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About Colleen
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I can answer questions about the adoption process. I don't handle questions about searches for adoptive parents.

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I have three adopted children. The two youngest were adopted as infants. In both cases, we dealt with the birthmother during her pregnancy and a bit afterwards. Our children are now old enough to begin asking questions and we are dealing with those issues.
   

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Please help....11/28/2008Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: I am in a situation where my sister has two children with her boyfriend. One is going to be two ...
  A: Although I understand your concern for your sister's children, there is no law that will allow you ...
Can we adopt my husbands lil Cousin11/25/2008Colleen
  Q: Can we adopt my husbands lil cousin if he was already been adopted by his aunt, but she is willing ...
  A: I really wouldn't know if you qualify for an adoption, that is something the courts would decide. ...
adoption of my stepdaughter11/25/2008Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: My wife and I have recently talked to our daughter (biologically of my wife) about adoption. Our ...
  A: In order to adopt your daughter you will need to hire a lawyer to prepare the court petitions. ...
Should 12yr old son meet biological father/11/22/2008Alice Allen, Rev (ULC)
  Q: From day one my son has been raised by his adoptive father and his biological mother. He is now ...
  A: Melissa, you are right. Children need responsible adult influences in their lives. Thank you for ...
infertility11/21/2008Roberta Rosenberg
  Q: if i can't have kids will God dislike me thinking about using a surrogat mom to carry my baby
  A: Good morning, Jennifer. Thanks for writing. I'm not a pastor nor priest and I can't put myself into ...
legal custody to adoption11/19/2008Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: My daughter received custody of a 7 week old baby girl removed from a juvenile mother who was ...
  A: Based on the information you have written, it seems as though your daughter can petition the court ...
interstate compact for adoption11/16/2008Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: My name is Constance Gilmore,and I am a foster care supervisor. I have a dilema, and I need your ...
  A: Gilmore: I am a little confused about what you wrote, but I will try to advise you as best I can. ...
boyfriend adopting daughter11/14/2008Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: I have a 8 year old daughter whos bio father lives in TX, we live in NC. He has not seen or spoke to ...
  A: The laws regarding adoption vary from state to state, so I'm not able to answer your questions with ...
Signing over rights11/13/2008Terrie
  Q: My Sister Lives in Washington st and I live in Az she is goin on her 5th baby the first 4 have been ...
  A: Melissa you are stuck dealing with CPS in some capacity you need a lawyer whom knows adoption law ...
How do I get help from the state??11/9/2008Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: My name is candice and I'm 19 I was adopted at birth in 1989 and since then both of my adoptive ...
  A: I am not sure of what New York will be able to assist you with, but you can and should check out ...
adoption11/8/2008Colleen
  Q: My husband wants to adopt my 2 year old daughter. My child's biological father has never even seen ...
  A: In order for an adoption to take place, both biological parents have to consent in writing. Now you ...
Stepchild adoption11/4/2008Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: I have been married for 3 years to a wonderful man. Prior to marrying, I had a child whose father ...
  A: My answer to your quesion is that I don't really know. That's because each state has their own laws ...
new husband adopting my 2 youngest10/30/2008Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: I have 3 children. The oldest (age 7) has his father in his life, but my 2 younger children (8 mos & ...
  A: You will need to hire a lawyer in order to do the adoption. I cannot see where a judge would ...
At a loss with foster kids10/30/2008Rachel
  Q: We have two foster boys 14 and 17. I have been a foster parent for over 20 years and I have always ...
  A: Dolores I understand what you are going through. Our two long term boys are 14 and 16 and the older ...
stepfather adoption10/29/2008Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: my husband and I have been married for 4 years the real dad has not seen the children for 2 1/2 ...
  A: There shouldn't be any problem in your husband adopting in the circumstances that you describe, ...
Adoption10/29/2008Colleen
  Q: Can a 15 yr old legally divorce both parents to be adopted by someone who is willing to take the ...
  A: Divorcing your parents is a major step. If you're absolutely sure that is something you want to do, ...
foster child adoption into a child care home10/25/2008Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: I am a family child care provider and a single parent to one son with special needs (Autism). I ...
  A: Most states usually have both laws and regulations regarding foster care and adoption requirements. ...
Incarcerated mother10/11/2008Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: We are a family of 4 in IL. Our nephew will be placed in foster care in WI when his mother is to be ...
  A: You will probably be better off having WI take the case to court in order for your nephew to be in ...
foster care? is this okay>?10/9/2008Terrie
  Q: She is my true blooded child. Me and everyone in her/my family is doing everything we can to bring ...
  A: Dung what country are you located in? Foster care is Never Ever good for any child or teenager. You ...
we are adopting my sisters baby10/4/2008Colleen
  Q: My sister is having her second child she is young and can not afford and take care of the new baby, ...
  A: Yes, it is VERY necessary to make this all legal. You would need the written consent of the baby's ...
my husband is my daughter's step father9/28/2008Colleen
  Q: He wants to adopt her. I have sole custody with No visitation. I have a copy of a restraining order ...
  A: Every state has their own laws with regard to adoption. But in most cases, both biological parents ...
Nephew9/23/2008Terrie
  Q: I live in PA my question is I have full custody of my 9 month old nephew I have had him for 7 months ...
  A: Sharon you will need to contact a lawyer unless your custody was arranged by the state. I am only ...
Korean Step Child Adoption9/22/2008Roberta Rosenberg
  Q: I have recently been married to a Korean National, and she has one daughter. I would like to adopt ...
  A: Ultimately, what you have here is an immigration/adoption problem which will require 2 lawyers - ...
adopting a friend's child9/17/2008Colleen
  Q: I'm pregnant with my third child and I don't believe in abortions. My best friend is unable to have ...
  A: This is something that can be done somewhat easily with not too much expense. The first thing you ...
My husband adopting my daughter9/15/2008Terrie
  Q: My husband and I are trying to find out what has to be done for him to adopt my 2 year old. The ...
  A: Jenny usualy no matter what has occured with the biological father in the past he has all the rights ...
I want to adopt my niece9/15/2008Colleen
  Q: My Sister pass away five years ago when my niece was only three years old. And ever since she has ...
  A: Several things have to happen for you to adopt your niece. You would have to get the father's ...
fostercare9/12/2008Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: How do me and my husband get custody of our pregnant niece who is in fostercare in a different ...
  A: The first step in the custody process would be to contact the social worker and/or attorney acting ...
terminating parental rights9/11/2008Sarah D.
  Q: My daughter is 6 years old and her father has not paid support or had any contact for over a year ...
  A: I'm so sorry you're having this kind of trouble, but what a blessing that your husband can help. ...
legel guardianship9/10/2008Terrie
  Q: My husband and I have had custody of his nephew since he was eight months old. I am concerned ...
  A: Stacey you need to talk to a lawyer asap. I have no idea how this will play out in your state. Talk ...
adopting my sisters daughter9/2/2008Colleen
  Q: my question is how would that be possible if at all possible to take my niece away from my sister ...
  A: Your niece's parents (mother AND father) would need to sign over their parental rights in order for ...
my kids adoption8/27/2008Colleen
  Q: me and my husband to be is getting married by next year and planning about he wanted to adopt my 3 ...
  A: In order for your future husband to adopt your children, you would have to get the written consent ...
Adoption?8/26/2008Colleen
  Q: My mom is 42, she has 2 children- Me,16 and my brother, 20. My brother lives with his biological ...
  A: In order for this to happen, you have to get the adults in your life to agree to this. Your mom ...
Appealing a decision made by the PA Interstate Compact office8/18/2008Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: I am the foster parent to a child from another state who has been here with me in Pennsylvania for 1 ...
  A: Since I was previously a state Interstate Compact Director, I believe it is likely that the worker ...
Adopting through family members8/12/2008Terrie
  Q: My husband's cousin and his girlfriend are pregnant and want us to adopt the baby. We don't have ...
  A: It is Not legal and immoral and if caught you could all face criminal charges Call around I am sure ...
adoption8/9/2008Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: i had a daughter which i had adopted 8 years ago, since then ive been told that the adoption home ...
  A: You and your child are definitely in a difficult situation. In my experience, it would be very ...
Adopt sister kids8/9/2008Colleen
  Q: My Husband and I have sole legal cusitody of my sisters sons she passed away in 2002 the one is 19 ...
  A: Generally, yes. Custodial rights means the person who gets the custodial rights has full custody of ...
Adopt sister kids8/8/2008Colleen
  Q: My Husband and I have sole legal cusitody of my sisters sons she passed away in 2002 the one is 19 ...
  A: I'm not sure what your question is. Are you asking if you can adopt these boys? If so, you can as ...
Private Adoption8/8/2008Terrie
  Q: My husband & I live in PA. A good friend was (a pastor's wife) was approached about a young girl ...
  A: It may be possible you need a homestudy and you need to follow state laws for both states on how ...
My adopted daughter8/6/2008Sarah D.
  Q: I'm Diane, and have two daughters my own, and my adopted daughter. My biological daughters are Star ...
  A: The first problem that jumped out at me is how you quantify the origins of your daughters. You say ...
Adoption of my grandson8/4/2008Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: My son committed suicide in January '08. His girlfriend was pregnant at the time and gave birth to ...
  A: If a name is put on the birth certificate, it should be the name of your deceased son. If your son ...

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Peter C. Winkler, CSWSarah D.Colleen
Alice Allen, Rev (ULC)RachelRoberta Rosenberg
TerrieRondaChandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
   

     
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