Expert: Azure - 5/29/2006

Question
I am 17 and my boyfriend is 20. We have known each other since I was 14, it has been quite a tumultus relationship- and he does not trust me because when we have broken up I have kissed other people. He says that my vagina feels different, but I have never ever had sex with anyone else. He accuses me of being a slag and cheating on him but I never have. How can I make him trust me? Can my vagina feel different if I haven't cheated? I feel like I am going crazy.

Answer
he's just being a jerk, trying to give you some guilt trip so you'll "confess"; these possessive, controlling, irrational types only get worse; INFORM him that the next time he accuses you about ANYTHING without positive proof, or makes a comment about your vagina, you AND your vagina will be long gone; that should solve the problem, as he'll either keep quiet or continue being a jerk, in which case you'll hopefully realize it and leave..