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Question My husband and I have been happily married for 28 years. The past few months his boss has been bullying him. We have discussed this and I have been very supportive. Lately, he has been over-reacting to things and starts yelling and jumping up & down,really angry then I get the silent treatment and so does my 3yr old grandson to is with us. The last time it lasted for 3 days with no apology or discussions,except from me even though I didn't feel I did anything. This time was worse,We were away and his cat died(21yrs old & sick)He blames my daughter who was suppose to ck on her. He started screaming, etc.,disowned our daughter and has again been giving me the silent treatment. This time he started sleeping in guest room. Hours before all this evrything was fine. I'm confused and hurt. I don't know what to do. How can I resolve this?
Answer 3 options--a) completely ignore him/his behavior..without the "fuel" of your reaction, it should dissipate; b) INFORM hm the immature behavior is no longer acceptable, and that if wants to remain married, it needs to change, or he needs to agree to counseling; if a doesn't work, go to b--if still no cooperation after b, then c would be analyzing if you/your offspring, really want to remain in such an unhealthy arrangement..
