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| Subject | Date Asked |
| treatment | 2/6/2012 |
| Q: In the story I am writing, someone on the street has taken too much cocaine or has had a back ... A: Sorry for the late response! I'm assuming you meant "bad" reaction to cocaine rather than "back" ... | |
| Teenage Problems | 1/10/2012 |
| Q: Greetings! Hello Sir, I am Rachel Ann Rempis taking up Mass Communication at Far Eastern University, ... A: In answer to your questions: 1) I think there are strong societal influences in the ways kids ... | |
| Will my support that I will do, be helpful? | 1/4/2012 |
| Q: I have a friend who moved from the East coast to another state quite a distance form where he was. ... A: The last four words of your question preface a lot of my answer: "His welfare comes first". This ... | |
| what can I expect | 12/5/2011 |
| Q: I've been taking Percocet 10/325 for about 4 months. It was supposed to be 4 times a day but I ended ... A: You are going through classic opioid withdrawal symptoms. You can go it alone, and will eventually ... | |
| Adderall Abuse | 11/19/2011 |
| Q: Peter L, I am a Journalism student at Northeastern University. I am writing a paper about ... A: I'd like to help you, but am not sure how to we will be able to establish communication. This is a ... | |
| Lased weed. | 11/15/2011 |
| Q: What are the long term effects that can happen from smoking weed that has been laced with crack? A: Well, both drugs used independently can have long term effects, but I can't really say using them ... | |
| Benzo Withdrawal Seizures | 8/22/2011 |
| Q: L, I was prescribed Alprazolam (Xanax) for an acute panic reaction lasting six weeks. I was told ... A: Kirk, Physicians differ greatly on what approaches they take toward something like a benzo detox. ... | |
| Step-daughter's mother's marijuana use | 8/18/2011 |
| Q: My step-daughter is 22 months old and her father and I have been concerned for quite some time as we ... A: There's a lot of speculation about second-hand marijuana smoke, and if it is a significant factor at ... | |
| Will I pass? | 7/21/2011 |
| Q: my name is Jeremy and I'm 18 years old. I joined the Army back in october and I am leaving for ... A: Today's drug screening tests are very sensitive. It's hard to say if the amount you smoked will ... | |
| meth | 7/6/2011 |
| Q: I want to quit using meth, I have no medical insurance, so im wondering if there is any over the ... A: You have the first thing you need, which is motivation! Coming off addictive drugs can be very ... | |
| Needing to know all of my options | 6/21/2011 |
| Q: First of all thank you for taking the time to read this. I am in a situation that I am not sure ... A: I can see you're trying to do the right thing, and I commend you for that. A lot of my time spend ... | |
| mother-in-law | 6/20/2011 |
| Q: My mother-in-law is 45 years old. She has experienced many misfortunes in her lifetime (rap by ... A: Sorry to hear about the difficulties you're having with your mother-in-law. There's no question she ... | |
| Son addicted to drugs + | 5/17/2011 |
| Q: My son is now 28 years old. He finally graduated college in March of 2010 and has moved back home. ... A: My sense is that your son has been using opioid medications, though you did not specify which ... | |
| spouses | 4/26/2011 |
| Q: I am a new addictions counselor, and while I am fine with most aspects of addiction, and counseling ... A: and I'll do my best to answer it. You are also in a very interesting part of the world that I have ... | |
| 41 year old drug addict living in parent garage | 4/18/2011 |
| Q: For a few years now I have been attempting to convince my husband and his family to do something ... A: It may be time for the tough love scenario, but I wouldn't recommend you be the driving force for ... | |
| 41 year old drug addict living in parent garage | 4/17/2011 |
| Q: For a few years now I have been attempting to convince my husband and his family to do something ... A: Perhaps due to my profile description here on AE, or some other factor, the type of problem you are ... | |
| Need some advice | 4/6/2011 |
| Q: my wife has been dealing with addiction for sometime now. it started about 2 years ago. they were ... A: Sadly, you are seeing first hand how an innocent use of powerful pain medications (opioids) can turn ... | |
| Crack affect sperm | 3/31/2011 |
| Q: My husband uses crack and we have been trying to get pregnant.I don't use and never have! But I was ... A: First, have a frank conversation with him about this. And I'm curious: when did you find out he was ... | |
| Crack affect sperm | 3/28/2011 |
| Q: My husband uses crack and we have been trying to get pregnant.I don't use and never have! But I was ... A: Tell you the truth Megan, I'm wondering how his use will affect you! Why do you tolerate his crack ... | |
| My husband is addicted to Crack | 3/27/2011 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 16 years. We have four children 8 year old twin boys, a 6 ... A: I can see how difficult this has been for you. You are learning first hand about how difficult a ... | |
| heroin | 3/17/2011 |
| Q: I've been married to my husband for 5 years. He took on so much when we got married that I never ... A: My apologies for my slow response. We are seeing a lot of opiate dependence (heroin, pills) in our ... | |
| Safely detoxing | 3/9/2011 |
| Q: less then one week ago. I have been addicted to percocet and have been taking them daily for a long ... A: I am currently working with a pregnant client, and we have her on Subutex. Please google that word ... | |
| Ativan | 3/4/2011 |
| Q: I have been taking 4mg/day Ativan for a few years now. It is the only medication that staves off my ... A: Sorry for my late reply; I've had some catching up to do. Yes, it is difficult to get prescriptions ... | |
| How to Get 19 year old to Rehab | 2/22/2011 |
| Q: I recently found out my 19 year old son has been smoking roxie and/or crack for several months. He ... A: I apologize for the delay in answering you. The situation you describe with your son is obviously ... | |
| husband's addiction | 2/21/2011 |
| Q: I have been married to my husband for 5 yrs. He is a very loving man. We have 5 grown children ... A: I can see how tough a situation this is, and many people have written to me with similar concerns. ... | |
| Energy Drinks | 2/18/2011 |
| Q: I am a student and I am currently working on a project and would like to ask some questions. I am ... A: Energy drinks are a relatively new phenomenon, but we always had stimulants for the same reasons ... | |
| withdrawl from drug abuse | 2/13/2011 |
| Q: My brother-in-law got sick and went to the hospital. He was addicted to cigarettes and a strong pain ... A: Addiction carries some significant physical consequences, and withdrawal is one of them. Nicotine ... | |
| weeed | 2/9/2011 |
| Q: What does smoking Marijuana do to people, psychologically and physiologically? As in, when we smoke ... A: I wish I could tell you why your heart was racing so much. I'm not a doctor, so therefore can't ... | |
| weeed | 2/8/2011 |
| Q: What does smoking Marijuana do to people, psychologically and physiologically? As in, when we smoke ... A: Marijuana is a very interesting drug of abuse, as it has hung out and been used steadily over the ... | |
| Opiate Addict | 1/20/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend became addicted pain pills at a young age when he required surgery. He did go to rehab, ... A: I started in this field working in a methadone program treating heroin addicts, and now, some 27 ... | |
| spouse using drugs | 1/19/2011 |
| Q: I have had an ongoing problem for the past several months. My husband lost his Mom about a year ago ... A: These situations are very, very hard, and I can sympathize with your plight. I have had many a ... | |
| What do we do next with our son | 1/16/2011 |
| Q: 2 years ago our son (Now 21 yrs old) was arrested for possessing OXY. He had been doing pot since ... A: Dual diagnosis conditions are not fully recognized when it comes to mental health or addiction ... | |
| What do we do next with our son | 1/12/2011 |
| Q: 2 years ago our son (Now 21 yrs old) was arrested for possessing OXY. He had been doing pot since ... A: I apologize for my late reply as I've had some catching up to do. The story of your son parallels ... | |
| drugs | 1/9/2011 |
| Q: I have found bic pens taken apart in my teenage sons room - with one end of the empty tube burnt.\r ... A: Hard to say what he's doing with those pens. It could be he's using them as crude pipes to smoke ... | |
| Cocaine make you lose weigt? | 1/7/2011 |
| Q: I am currently doing a project on drug addictions. I chose to do my project on cocaine and is a bit ... A: Well, cocaine is a powerful stimulant drug, and as such will affect appetite not unlike stimulants ... | |
| Two addicts | 1/6/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years. We had used heroin together for a few months ... A: Well, having been there yourself, you know about what addiction does to one's life. Not only that, ... | |
| Oxycontin Relapse | 1/3/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend relapsed on oxycontin after over 2 years of being clean. I had no idea, and for as long ... A: and you are a obviously a very concerned and compassionate person. You are seeing the struggle ... | |
| Drug abuse | 1/2/2011 |
| Q: 19 year old daughter is at the very least smoking a lot of pot. She was recently beat up by ... A: Sounds like a tough situation. Young people like your daughter have a lot of complex dynamics ... | |
| Cocaine & Prescription Pain Pills | 12/22/2010 |
| Q: My aunt takes anti-depressants & pain meds for a Hernia she had removed (think its back) and she is ... A: Yes, it's possible to take pain meds and not return to cocaine. But having said that, I wouldn't ... | |
| Step daughter in jail | 12/20/2010 |
| Q: My step daughter has been addicted to pain killers and alcohol for at least 6-7 years on and off. I ... A: Well, you've helped her quite a bit, and some might say you've even offered her more help than is ... | |
| Cocaine/Alcohol | 12/16/2010 |
| Q: I've been drinking for about a year now and about every other day. Since the summer, I've been ... A: I'll bet you know how someone in my line of work would answer your questions... You're putting ... | |
| Research question for script | 12/15/2010 |
| Q: I have a question regarding the treatment of drug addiction for a screenplay I'm working on. In my ... A: What the doctor would prescribe would depend on a number of factors: What substance she's using, if ... | |
| my first love does heroin | 12/14/2010 |
| Q: About two years ago I met my first love. He was had a car, a job, and was going to school. To the ... A: I get quite a few letters such as yours, and I appreciate the natural inclination so many ... | |
| opite detox | 12/13/2010 |
| Q: I have been helping my husband detoxify from oxycodone and he is in his 11th day. He is just so ... A: Congratulations on being there for your husband and helping him through his ordeal. Opioid ... | |
| rise in thc levels | 12/10/2010 |
| Q: How is it possible for one's THC levels to increase after abstaining for over 2 weeks. I had ... A: I've seen the very thing you're talking about, and have spoken to our lab about it. Seems THC can ... | |
| morphine addiction from birth | 12/8/2010 |
| Q: To whom it may concern, I wanted to find out more information as well resources for my girlfriend ... A: I think it would be hard to conclude that her difficulties today, whether the drug abuse or ... | |
| my daughter is biopolar and dangerous to herself | 12/7/2010 |
| Q: My daughter has been diagnosed with severe mood disorder (Bipolar) among other things, depression, ... A: I once had a job interview with Job Corp, and was impressed with the organization. That might be a ... | |
| My mom is addicted to Pills! | 11/29/2010 |
| Q: I am in a family of six. Five kids, one mom. No father. Everyone of the kids in my family have ... A: This is a very tough situation and I'm glad you are looking to find a solution. You no doubt can ... | |
| detox weakness | 11/28/2010 |
| Q: how long and is there anything i can do to help with the weakNESS im 10 days clean but so weAk ... A: You didn't mention what you are detoxing from, but I'm going to assume it's an opiate. Opioid ... | |
| plz help | 11/19/2010 |
| Q: im 23 and i just got out of treatment wesenday and today i became depressed so my friens bought me ... A: Kasey, Was there any follow-up to your treatment? There should be some form of an aftercare plan ... | |
| drug addiction | 11/18/2010 |
| Q: I have a 22 year old son, that I know is on some sort of drug. I can not figure out what it is or ... A: Hard to say exactly what he might be using, but indeed he is using something. My best educated ... | |
| Codeine Addiction | 11/17/2010 |
| Q: Before becoming pregnant with my first daughter I had no back problems but after having a c section ... A: Opiate withdrawal can be long and complicated. You have used these drugs in large amounts for quite ... | |
| Daughter-in-law pregnant and addicted | 11/12/2010 |
| Q: My daughter-in-law is 36 weeks pregnant and I just found out that she is addicted to Percocet 10's. ... A: In my field we regard pregnancy and addiction as a very serious combination. There are instances of ... | |
| teen drug use | 11/7/2010 |
| Q: My daughter is 15 and I strongly suspect that her boyfriend is using drugs. How can I help her ... A: I assume you may already have had a conversation with your daughter about substances and substance ... | |
| My sister's an addict with a gun | 10/28/2010 |
| Q: My sister is 40 years old. She has been addicted to ice for at least a year now. I believe she is ... A: I think your options are limited here, leaving only the prospect of convincing her she needs help ... | |
| Left my husband because of cocaine | 10/27/2010 |
| Q: This is actually a repeat question that I need some more insight on. I hope you can help me too. I ... A: Sorry for the late response. I will give you my perspective on your situation, but encourage you to ... | |
| relapse? | 10/26/2010 |
| Q: I'm in NA. After 1 year and 7 months of being completely clean- yesterday I took three Vicodin at ... A: Well this is such a grey area, at least in my estimation, but as you have correctly guessed, your ... | |
| Crack abuse | 10/24/2010 |
| Q: My husband (married going on 3 years but together since 2003 with 4 children) has a problem with ... A: I've never heard of doing such a thing (guardianship) but I suppose it could exist as a possibility. ... | |
| Cocaine Addiction - relationship | 10/23/2010 |
| Q: I just met a guy who said he is a recovering cocaine addict. He was in recovery a year and a half ... A: He could be back using. And for my money, I'd almost be certain he is. If he's not, then that ... | |
| Addiction | 10/21/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend of 2 years is smoking crack I am in recovery and have been for 2 years I broke up with ... A: You are in recovery yourself, so can understand the irrationality and often, quite frankly, the ... | |
| Pls give me some insight to my bf's crack behaviour | 10/18/2010 |
| Q: First, let me apologize for the length of this. My situation is about my boyfriend of a year. ... A: Livie, Glad to hear you have given up using crack. You'll be a lot better off for that. You asked ... | |
| Pls give me some insight to my bf's crack behaviour | 10/16/2010 |
| Q: First, let me apologize for the length of this. My situation is about my boyfriend of a year. ... A: I often hear from girlfriends of boyfriends like yours who tell me how great their partner is. I ... | |
| please help | 10/12/2010 |
| Q: I Met my bf 7 monts ago he was in halfway - Sober house and now he lives wit me at ... A: Jamie, Talk to your boyfriend about getting help. You should each be in different treatment ... | |
| Marijuana and Second Hand Smoke for small children | 10/2/2010 |
| Q: My daughter picked her niece up this morning from the other grandparents house where she lives. The ... A: I, for one, am frustrated with the 'sanitizing" of marijuana use in this country. We hear such ... | |
| drug effect | 9/21/2010 |
| Q: I have a question about drug use that I Really hope you can answer. A brother of mine has sampled ... A: Well, that's an interesting question, Jude. I would not want to take anything unless I knew what ... | |
| My son's drug abuse and mental health | 9/20/2010 |
| Q: Long story short; my son who is 26 lives with his mom and I. He started doing heavy drugs around 2 ... A: These are heartbreaking situations and you have noted how difficult it is to find a solution. ... | |
| pregnant and need to know if he is using again. | 9/3/2010 |
| Q: I'm 4 months pregnant, I've been in a relationship for almost 3 years. A year after we had been ... A: Sorry for my late reply. Yours is one of many questions I receive on how to negotiate a very ... | |
| long term effects of smoking marijuana | 9/2/2010 |
| Q: What are the most serious long term effects of smoking marijuana on a daily basis? A: The effects of marijuana, particularly long term, just happens to be an area of particular interest ... | |
| Drug Addition | 8/12/2010 |
| Q: I need help with my husband, and myself. When I met my husband years ago I blind to him doing drugs. ... A: I think you know by now that your husband has some very serious addiction problems, and he is acting ... | |
| Drug abuse and probation | 8/11/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriends daughter has a friend that was on probation for meth. She was sent to mandatory drug ... A: Drinking, or the use of any substance, can be prohibited in some probation agreements. In other ... | |
| false positive drug test | 8/10/2010 |
| Q: I took a drug test for the Department of Children Services and my test came back positive for ... A: I would say that because the Vicks inhaler has stimulant properties, you can get somewhat of a ... | |
| help for my son???? | 8/8/2010 |
| Q: My Son is doing drugs and just got caught stealing from my sisters house, he pawned off a bracelet ... A: This is a very unfortunate situation and characteristic of addiction. I hear of these situations ... | |
| Methadone Detox/Withdrawl | 7/9/2010 |
| Q: I have just recently finished a 28 day program in Monroe,NC and now on day 33 I feel better but I ... A: I hear about these complications often when someone is treated with methadone. It's a very ... | |
| drug addiction | 6/24/2010 |
| Q: My worst fears are confirmed, my sweet, funny boyfriend is using opiate drugs and lord knows what ... A: Sorry to hear about your frustrations with your boyfriend. I've been an addictions treatment ... | |
| recovering/ recovered heroin addict | 6/23/2010 |
| Q: My husband has been clean for 11 years. We have been trying to get pregnant and have been having ... A: I can't say I've heard of any direct correlation between heroin use and fertility problems, but I ... | |
| boyfriend addicted to drugs | 6/18/2010 |
| Q: I am in a relationship with a man that has a strong drug habit. He is extremely addicted to pain ... A: Do you know why you got involved with a man after your husband who has a similar drug problem? I ... | |
| husband dealing with roxicodone addiction | 6/7/2010 |
| Q: I was wondering if you could help me to better help my husband deal with his addiction to ... A: I feel your husband needs treatment, and I find it hard to see how he'll do any better without it. ... | |
| daughter's heroin addiction | 5/31/2010 |
| Q: Our daughter told us she was on 'crack' (smoking it),several months ago. She then came the other ... A: Your daughter needs treatment very desperately to help her stem her worsening addiction problems. ... | |
| pregnant and have a substance abuse | 5/25/2010 |
| Q: I am 21 weeks pregnant and I have been taking oxycodone (percet. Now when I try to stop I'm having ... A: Methadone would help you with your opiate (oxycodone) addiction, and there are many pregnant women ... | |
| How do I find strength to stay married to an addict? | 5/14/2010 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for six years and dated for nine years before that. We have been ... A: You have definitely been through a tough situation and are still dealing with it. You are seeing ... | |
| Brother | 5/12/2010 |
| Q: My brother is on drugs. He went to rehab once and he is currently relapsing. I don't know how to ... A: Are your parents involved? How old is your brother? These questions will bear on what the options ... | |
| Boyfriend in drug rehab | 5/9/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend recently left the States to enter in a drug rehab center in the Philippines. We've been ... A: and I'll try to give you a complete answer, which of course will reflect my views on the situation. ... | |
| Follow up | 5/8/2010 |
| Q: Peter, Thanks very much. I do a lot of exercise, and we do eat pretty good, almost no processed ... A: Neuro-cognitive retraining was an idea introduced to me via the following article: ... | |
| amphetamine | 5/7/2010 |
| Q: i goto centerstone rehab and today they done a mouth swab. i tested positive for amphetamines. i ... A: Well Joseph, that's hard to say. From what I know about urine tests, swabs are not the most ... | |
| Opiate Recovery | 5/4/2010 |
| Q: I'm a male, almost 60 yo. I was on oxycontin and percocet for 10 years (lupus/arthritis/gout). ... A: Max, Thanks for your very interesting question, and about a subject for which I have had a great ... | |
| how do you know | 4/30/2010 |
| Q: My partner of more than 15 years is starting to show wired behavior. I know that he smoke weed and ... A: g, There'a a very strong chance your partner is using a substance or substances other than ... | |
| Goodbye? | 4/25/2010 |
| Q: I met Kenny in high school. He was the funny guy, the class clown, the guy that went around campus ... A: It sounds like this has been very hard on you, and I can understand the feelings you are ... | |
| intervention on someone who needs pain meds | 4/18/2010 |
| Q: Sh has been perscibed oxi and morhine ( can u believe it). Anyway she has also started smoking coc ... A: I find the prescribing of the drugs you mentioned, and the whole opioid medication family of drugs, ... | |
| Drug tests vs Energy drinks | 4/13/2010 |
| Q: Would A Highly Potent Energy drink cause you to fail a drug test? Redline energy drink to be ... A: Michelle, I don't believe so, but would advise you to not drink those energy drinks if you are ... | |
| Methadone pain management | 4/6/2010 |
| Q: I was in a serious accident at 17. And starting at 43 and past few years have been going to Dr ... A: Seems like you have not been able to put together a comprehensive plan to manage your pain. And ... | |
| HELP | 3/27/2010 |
| Q: I am a 26 year old mail with an addiction problem. It all started when i was in high school and ... A: It seems you have come a long way in recovering from your addictive behavior, and I sense you want ... | |
| My friend is on drugs and I'm concerned for the kids. | 3/24/2010 |
| Q: For privacy sake I will call my friend Kara. I have known her and her family since our sons started ... A: You are seeing how difficult a situation addiction can become, made even more serious by its impact ... | |
| Heroin Test | 3/23/2010 |
| Q: My Son is taking Suboxen for overcoming Heroin addiction.I want to test him for Heroin to keep him ... A: Suboxone will often show up as opioids on urine screens that we conduct in our program. Sometimes ... | |
| opiates while pregant | 3/19/2010 |
| Q: I would like to know if taking hydrocodone will cause my baby any birth defects i have tried to come ... A: Amy, I'm sorry, but I am not able to answer your question as I'm not a physician. I would advise ... | |
| Crack cocaine and Heroin | 3/8/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and he seemed like the perfect boyfriend at first but ... A: From what you describe, this sounds like a risky situation for you. First and foremost, your ... | |
| Street Drugs safer than pharmacuticals | 3/6/2010 |
| Q: I am on medication for cronic depression and ADD but personally from experience and seeing how easy ... A: Wow, first time I've gotten a question from someone in your part of the world! Somewhere I've ... | |
| crack vs marijuana | 3/5/2010 |
| Q: i found what looks like a broken pen " shell " in my sons room while cleaning.... it has a burn like ... A: Hmmm.. hard to say what that is without actually seeing it. I would suspect crack, considering what ... | |
| drugs | 2/26/2010 |
| Q: I have a husband who has a great personality. We have 2 kids and he is great with them . The problem ... A: I can understand how your husband's drug use is upsetting you. I get many messages and questions ... | |
| heroin addiction | 2/25/2010 |
| Q: My 20 year old brother does heroin. I know he started out taking pills, then moved on to snorting ... A: You are seeing first hand the nature of addiction and addictive behavior. It's a tough thing to ... | |
| herion addiction | 2/22/2010 |
| Q: i have read alot on the topic of herion abuse, the symptoms of someone using what it does to them ... A: Heroin addiction (or opioid addiction in general) evokes a lot of fear. I can understand your ... | |
| Snorting Pain Pills | 2/20/2010 |
| Q: I would like to know specifically what happens to the inside of you nose after snorting pills for a ... A: It's hard to say, Brandon. I would see a doctor immediately. Medical stuff is not my area of ... | |
| Snorting Pain Pills | 2/18/2010 |
| Q: I would like to know specifically what happens to the inside of you nose after snorting pills for a ... A: Most of what we know about the harmfulness of snorting has been gained from observations of what ... | |
| My brother | 2/14/2010 |
| Q: My younger brother is currently 14 years old, and has ADHD. He has already been caught selling pills ... A: I'm pleased to see you are taking such an active interest in your brother's safety and well-being, ... | |
| Help my beloved Son is an addict | 2/13/2010 |
| Q: My son is 23 years old with a back injury. He started to abuse his pain killers then last year was ... A: Most Suboxone providers will be firm about the urine screens, but not all. If his medical tests ... | |
| False Test Positive for Meth | 2/11/2010 |
| Q: can you explain what is a GC/MS test for Meth and how it works? A: John, From Wikipedia: Gas chromatography-mass spectrometry (GC-MS) is a method that combines the ... | |
| Breaking up with a dual-diagnosis girlfriend | 2/5/2010 |
| Q: I became very close friends with Ann some years ago and our friendship seemed to get stronger as the ... A: I think what happened between you and Ann was a wonderful thing, and having worked out would have ... | |
| Help my beloved Son is an addict | 2/4/2010 |
| Q: My son is 23 years old with a back injury. He started to abuse his pain killers then last year was ... A: You are seeing first hand the devastating effects of addiction. Your son seems very similar to a ... | |
| Narconon Rehab | 2/3/2010 |
| Q: My husband has been a drug addict for the past 29 years. His drug of choice is crack. He started ... A: Well, I'm sure your husband is feeling the pressure to achieve abstinence from substance abuse as he ... | |
| how to motivate someone to get help | 1/26/2010 |
| Q: I noticed that you had experience in how to motivate someone to get help. My son is a crack addict. ... A: As you can see addiction presents very clear challenges to family members. I recently came across an ... | |
| My boyfriend is an ex junkie and has craving to use. I am lost and dont know what to do. | 1/23/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend has been shooting heroin since he was 13 and now he is 22. We met about 6 month ago and ... A: Your boyfriend is lucky to have such a concerned and devoted girlfriend! He has a long drug ... | |
| Cocaine | 1/19/2010 |
| Q: This may be nothing, but i have just recently started seeing someone who once had an addiction to ... A: Many questions I get are where people seek information about your situation exactly. This is a tough ... | |
| effects of tobacco | 1/18/2010 |
| Q: First off, I'd like to say that I'm not now, nor have I ever been a tobacco user. I don’t intend to ... A: I would tend to approach this by analogy, defined in this way: Is it safer for me to go 120 miles ... | |
| About powder, Mall | 1/16/2010 |
| Q: sir, i am not aware exactly, that to which drug i am addicted, but i will explain the method of ... A: Kamal, I would say this is some form of heroin; crack is usually white, or off-white, so that ... | |
| methadone detox | 1/13/2010 |
| Q: eight days ago i decided to come off it. its the worse thing i have ever been through, on my fifth ... A: You've been on methadone quite a while and therefore the detox will be hard. Methadone detox is ... | |
| Boyfriend is in recovery | 1/12/2010 |
| Q: I met a pretty awesome guy on New Years Eve this year. We hit it off pretty well, and have been ... A: Well, you have approached this gentleman with a sincere desire to relate, respecting him for his ... | |
| addicts faking illness | 1/9/2010 |
| Q: a family member who is an prescribe addict has faked illnesses to get drugs. He is successful each ... A: ML, You are facing one of the classically difficult dilemmas of addiction in the family. How to ... | |
| addicts faking illness | 1/8/2010 |
| Q: a family member who is an prescribe addict has faked illnesses to get drugs. He is successful each ... A: What you're describing strikes me as pretty far out there in terms of anything I've ever seen. But ... | |
| Crack | 1/3/2010 |
| Q: I have a male friend that has been using crack for abut 2 yrs. I am a non user of any drug. My ... A: Well, you mentioned that your friend has been using crack for two years; I assume he made this known ... | |
| Crack | 12/31/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years now. He rarely drank when I met him letalone ... A: Sorry to hear about this very troubling situation. This can create a lot of emotional conflict ... | |
| A broken heart | 12/12/2009 |
| Q: My man of a year and six months, recently got out of rehab and has been advised after one month out ... A: When substance abusing individuals get treatment, the interviewer doing the intake at the program ... | |
| Heroin Addiction | 12/11/2009 |
| Q: My 23 year old brother in-law has an addiction to heroin (possibly Oxycontin also). He has been ... A: This is a revised answer -- additional content toward the end. There are a number of treatment ... | |
| Drug Addiction | 12/1/2009 |
| Q: I really want to find out how o quit drugs. People say you cant make someone quit until they want ... A: You seem really motivated to stop using drugs, and I commend you on your willingness to achieve ... | |
| pain pills | 11/28/2009 |
| Q: My wife has been taking prescription pain pills for the last seven years.I know she is addicted.All ... A: rj, Well, you know she's addicted, anyone who observes the situation knows she's addicted, but the ... | |
| Oxycotin and OCD | 11/23/2009 |
| Q: Ive been taking roxy's for the last 2 and a half years on and off(mostly on). I have never gone a ... A: Roxicodone is an opiate, so highly addictive. You're reporting taking a lot of these, so I imagine ... | |
| how do i cope? | 11/19/2009 |
| Q: Im going out with an ex heroin user he has just come off subutex and just stated blockers. Over the ... A: You are getting to know the difficulty and struggle involved in recovering from addiction. Opiate ... | |
| Helping a friend | 11/17/2009 |
| Q: I have been helping my flatmate/good friend get well from a recent opiate addiction in New Zealand. ... A: Your friend says she has stopped using opiates (and hopefully got some treatment) but her using ... | |
| how to know when someone is crying for help? | 11/10/2009 |
| Q: heroin addict and she seems to be crying for help. She cries and complains how she hates her life so ... A: Bo, Other than being supportive there's not a whole lot you can do. This woman needs treatment, ... | |
| how to know when someone is crying for help? | 11/9/2009 |
| Q: heroin addict and she seems to be crying for help. She cries and complains how she hates her life so ... A: When one is as addicted as this friend of yours seems to be, there's a lot of confusion, indecision, ... | |
| 21 yearold daughter...drinking and drugging again | 11/8/2009 |
| Q: about 2 years ago; I pulled my daughter out of college and put her into rehab. Her drugs of choice ... A: Your situation with your daughter is complex and difficult, and I can understand your struggle. I ... | |
| marijuana usage | 11/7/2009 |
| Q: I have two teenagers. One is doing very well in school however our daughter has started using ... A: The question of why a young person starts using an addictive substance is a complicated one. We ... | |
| Need Help | 11/5/2009 |
| Q: My name is April, I am 30, married, and have 5 year old twins. Last year we took in my husbands ... A: Age 18 is considered adulthood (in some respects) but in terms of human development it is still very ... | |
| Methadone | 11/4/2009 |
| Q: My friend has been sober from heroin for two years (in jail). She is getting out in two months. She ... A: I would first advise her to get some relapse prevention counseling immediately after she gets out. ... | |
| detox from methadone | 11/4/2009 |
| Q: my son is 30 yrs was a herion user for 10yrs has been on methadone for 3 yrs was on 45mgs a day ... A: Jean, Coming off methadone is usually a challenge due to its addictive nature. May people say that ... | |
| Marijuana false positive test | 10/31/2009 |
| Q: I am 18 yrs old and currently in a drug court program. Prior to program I smoked marijuana many ... A: I can't specifically advise you with respect to getting support for your case. You might want to ... | |
| Marijuana false positive test | 10/30/2009 |
| Q: I am 18 yrs old and currently in a drug court program. Prior to program I smoked marijuana many ... A: I have seen this a number of times. It can be attributable to the fact that sometimes marijuana ... | |
| false positive in child | 10/29/2009 |
| Q: I would like some help,my two and a half year old when taken to hospital because she was I'll tested ... A: Well, it's hard to see the marijuana smoking as the problem, because even if your daughter were to ... | |
| drug testng | 10/20/2009 |
| Q: what pills(ex. tylenol 3) will make you show positive for cocain A: I know of nothing that will show positive for cocaine except cocaine. I checked with a colleague of ... | |
| crack addiction | 10/17/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend is a crack user. We have been together for 3 years and we both are members of NA. He ... A: As you can see, being in recovery together can be a good thing, but presents some challenges. If ... | |
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