2 years and are both in college. She's ...
A: Damien, the young lady has lots of problems, evidently. But being a boyfriend is not the way to ...
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| *** What should we do??? *** | 11/13/2008 |
Q: I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 21. We've been together for over 2 years and are both in college. She's ...
A: Damien, Whatever is going on with this girl, obviously she is feeling very insecure. Her moral ...
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| abusive, narcistic ex husband | 11/13/2008 |
Q: It is almost 3 years since we have been divorced. He continues to harass me. My lawyer says i need ...
A: I would have been better able to advise if I had some concept of the state of social services in ...
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| Possessive relationship | 11/10/2008 |
Q: I have co-habitated with a guy for 10 years now. I have 2 children(their father has since passed ...
A: Dawn, In reading your message, though realizing you share a child with this man, I kept thinking, ...
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| is it mental abuse now? | 10/24/2008 |
Q: I am in a weird situation... My old best friend from grade 2 (we were inseparable) found me on ...
A: Lisa, the internet has lots of help for us. Google the term, codependent relationships. Look for ...
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| is it mental abuse now? | 10/22/2008 |
Q: I am in a weird situation... My old best friend from grade 2 (we were inseparable) found me on ...
A: Lisa, I just read your assessment of my response, then I went back to my response to see why you ...
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| I still have problems after/because of abusive ex | 10/19/2008 |
Q: I'm 15 years old and have (what I consider) serious problems with the way that I think. I ...
A: Cassandra, I know you have cut out a lot. Adolescence is the time we use the social skills we ...
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| Really confused | 10/16/2008 |
Q: I dated a man in the past for about 6 years. We broke up and were apart for almost 4 years but ...
A: Susan, I don't know what makes a man do this -- hang around with a person he evidently has feelings ...
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| Distrust | 10/6/2008 |
Q: I am 21, he is 22, we've been together 3 and half years, and living together for a year and a half. ...
A: Joanna, So since you were 17 you have been looking for love, and putting up with much disrespect. ...
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| abuse... | 10/1/2008 |
Q: I have been dating someone for a year now that has shown to be verbally abusive. I feel that if he ...
A: Melissa, I want you to hear this: You can change only how you do things. You have no control over ...
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| my man hit me once, but he used to be kind and loving | 9/23/2008 |
Q: I live together with my boyfriend for one year. He was seperated from exwife, now going to file ...
A: Donna, From a distance it might be easy to say, how could you stay with a man who because he felt ...
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| Trouble with new girlfriend | 9/22/2008 |
Q: "Hi, I live in Canada and a few months ago started a long distance relationship with a woman from ...
A: See if you find the answer you are looking for, here, John: "I think part of the reason I stay in ...
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| Should I Trust Him? | 9/21/2008 |
Q: .. I have been married for 15 years to an abusive man (verbal, mental, emotional & physical). He ...
A: First thing to do, Jen, is thank God for the strength you summoned to walk away from the abuse and ...
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| Trouble with new girlfriend | 9/19/2008 |
Q: "Hi, I live in Canada and a few months ago started a long distance relationship with a woman from ...
A: John, I pause, for several minutes, reflecting. The thing unformed -- the sculptor's block of ...
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| Lon | 9/12/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 3 years...the last year and a half has been long ...
A: Ann, First, I apologize for taking so long to get back to you. Earlier efforts to respond did not ...
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| abuser | 9/10/2008 |
Q: Is my purse marital property? My husband has been locked up twice for 2nd degree assault against me! ...
A: Julie, You are working with someone who is ill. I do not know if there is anything you could do ...
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| Abuse to daughter | 9/9/2008 |
Q: I left an emotionally/verbally/psychologically abusive marriage 5 years ago. My exhusband and I ...
A: Tricia, So why are you not helping your children. If that is the best your attorney can do, I ...
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| Looking in the mirror | 9/9/2008 |
Q: I have been reading many of the past questions people have posed to you. I realize by observation ...
A: Susan, Ken Keyes (deceased), in his book, A Conscious Person's Guide to Relationships, says, "As ...
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| abuser | 9/8/2008 |
Q: Is my purse marital property? My husband has been locked up twice for 2nd degree assault against me! ...
A: Julie, Even in marriage we have boundaries, and partners in a marriage characterized by mutual ...
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| Last straw? | 9/5/2008 |
Q: I have been dating and was once engaged to a guy that has done something that now I am put in a ...
A: Marcia, no, you are not being ridiculous, just very trusting even in the face of adequate evidence ...
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| Trust | 9/5/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend of 2 years has lied to me and cheated on me a number of times. I don't feel secure ...
A: You provided the words of wisdom yourself, Joy. Here are those dynamo words: "I need help finding ...
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| help me please | 9/3/2008 |
Q: "A man at work put up my privacy fence. I paid him. He took 2 months to do it, leading me on and ...
A: Gena, Sorry for taking so long to respond to your first letter. I knew from the time I read your ...
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| Constant frustration | 9/2/2008 |
Q: I am dating a man that I have dated off and on for 6 years. He has many really good qualities, and ...
A: Joy, In describing this man and the women in his life, you present yourself as a winning candidate ...
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| abuse | 8/16/2008 |
Q: "I've been married to my wife for four months. We are part of a religion that encourages arranged ...
A: Matt, You are to be complimented for being understanding and empathic towards your wife. This is ...
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| Abuse | 8/13/2008 |
Q: I am 51 years. My husband & I have been married for 28 year. Early in our marriage, he was ...
A: Karen, Any relationship can work out successfully. Individuals form relationships. What you bring ...
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| my sister | 8/9/2008 |
Q: my sister is in an abusive relationship and i want to help her.....i dont know who i can call ...
A: Sara, there would be several things I would do if I were feeling how you are feeling. I would be ...
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| How to tackle the situation | 7/14/2008 |
Q: I have a tough situation with my father. He is mentally and to some extent physically abusive to my ...
A: Anna, abuse can dampen one's energies and zest for living. Why? Because the abused members of the ...
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| Is he worth it? | 7/12/2008 |
Q: Tonight he grabbed me by the neck, not playfully. I love him and he is drunk right now, I want to ...
A: Fearful or not, you go, Jessica. You go. A grab by the neck is a threat to your safety. You ...
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| successful working women and husband's jealousy | 7/10/2008 |
Q: Many women are well educated and career oriented in Saudi Arabia and Arab countries. They use their ...
A: Sameera, After reading your question I spent about two hours browsing the Internet for information ...
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| silent treatment and when to leave | 5/16/2008 |
Q: I am in a second marriage. My first marriage ended when my husband of twenty years became unfaithful ...
A: Jenn, Is this a serious enough form of abuse to end a ten year marriage -- a second marriage? You ...
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| I am bi-polar and my husband is miserable | 5/10/2008 |
Q: We are fighting over what toilet paper to buy. It is that stupid and I am probably starting just as ...
A: Is 'tweet' really your name (smile). Life is not easy when you are suffering from a chemical ...
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| Harassment by ex-husband | 5/9/2008 |
Q: I married an alcoholic whom, I think may be very narcisstic. He is very selfish and he seperated our ...
A: Robin, Are you saying that the courts granted him custody of your daughter, and that you have to be ...
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| Has the end come? | 5/3/2008 |
Q: I am a 50 year old woman; mother of three grown children from my first marriage. Three years ago I ...
A: Valerie, Unfortunately this is the life these boys' parents have made for them, so, as I am sure ...
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| Has the end come? | 5/2/2008 |
Q: I am a 50 year old woman; mother of three grown children from my first marriage. Three years ago I ...
A: Valerie, you are right, this is your life, and you deserve to be happy. If you married this man ...
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| Stuck in my head | 5/1/2008 |
Q: Reading the other questions has helped remind me of the hardship I put up with and how blind we can ...
A: Alissa, The more intense the emotional interlocking of two souls, the deeper the sinking of ...
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| relationship abuse | 5/1/2008 |
Q: my boyfriend and i got in to a physical and verbal fight, and i left, he emailed me an apology ...
A: Heather, That last statement "or was he not thinking?(like all men don't)", is a generalization. ...
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| Toxic Relationship | 4/29/2008 |
Q: I'm a 29-year-old professional and left an abusive/toxic relationship about four months ago. Since ...
A: Yes, Juno, I do have a bit of advice for you. I don't know why I hesitate to give it, though. ...
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| family member | 4/25/2008 |
Q: I feel like a traitor for doing this, but I don't know what else to do. I can't really talk to ...
A: Neither does your sister deserve to be going through this. Abuse does not lighten because the ...
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| Relationship Problems | 4/23/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for 10 months. We both left or marriages for each other. We ...
A: Rod, You are putting yourself at risk for some sort of breakdown. You see the picture clearly, and ...
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| Hot Men Ugly Women | 4/22/2008 |
Q: I've noticed something. I've seen that very very sexy men, such as those guys that are typically ...
A: Ana, I have an opinion, perhaps not the answer. A man who has been playing around, most likely ...
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| loving someone who has been abused | 4/22/2008 |
Q: my fiance was physically abused as a child by her mother and step father, although not sexually, to ...
A: Mike, Google the abused personality and you would gain deeper understanding into what is happening ...
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| Life after the abuse | 4/21/2008 |
Q: I am writing to you because I can't deal with this any more. I have tried to get over it and some ...
A: Mandy, the following story reminds me so much of your story. What you need, Mandy, is spiritual ...
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| abusive ex-husband | 4/18/2008 |
Q: I was in an abusive relationship for many years and I have been divorced from this man 4 years and ...
A: Tracey, the more we talk, the clearer the understanding. It seems that your ex-husband is ...
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| abusive relation | 4/16/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 30 yrs...my husband has abused me physically, verbally & mentally. He has ...
A: What your family and friends think of you when you make decisions about your wellbeing is really ...
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| Unhappy | 4/15/2008 |
Q: I am currently married and have been for 10 years. My husband and I have two children and have had ...
A: Beth, Of course you are unhappy. Who wouldn't be, living with the strain you are under. You say ...
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| Mental/Emotional Abuse | 4/14/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 16 years. 2 years ago I had to go through breast cancer treatment. We had ...
A: Sage, it has been said that we do not have any experience we do not need. You had been enjoying ...
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| abusive ex-husband | 4/11/2008 |
Q: I was in an abusive relationship for many years and I have been divorced from this man 4 years and ...
A: Let me respond to your last question, first, Tracey. He will abuse her if she allows it. He seems ...
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| How do you know? | 4/10/2008 |
Q: I just have a simple question. How do you know when someone is abusive?
A: Eva, Look up the term, codependent. Here is an article I cut and pasted from the website, "Soul ...
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| emotional abuse/physical | 4/8/2008 |
Q: I have been in a realationaship w/ a man 10 years younger than me for 2 years. And we have ...
A: Monique, you go to the police right away. Do not play with one who threatens. Threatening you is ...
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| is it love or not | 4/2/2008 |
Q: I have been married to my husband just over a year now, but whenever he is annoyed/angry at ...
A: From what you are saying, Tracy, for your husband, divorce seems to be a ready option for resolution ...
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| Eugenia Please Help! THANK U!!!! | 4/1/2008 |
Q: First of all thank you so much for taking in my question. I am under a lot of duress, and issues. My ...
A: Priscilla, Your companion evidently has unresolved issues, whether with himself, or with the mother ...
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| Pease hlep!!!! | 4/1/2008 |
Q: So I've been with my boy friend for a year and a half now and we seem to always fight about lots of ...
A: Codie, When I read your letter I googled, "Tolerating an abusive relationship". I was thinking, ...
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| I can't make up my mind. | 4/1/2008 |
Q: Please help me. My boyfriend of 2.5 years completed his graduation from abroad, then came back ...
A: Gemi, This was your first relationship, and you, of course, wanted to make it work. You saw him, ...
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| Bi-Polar Ruined Marriage | 3/31/2008 |
Q: Dr. Springer: I am a 31yof from an abusive childhood and suffering from bipolar disorder.When my ...
A: Sheri, We can live only one moment at a time. Fear would have us anticipate, and feel overwhelmed ...
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| Am I in an abusive relationship? | 3/29/2008 |
Q: I have a girlfriend whom I'm with for almost 3 years now. There was a small hint of trouble at the ...
A: James, Sorry for the delay in responding. I have been reflecting on this letter, seeking to ...
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| How to handle abusive boyfriend? | 3/26/2008 |
Q: we live together in August of 2007 he started getting mentally abusive I remained calm until ...
A: Kristina, Are you saying that for seven years you and your boyfriend had a good relationship, and ...
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| a girl i like is in a bad relation ship | 3/24/2008 |
Q: well this girl i like is always smiling and blushing when im near her and i think she likes me back ...
A: Trevor, What are you saying--is it that you need to know how to have this girl recognize that you ...
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| Alcoholic Fiance Wants an Enabler | 3/24/2008 |
Q: I currently live with my 33-year-old fiance. He's a professional man with a MBA and a good job. He ...
A: Lynn, Are you being unreasonable by refusing to be an enabler? I think you know the answer to ...
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| difficult marraige | 3/20/2008 |
Q: Iam in a confused state of mind and & terribly feeling low and dejected so i kind of need to vent ...
A: Puja, From what you say, you have tried to be a good wife. Many of us learned that it is our duty ...
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| Involved in Abuse, what to do? | 3/17/2008 |
Q: Eugenia. Here it goes; I finally became part of the abuse physically and verbally. This weekend my ...
A: Rather than recommend a book I would suggest that you read up on codependency. Enter "Codependent ...
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| mentally abusive | 3/11/2008 |
Q: How do I try to get my husband to understand that the way he talks to the kids and myself and his ...
A: Sandra, Once you agree that you have understood him, you tell him, "thank you, for sharing." If he ...
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| mentally abusive | 3/11/2008 |
Q: How do I try to get my husband to understand that the way he talks to the kids and myself and his ...
A: Sandra, how about changing your response to him. This could be difficult, but instead of reacting ...
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| abuse | 3/11/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and i have been dating now for almost a year and a 1/2. I'm 19 and he's 21 and we moved ...
A: Alison, I am sorry that you feel so lonely that you felt you had to push yourself on to this young ...
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| mentally abusive | 3/7/2008 |
Q: How do I try to get my husband to understand that the way he talks to the kids and myself and his ...
A: Sandra, One way you can possibly get your husband to understand that the way he talks to the kids ...
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| abusive husband | 3/6/2008 |
Q: I know I am emotionally and mentally abused- the physical abuse started mild and is escalating- I am ...
A: Lisa, It helps to talk. As you open up your heart to others, and talk about your burden, you ...
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| controlling relationship | 3/5/2008 |
Q: I have been seeing this guy for a year and a half. It started off on the wrong foot. He told me ...
A: Oh Amanda, Life! It is a challenge, isn't it? And the challenge is not in the things that happen ...
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| 6yr marriage with child involved | 3/3/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 6 yrs. We have been together a total of 13 yrs. My husband turned a complete ...
A: Annalisa, Your husband needs help. Emotional abuse is damaging. It can break a person's spirit, ...
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| possessiveness | 2/29/2008 |
Q: i am in a terrible relationship. my partner has become a pain in the neck. he stalks me and get ...
A: Sarah, It seems to me that you could be in danger. Are you living with this man? Your ...
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| relationship and money | 2/29/2008 |
Q: I have been in this relationship for 10 years. During those ten years I have worked full time and ...
A: Lee, Sometimes, in cases like yours, I ask myself, what is marriage about, if not about love? And ...
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| abusive husband | 2/28/2008 |
Q: I know I am emotionally and mentally abused- the physical abuse started mild and is escalating- I am ...
A: Lisa, I have seen your follow-up. As a victim of prolonged abuse, you might say you could still get ...
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| abusive husband | 2/24/2008 |
Q: I know I am emotionally and mentally abused- the physical abuse started mild and is escalating- I am ...
A: Lisa, Classic case of the abusive relationship. The isolation, attack on your self esteem, the ...
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| Daughter's unhealthy relationship | 2/22/2008 |
Q: I really feel that I need to run this situation by someone who is an expert so here goes. Back in ...
A: Leslie, Sorry for the delay in responding to you. I had problems with my Internet service. I can ...
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| hi | 2/21/2008 |
Q: Please answer what u can as this is a cross and inter disciplinary question. And I don’t expect u to ...
A: Call Social Services. They will take care of all your concerns. My heart goes out to the mother, ...
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| My married friend is being abused | 2/20/2008 |
Q: My friend and her husband were visiting over the weekend from out of town. They got into a fight ...
A: Stacy, Frustration is no excuse for abuse. Your friend could be letting embarrassment keep her ...
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| Weird? | 2/19/2008 |
Q: I hope you can help me.I dated this guy about a year back.We dated for only a couple weeks.It kinda ...
A: Carni, Your life is still yours. This man might be a nice guy, as a friend. But his approach to ...
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| datin problems | 2/17/2008 |
Q: me and this girl like each other.. but were both scared cuz of the guy she is with.. i mean ... he's ...
A: Todd, People usually care a whole lot about their intimate relationships. The right thing would be ...
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| Abusive husband Need help ! | 2/15/2008 |
Q: Your question was I am writing this mail in the hope probably i get to understand what is going on ...
A: Mahdvi, I am so sorry. I saw your original letter back on my site, but did not realize that you had ...
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| Emotional Abuse | 2/14/2008 |
Q: I am in a situation where I need some clarity about what I am facing. To keep this short, a person ...
A: Vanessa, This older man you care about has a history of being a sexual molester and a spouse ...
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| staying away from emotionally abusive men | 2/12/2008 |
Q: Well, to start with, I am 37 years old. I was raised in a "broken" home, there was a NASTY divorce, ...
A: Wendy, The payoff is the attention, no matter how trickling or how toxic. The rejected child ...
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| Confused... | 2/9/2008 |
Q: My problem is this... I don’t live with my parents,( I’m 23 years old, female) but sometimes I ...
A: Jenna, it is obvious that you are bothered by what you think may be your parents' sexual behavior ...
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| relationship | 2/6/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 11 years but I believe that I deserve to be loved better than this. My ...
A: Angel, of course you want to be in a loving, mutually respecting relationship, and you deserve to ...
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