| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Boyfriend hit me when drunk | 2/4/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: I've been in a relationship with this man, who is 24 (and I am 23) for about 7 months. He is ...
A: your boyfriend has hidden problems that he is not able to speak about when he is sober. Therapy ...
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| Unhappy marriage | 1/30/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I have been married for 5 months to a man I have not even known for a year. When we met we thought ...
A: Marie, I am not sure why you continue to go back to him when he says things are over. Is your ...
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| controlling behavior?? | 1/29/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: I have been with my man for almost a year, on and off at the beginning. I feel like I am slowly ...
A: I a not sure I understand the problem. Your friend is making his limits clear what he willing to ...
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| abusive relationship and divorce | 1/29/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: I will try to make this brief. My husband and I have been married for 17 years and together for 23 ...
A: 23 years is a long time for both of you together. Their maybe lots of things in the relationship ...
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| is this controlling behavior? or abuse? | 1/28/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: I feel that maybe i am being controlled and emotionally abused by my boyfriend. He had two children ...
A: sorry for your difficulties. The problem is not you the problem is your boyfriend. You cannot be a ...
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| help | 1/24/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: i am in troublue rite nw n hope u can jst giv som meaniful advice . am in lov wid a guy n want to ...
A: If this is what you want then I suggest that you seek some help with your boyfriend in therapy. You ...
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| abusive boyfriend | 1/21/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: I have an abusive boyfriend. He lives in my home and moved 2 hours away from his family to be with ...
A: There are government agency that specialize in problems such as yours. There are homes for abusive ...
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| abusive boyfriend | 1/21/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: I have an abusive boyfriend. He lives in my home and moved 2 hours away from his family to be with ...
A: I am sorry for your difficulty right now. Can you get away without your boyfriend knowing about it? ...
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| lies. | 1/20/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I have a problem with lying to the woman that I love and it is about unimportant things. It is ...
A: Bruce, As long as you view your wife as someone out to punish you then you will continue to lie. ...
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| Is he abusive, or is he just angry? | 1/20/2008 | Dwayne Anderson |
Q: I married my husband Jacob in July of 2007. Not that I think we argue more than any other couple ...
A: this definately sounds like abuse. Abuse can come in several forms: physical: what you're ...
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| boyfriend issues | 1/18/2008 | Dwayne Anderson |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, I have lived with him for a couple months in ...
A: some abusers such as your boyfriend have a history of being abused themselves. If he's abusing you, ...
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| what to do............ | 1/17/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: I have been married for over 10 years to my husband who I just separated from in October. For the ...
A: You have had a lot of problems, where do we start? You were getting many signs from him and you did ...
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| Angry wife | 1/15/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: My wife and I have been together for over a year. Her moods changes when my family contacts me, ...
A: Please this is not about you. If your wife was married with someone else she would do the same ...
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| Family Violence | 1/14/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: I am the brother of someone being abused and I don't know how to help her. My sister has been ...
A: it is not easy to see a family member getting hurt and feel like your hands are tied. For this is ...
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| abusive Husband | 1/13/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I 48 and have been in a mental and physical mariage for 6yrs. We do not have children. My husband is ...
A: Gayle, As long as you don't give yourself options you can't do much. I would suggest you move in ...
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| I need help | 1/9/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: I have been married for a little over 2 years. My husband is a pastor and has one daughter from a ...
A: sorry to hear about your difficulties in your life. You saw the problems before you enter in this ...
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| friend in controlling relationship | 1/6/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: first of all I have a daughter that was in this same type of relationship, and I co-worker that is ...
A: If you wish to be a friend then support him in whatever decision he makes, he is not ready to ...
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| controlling relationships | 1/6/2008 | james52144@earthlink.net |
Q: my name is Amy and I'm 28 years old. I have been with my fiance for 4 years now and most of it has ...
A: I would have a chat with your fiance about his behavior. If it isn't working for you, you should ...
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| controlling relationships | 1/5/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: my name is Amy and I'm 28 years old. I have been with my fiance for 4 years now andmost of it has ...
A: I am sorry for you and the situation you are in. I am sure it is not an easy decision for you to ...
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| Abusive Husband | 1/5/2008 | Dwayne Anderson |
Q: My husband has a rough past with alcohol. Anytime he drinks he gets very violent. A couple weeks ...
A: alcohol can affect one's actions or judgment. Even if he's beating you under the influence, it's ...
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| Battered woman | 1/5/2008 | james52144@earthlink.net |
Q: I've been involved with a woman, for 8 months now, that had been abused for 20 years, by her ex. I ...
A: Yes, it is entirely possible that she would abuse you. I would remember the source of your ...
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| How Can I Help My Daughter | 1/4/2008 | Dwayne Anderson |
Q: My daughter is in a verbally abusive relationship. I have tried talking to her but she doesn't want ...
A: if she's being verbally abused, then she should get out of this relationship. She needs to know that ...
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| Husband and son are ganging up on me | 1/3/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: I have a 17 year old son, and 2 daughters. My husband and son have similar interests now that he is ...
A: Your husband wants to be accepted by his son, your job would be to get your husband alone maybe go ...
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| controlling relationships | 1/2/2008 | Francis Hosein |
Q: I have been dating my boyfriend Scott, for the past 3 years on and off. When we started dating I ...
A: the question is do you want to do someting about your relationship, are you willing to take a step ...
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| touching me in my sleep | 1/1/2008 | james52144@earthlink.net |
Q: James, I a just out of an 8 year relationship with a guy who was a lovely person in many ways, very ...
A: It is up to you to decide how and when someone touches you. Many women find it erotic to wake up to ...
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| Emotionally Abused | 12/24/2007 | Francis Hosein |
Q: i am a young woman turning 30 in the coming year. i have been married for 8 years but have known ...
A: You give another person power over you all in the name of sacrifice. What role model do you have for ...
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| STRANGE CALLS WEIRD VIBES???? | 12/24/2007 | Francis Hosein |
Q: My boyfriend Ricky and I broke up. He has a girlfriend now, named Karen. I have never called him but ...
A: Please note that Ricky's girl friend is jealous of you and the relationship you had with Ricky. It ...
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| Abusive bf | 12/19/2007 | Dwayne Anderson |
Q: I'm 16 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. At first he was ...
A: rape is a serious sexual offense that is also a crime against women. If he has hurt you in any way, ...
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| is it me or him? | 12/19/2007 | Francis Hosein |
Q: I am really at the point where I am starting to question my sanity with my son's father. We have ...
A: It is important that you remember why you left him in the first place. You need to put yourself ...
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| destroying photos | 12/18/2007 | David Simonsen |
Q: I am about to get a divorce (in Jan) to a man that is extremely emotionally abusive to me. We have ...
A: Jen, You could destroy those things, but i assume there are more memories on those things than just ...
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| what do I do? | 12/17/2007 | Dr. Tyler |
Q: I am 21 years old, I have been with the father of my two childrenm, who are 2 and 3, off and on for ...
A: I am very glad you asked. I have reviewed your situation and I deal with many patients in similar ...
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| Please Help! | 12/15/2007 | Dr. Tyler |
Q: Dr. Taylor, I really need some help. In spite of myself I fell in love with someone who I believe ...
A: I have reviewed your question thoroughly and I have gone over many possible situations and outcomes ...
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| very severe obsessive compulsive disorder and abuse | 12/14/2007 | Francis Hosein |
Q: Is it accurate for me to judge my husband when he is extremely abusive to me in all ...
A: Yes you are right in leaving, it is time you make your boundaries clear with this person. If he ...
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| Abuse | 12/13/2007 | Dwayne Anderson |
Q: Dwayne, My daughter 22, started seeing a man (her age?) They have spent time together going on 3 ...
A: whenever people are in abusive relationships, the best thing do to is to seek professional help and ...
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| stuck | 12/13/2007 | Francis Hosein |
Q: Hosein, I have been in a relationship now for seven years. We have two kids together. I feel like ...
A: sometimes we all have to go through difficulties to learn from it, congratulations on seeing the ...
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| abusive relationship | 12/10/2007 | Azure |
Q: I have been seeing this man for seven years. We have lived together for five. We are a mixed family ...
A: you need to make a plan for leaving...consider family/friends who can help, maybe who you can stay ...
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| leave me husband? | 12/9/2007 | Azure |
Q: my husband and i have been married for almost a year, he went to boot camp(for the marines) right ...
A: first, stop talking about love unless you're a lover of pain/suffering; this is unhealthy addiction, ...
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| what do I do? | 12/6/2007 | David Simonsen |
Q: I have been in a relationship with the father of my son for almost 2 years. My son is 11 months. ...
A: And all the while your 11 month-old is stuck with the both of you. Doesn't that seem a bit unfair. ...
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| Friend Returning For More Abuse | 12/5/2007 | David Simonsen |
Q: I have a friend who has been in an abusive relationship on and off for about 9 years. He is abusive ...
A: Lindsey, You can't do anything. If you haven't seen that by now you need to take the blinders off. ...
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| crazy boyfriend | 12/4/2007 | David Simonsen |
Q: My boyfriend is in jail because i called the cops on him one night. I wanted to see him suffer and b ...
A: Caroline, So what crazy voice in your heart is telling you to stay with him? I would stop listening ...
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