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I know much about abusive relationships as I have some with members of my family. Come to me if you need assistance with your relationship problems.

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Abusive Relationships - marriage


Expert: Dwayne Anderson - 1/19/2007

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I have been dating a man for 8yrs and I want to be married and have at one child.  He has been married, as a matter of fact he still is..but he didn't get a divorce yet, they have been seperated for at least 10 years, he also already has two children.  He is a goog man,strong, intelligent, handsome and good, but we don't live together, we dont have any children and I don't feel he is making any moves to moving on to the next level.  How do I tell him it is over for good and make him understand why without hurting him, be mindful, it has been 8 years and I do love him....or should I continue to be patient and wait for him??

Answer
even though he and his wife are separated, they are still legally married, at least until they divorce. If he isn't moving onto the next step of your relationship, then he must still have some devotion to his other family. If nothing changes, leave this relationship ASAP.

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