AboutJan Edward Williams Expertise all questions related to drug or alcohol addiction, except those requiring the expertise of a physician or those relating to mental health problems apart from addiction. See my web site: http://www.alcoholdrugsos.com
Experience I have been working as a licensed addictions counselor for 28 years and am in recovery myself for 30 years
Organizations Licensed Clinical Professional Counselors Maryland
Maryland Addictions Professional Certification Board
Education/Credentials MS Counseling
Licensed Clinical Alcohol and Drug Counselor, Maryland
Expert: Jan Edward Williams Date: 1/14/2008 Subject: Best Friend in trouble with Alcohol
Question My best friend of 35 years called me the other night and confessed she has a drinking problem. I am beyond shocked. How could I not know? To the outside world she is the perfect wife and mother. Later, her oldest daughter called and really filled me in. She cried and begged me for help. Their family is in tatters, her husband has given up. My friend has been there for me through thick and thin. I thought I was the only one who has problems, she was always my rock. I am now desperate to help her and protect her children. Where do I start? I don't even know if she wants to stop. Should I try to find her a therapist? I don't think she would ever agree to a public forum such as AA. What should I do? She is also the child of an Alcoholic.
Thanks.
Answer Hello Joan,
Alcoholism is often a silent disorder except for those living with the individual, as indicated in your question. It's great that you wish to help her. It sounds as if she does need treatment. I recommend that she seek help from a therapist or treatment program with specific expertise in addictions, not just a psychotherapist, psychologist or psychiatrist. Addictions, including alcoholism, need direct treatment not just therapy for emotional issues. Here is a treatment locator: http://findtreatment.samhsa.gov/. I do recommend AA highly: http://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org/.
