Acting in Plays, Singing/Lead singer in a band
Expert: Sean Martinfield - 4/22/2010
QuestionMe and two other girls tried out for the role of lead singer in a band that we formed with some friends. At the tryout, a bunch of people told me I was really good and one of the two girls judging said I had an amazing voice. One person said I was the best, and not to brag, but I'm pretty sure I was...the other two girls arent nearly as good at singing as I am. I found out today that the other two girls are going to alternate backup and lead, and I got cut. They said I wouldn't be able to do it because I'm a competitive figure skater, and it would be "too big of a commitment." Out band practices are on Sundays, and I don't even skate those days! Plus, the other two girls are in dance and soccer...and out lead guitarist plays varsity lacrosse. I'm so upset! I don't know what to do...any advice on impressing them and earning my rightful role as lead singer?
AnswerHello, Allie –
Thank you for the question.
I'm a huge fan of competitive ice skating. If you are a serious competitor, then you know all about the daily practice sessions and other related exercise and maintenance activities involved. As a professional musician, I know all about the daily practice sessions and other related exercise and maintenance activities involved in keeping up my vocal chops, my competitive edge at auditions, building repertoire, delivering the goods at a performance, etc.
Every band is defined by its lead singer. That person is the first among Equals. In many bands, the lead singer is also the composer/writer. Perhaps the band you auditioned for already has a certain amount of material ready to go. For sure, everyone wants just the right person to be in the spotlight in order to sell it. That is a huge commitment.
Perhaps you do have an amazing voice. If so, then get out there and sing! No one has the corner on creating a band. Start making plans to produce a demo CD – about five samples of your best material. If your heart is leaning toward becoming a professional singer, then it's time to hang up the skates and become the best musician you know and be ready to compete against every other female lead band singer for gigs and all the free publicity you can get. That is a full-time job – no matter who you sing with and especially if you want to pursue a solo career. Along the way, you will also learn that fellow band members come and go and can be replaced.
Rejection is a fact of life in the Performing Arts. Get used to it. There are no guarantees and the line is wrapped around the block with those eager to compete against you.
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