Expert: james52144@earthlink.net - 8/1/2010

Question
My husband is a very kind, humorous, and caring man until he drinks vodka. He drinks between 10:30am until about 12:00pm when
he eats lunch, takes a nap, then drinks again. He becomes angry and sometimes I even think another personality comes out because this side I really can't handle, he's so different! I would greatly appreciate your insight on if he has a problem or do I?

Answer
Anyone that drinks before lunch on a regular basis might be considered to have a drinking problem. Obviously he has some repressed anger he has not dealt with. You may wish to attend Alanon, a support group that helps victims of alcoholics. Good luck.