Expert: David Simonsen - 10/29/2007

Question
I Have been doing the friends with benefits thing with a guy (that i truly have now fallen for) for about 4 months now. I had just gotten out of a really long relationship with my first love right before i met this guy i am with no. So i went in to it with a lot of caution. The first month was amazing! The second month in is when we decided to just be the friends with benefits. However that's when the trouble started, we started to see less and less of each other, and he has became very good at making up excuses. This month (month 4) i have seen him once. and the only time he calls i when he wants me to come over so we can have sex. Then other days he calls and tells me how he wants to go to dinner or the movies, and he will by me flowers, and tells me all this sweet stuff and then doesn't ever call again...... am i being used as a whore?

Answer
Amanda,
To answer your questions shortly no, whores get paid. If you accept payment then you would be considered a whore. One could say you are being an unpaid whore. It is fairly obvious you are being used. I would encourage you to get out of this relationship altogether.
David