Expert: Azure - 10/5/2005

Question
me and my boyfriend have been together for 3yrs ,he is controlling,jealous,and many say out of control.
i have been beaten more than once, i have been abused in all the wrong ways by him emotionally,mentally etc...
im trying to end it all b/c im tired of all the accusations,jealousy,arguments,being disrespected, adn more than ever i want out b/c im pregnant with his child and i have a bad feeling i know he wont hurt the child, but i dont want her to see him mistreat me, adn thats what will happen, when i leave, like for instance im at home with my mother now, im 21 he is 19 , im happy but he wants me to sit on the phone all day, he wants me to come back every weekend,and the other day he threatened to kill himself b/c i wasnt there, he has tried be4, im scared of what he might do b/c he says im his first love and he has threatened my life more than once he has strangled me,beat me, spit on me, everything, im uneasy and depressed but its like im alone do u have a website that offers support, and any advice for me,,even though im away im frightened to a certain extent b/c he has something wrong with him,a nd when he drinks its 1000times worst  

Answer
too late for website help; this is a case of extreme abuse, involving essentially assault and battery; you should abstain from all contact, tell authorities like the police, get a restraining order, and begin protecting yourself from this maniac; enlisting the help of any friends or family wouldn't hurt either;