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About Teenie
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I would like to help men that have been or are abused by their women. Women are not the only victims. It is not everyday you hear about men getting abused, and I would like to help. I also was abused myself. I would also like to help men who are ready to enter a new relationship by giving them advice on signs of a potential abuser.

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I have been abused myself twice.

 
   

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Topic: Abusive Relationships



Expert: Teenie
Date: 3/28/2004
Subject: unreasonably angry wife

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My wife is a person who makes sarcastic remarks about me, pointing my faults, little things that are not destructive of abusive.  When I calmly bring up the fact that I don't care to be treated like that, she will downplay how I feel or gets angry and throws the blame back on me.  I am basically a quiet people-pleasing person and non-confrontational.  The marriage is 2 and one-half years old and has been going on since the beginning.  I am first time marriage.  I plan on moving out soon, and will give her a chance by not divorcing right away.  Is this the right way to handle the problem?  Being Mr. Wonderful Forgiving has not worked.

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Greetings, Tom:
I say forget that and divorce her right away because she's not going to change. In fact, she may get worse as time goes on. Also, get counseling.

If you need anything new or further, don't hesitate to contact me. I thank you for contacting me.

Take Care,
Teenie

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