Expert: Beverley Glazer - 3/11/2009

Question
Hi Todd,
My name is Amanda and I have decided to stop drinking. I took an evaluation at a recovery center and have decided to seek therapy as well as attend regular AA meetings.  Drinking had become a tool in my life to deal with other issues.
 Being newly sober, I have missed 3 days of work deciding on what would be the best path to my sobriety.  My main problem is my job. I wanted advice from someone about whether or not returning as a bartender this early in the process is even a possibility, now or in the future. We definetley struggle financially (especially with the new therapy costs).
 I do want to go back to school, but need a current job!
 Thanks for listening,
          Amanda

Answer
Hi Amanda,

Beverley here - Congratulations on your decision to change your life by going to meetings and getting counseling. This is a start to a whole new life.

Once you get used to the membership of AA, choose a sponsor to reach out to and do the 12 steps with her. This process is important to deal with emotional issues.
These are the steps:

http://www.untwist-your-thinking.com/12-step-program-of-aa.html

You're right to be concerned about returning to your job as a bartender. At this time, your much to new in sobriety to subject yourself in this way - regardless of the money.

It would be a better idea to become a waitress in a high end restaurant where you can get good tips. You'll still be serving drinks, but alcohol won't be the focus of your job.

A bar should be the last place to consider.


Hope this information is helpful.
Thank you for asking All Experts,

Best of luck!!

Bev
http://www.untwist-your-thinking.com