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SubjectDate AskedExpert
help12/13/2011Charlie H
  Q: Gday Charlie, I am in love with a woman that drinks almost daily and quite heavily. I do not know ...
  A: I'm sorry for your pain and am glad you wrote. You are not as lost as you feel. That you asked for ...
alcoholic boyfriend12/11/2011Druideck
  Q: I've wrote to you twice before, asking about how to deal with my boyfriend's alcohol problem and the ...
  A: I can understand your confusion as it can sometimes be very difficult to see what is happening to us ...
alcoholic boyfriend12/10/2011Druideck
  Q: I've wrote to you twice before, asking about how to deal with my boyfriend's alcohol problem and the ...
  A: It is the first steps to recovery that are the hardest. By going on with your own life you have ...
Need help!12/3/2011Di English
  Q: Greetings of the day, I am not aware of anything to do with alcohol as this is the first case I have ...
  A: You are not alone in having fear and reservations about marrying this man that who you understand to ...
need help figuring this out.11/28/2011Clyde
  Q: My boyfriend is now 2 years sober. we were together for almost 2 years before he stopped drinking ...
  A: Melissa, Thank you for your questions. They are very valid ones coming from the other side of ...
Violent Single Incident, Peaceful At All Other Times11/23/2011Di English
  Q: I have been with my boyfriend for one year, and we have had ups and downs due to his alcoholism (of ...
  A: It’s never a good thing to hear about someone who has been physically abusive whilst under the ...
Living with an adult alcoholic 38 yr old son11/22/2011Di English
  Q: My husband and I are so tired and feel so torn down by our son Chris,he has been drinking for about ...
  A: I am very sorry to hear your sad story and I can relate to everything you have said. Alcoholism is a ...
living life11/20/2011Erin Madigan Stathis, LMHC, NCC
  Q: my husband drinks almost nightly by himself before he comes home in the evening. it seems he has ...
  A: Unfortunately, I get it a lot. The fact is, what you are describing is not something that will go ...
i think my boyfriend is an alcoholic11/19/2011Beverley Glazer
  Q: ive been with my boyfrind on and off for 3 years anad all those years ive known that he drinks ...
  A: It's obvious that your boyfriend has a problem, however, it's not obvious to him. This is what we ...
Alcoholism11/19/2011james52144@earthlink.net
  Q: I have a boyfriend whom says he is an alcoholic. I am not sure if he is or not. I know he drinks a ...
  A: Only the drinker knows whether they are an alcoholic or not. An alcoholic is someone that can't stop ...
son11/19/2011Peter L.
  Q: I am worried about my 23yr old son. His father was an alcoholic and we separated when he was13. My ...
  A: There is much evidence of a genetic component to alcoholism, but there are also many people who have ...
Helping and coping with a recovering alcoholic11/16/2011Beverley Glazer
  Q: I have been dating Dave for 7 months, and from the beginning he has gotten (severely) drunk at least ...
  A: Bev here. Your question has not been answered for quite awhile, so I picked it up. You sound like a ...
30 days sober11/12/2011Jurriaan Plesman, Nutritional Psychotherapist
  Q: I went to my AA meeting last night to celebrate my 30 days and to receive my 30 day chip. My husband ...
  A: I don't know, but whatever it is, it seems to be good sign. In addition to AA I suggest you should ...
aging alcoholic father, never in recovery11/11/2011Beverley Glazer
  Q: My father is 75 years old. He has been drinking since his early 20s and has never stopped drinking ...
  A: Your father is an alcoholic. Since he's been drinking all these years, he has a very high tolerance, ...
son11/10/2011Beverley Glazer
  Q: I just read you response to a parent of an alcoholic . I to have a 37 yr old who continues to go to ...
  A: Not 'helping' a troubled child, whether he/she is an adult or not is one of the most difficult ...
coping with alcoholic girlfriend11/6/2011Andrew Park
  Q: Ive been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half and she is an alcoholic. I have been trying ...
  A: Jeff, it sure feels unfair, and I can well understand your reaction. Your girlfriend, should be ...
Alcoholic sister and drug addition family11/4/2011Leigh, BS, QMHP, QMRP
  Q: my sister and I grew up in an drug affected family home with pills drugs and alcohol to make a long ...
  A: Have you tried Al-anon. It's a support group group of for loved ones that have alcoholics in their ...
Relapse10/31/2011Clyde
  Q: I am writing on behalf of my boyfriend. His story is he was a heavy alcoholic since the age of 18 ...
  A: Lisa, Thank you for your questions. your boyfriend is discovering that "once an alcoholic, ...
my best friend10/31/2011Peter L.
  Q: my best friend has been a alcoholic for the past 10 years. in july of this year he went into ...
  A: Antibuse has been around for quite a while, and has not turned out to be the "silver bullet" its ...
Wife of a Recovered Alcoholic10/27/2011Clyde
  Q: I am a wife of a recovered alcoholic. My husband and I were married in July, 2010, we dated a year ...
  A: Jessica, Thank you for your story and for the questions. These are, unfortunately, very common ...
alchoholism/mental illness?10/26/2011Peter L.
  Q: My brother has struggled with life ever since I remember. Growing up in a very unstable home with ...
  A: One resource I refer people to often is this piece called the The Addict's Dilemma: ...
alcoholic husband10/18/2011Clyde
  Q: My husband was in outpatient treatment for 2 months, relapsed, drank for another 2 months, detoxed ...
  A: Mary, Thank you for your question. Firstly, let me say that you are doing everything right. Do ...
recovered alcohol and relationships10/15/2011Beverley Glazer
  Q: Ms. Glazer, I had been in a relationship with a now 20 year recovered alcoholic. He also was ...
  A: It's really not possible to say how a recovering alcoholic with multiple cross addictions might ...
Relapse after Years of Sobriety - Our Family in jeopardy10/11/2011Steven T. Brittain
  Q: My question is a little different from the ones I have read here. Both my husband and I were sober. ...
  A: As you are aware an addict thinks different for the normies out there. They are controlling, ...
How Long Alcohol Stays in One's System10/1/2011james52144@earthlink.net
  Q: James, I read an answer you wrote that said alcohol stays in the system up to a year. That shocked ...
  A: Physically, it takes the body an average of one hour per oz of alcohol to metabolize alcohol. This ...
Statements about Addictive behaviors10/1/2011Beverley Glazer
  Q: Overheard a person in the healthcare field state that her job as a healthcare professional was ...
  A: Coming from 17+ years of recovery the word 'addictive' would be very negative for you. Of all ...
Emotional Cutoff in Early Recovery9/30/2011Clyde
  Q: Clyde, Thank you for your wisdom and insight. I met and fell in love with a wonderful guy about 2 ...
  A: Anna, Thank you for your questions and for the superb narrative on the situation as it developed ...
health improvements9/22/2011james52144@earthlink.net
  Q: I am 52. I have recently found the motivation to quit drinking, and have begun a healthier lifestyle ...
  A: I am told that alcohol stays in your system for as long as a year. Most people start to see ...
physical recovery9/22/2011Peter L.
  Q: Peter I am 52. I have recently found the motivation to quit drinking, and have begun a healthier ...
  A: Always like to hear from Canadians, and you live in a part of the country I'd love to visit ...
From Recovery to a New Addiction9/22/2011Clyde
  Q: I have been in a very serious relationship for the past 7 months and it has been wonderful. We have ...
  A: DLP, Once a person crosses the line in addictive behavior they will have a very difficult time ...
dating an aa old-timer9/21/2011Clyde
  Q: I am an alcoholic woman with 2 yrs in the AA program. I have not been in a relationship for the ...
  A: Traci, The question of dating a person who has longevity in sobriety is best answered by ...
Recovering Alcoholic Living with Alcoholic Partner9/21/2011Beverley Glazer
  Q: When my boyfriend and I first met, I was the more alcoholic partner. We didn't live together and he ...
  A: As you know, no one can stop anyone from drinking. In your case, you had a wake-up call when you ...
son9/15/2011Druideck
  Q: On Aug. 17 I posted a question to you concerning my adult son. Your answer helped me not feel as ...
  A: I do not know any words that can soften your loss. It is important to allow your feelings to be ...
HELP9/15/2011Beverley Glazer
  Q: My boyfriend is 26 years old. We have been together for 3 years, we broke up for 6 months after he ...
  A: It seems that your boyfriend doesn't want to give up drinking and although he says he 'loves you', ...
Use of Alcohol9/13/2011Beverley Glazer
  Q: My husband recently quit drinking after an incident of Severe Alcohol Withdrawal. Since the ...
  A: Your husband is right. He is the only one who is responsible for drinking, however, both you and ...
Alcoholic Loved One9/11/2011Peter L.
  Q: My boyfriend of 3 hrs and the father of my 2 children is a serious alcoholic. We both have pretty ...
  A: I don't mean this in a demeaning way, but I get so many questions similar to yours that I thought I ...
Questions about if I have a drinking problem9/10/2011Druideck
  Q: I know that this is something I have to answer for myself but I'd like your opinion. My father was ...
  A: Let me just say that if you are concerned about your drinking then it is likely becoming a problem ...
Questions about if I have a drinking problem9/10/2011Peter L.
  Q: I know that this is something I have to answer for myself but I'd like your opinion. My father was ...
  A: You seem to have given the matter of your drinking a lot of thought. That's a very good thing. My ...
Questions about if I have a drinking problem9/10/2011Charlie H
  Q: I know that this is something I have to answer for myself but I'd like your opinion. My father was ...
  A: I am sorry for taking the time I did to answer your question. You are right: only you can pronounce ...
Questions about if I have a drinking problem9/10/2011Steven T. Brittain
  Q: I know that this is something I have to answer for myself but I'd like your opinion. My father was ...
  A: 90% of the population can go out and drink socially. The other 10% suffer from addiction. I'm not in ...

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I can answer questions on all addictive behaviors: alcohol, drugs, food, compulsive sex, codependency, gambling, compulsive shoplifting etc.

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I have over 20 years experience working in the addiction field. My experience extends to all levels of substance abuse. I've worked in rehabs and detox centers, prisons and half-way houses and have a busy private practice as well as an active website where I can be reached for recovery coaching and consultation. I am a cognitive behavioral therapist, but 12-step programs are an excellent support. When working in the addiction field, there is no cookie-cutter solution. In the recovery field, you witness miracles. That's why I love what I do.

Organizations
NAADAC The Association for Addiction Professionals, CACCF Canadian Addiction Counselors Federation, CCA Canadian Counseling Association, For more information please see: http://www.untwist-your-thinking.com

Education/Credentials
BA Psychology, MA Counseling Psychology, ICADC International Alcohol and Drug Counselor, ICAC International Clinical Addiction Counselor, CGC Certified Gambling Counselor.

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