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About Colleen
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I can answer questions about the adoption process. I don't handle questions about searches for adoptive parents.

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I have three adopted children. The two youngest were adopted as infants. In both cases, we dealt with the birthmother during her pregnancy and a bit afterwards. Our children are now old enough to begin asking questions and we are dealing with those issues.
   

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In Category  Adoption Issues

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my kids adoption8/27/2008
  Q: me and my husband to be is getting married by next year and planning about he wanted to adopt my 3 ...
  A: In order for your future husband to adopt your children, you would have to get the written consent ...
Adoption?8/26/2008
  Q: My mom is 42, she has 2 children- Me,16 and my brother, 20. My brother lives with his biological ...
  A: In order for this to happen, you have to get the adults in your life to agree to this. Your mom ...
Adopt sister kids8/9/2008
  Q: My Husband and I have sole legal cusitody of my sisters sons she passed away in 2002 the one is 19 ...
  A: Generally, yes. Custodial rights means the person who gets the custodial rights has full custody of ...
Adopt sister kids8/8/2008
  Q: My Husband and I have sole legal cusitody of my sisters sons she passed away in 2002 the one is 19 ...
  A: I'm not sure what your question is. Are you asking if you can adopt these boys? If so, you can as ...
Resinding Parental Termination7/23/2008
  Q: How would a person go about rescinding parental termination if it is within the first 48 hours of ...
  A: I'm not really sure what you are asking me. If you are saying that you signed papers to terminate ...
Sign any adoption paper without proof of paternity?7/23/2008
  Q: Should I sign any adoption papers stating that I relinquish all my paternal rights if I'm unsure if ...
  A: First of all, no court can subpoena you to force you to sign away your paternal rights. Second, you ...
Adopting my sister's boy7/15/2008
  Q: My sister wants to give me her 3.5 year old boy, and I want to legally adopt him. How do I begin ...
  A: In order to begin an adoption process, your best bet would be to contact an adoption attorney. You ...
My husband wants to adopt my son.7/15/2008
  Q: me and my husband have been talking about adopting my 9 years old son for sometime now. His ...
  A: You should consult an adoption attorney where you live right now. You're better off getting it at ...
Adopting my baby to my brother7/4/2008
  Q: I'm about 8 months pregnant and i want to adopt my baby to my brother and his wife. They are not ...
  A: It is very wise of you to realize you cannot raise a child at this time in your life. Too many ...
Adopting a friends baby7/3/2008
  Q: A good friend of mine is pregnant with a little girl. She has ask me to adopt her. I can't have ...
  A: You want to make sure everything is done legally, so there are no repercussions in the future. The ...
Adoption2/26/2008
  Q: The father of my 2 year old son born out of wedlock. Has been recently incarcerated, and has not ...
  A: In order to have your husband adopt your son, you would have to have the written consent of your ...
adoption2/11/2008
  Q: My ex girlfriend is pregnant. She says she is going to run off to another state and give the baby ...
  A: The first thing you need to do is contact an attorney. He or she can protect your interests. Your ...
Where To Start?2/5/2008
  Q: A little history, I have 3 sons 14, 12, 4 and a 7 yr. old girl. I have PCOS and for the past 3 ...
  A: There are many avenues you can explore for adoption. If you want a baby, your options are limited ...
stepfather adoption1/23/2008
  Q: i just got marred and my husband would like to adopt my daughter. I have to share custody but I am ...
  A: There really isn't much you can do to have your husband adopt your daughter if her father doesn't ...
adoption advice1/21/2008
  Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 12 years and we have two children together 3 and 10. My 12 year ...
  A: I am not aware of any court that will allow an adoption without the written consent of the ...
my child, being adopted by my future husband1/17/2008
  Q: I am planning to marry later this year. My future husband wants to adopt my son, born out of ...
  A: I am not aware of any court that would allow an adoption without the written consent of both ...
my child, being adopted by my future husband1/17/2008
  Q: I am planning to marry later this year. My future husband wants to adopt my son, born out of ...
  A: Since paternity was established it would be necessary for your child's father to sign the adoption ...
Can a woman give a child away?1/7/2008
  Q: I have a friend who's former girlfriend contacted him 6 months after they broke up. She says that ...
  A: It's hard to say without knowing exactly what happened when she gave up the child. Also, it depends ...
I want a child but I am single12/19/2007
  Q: Do you Have to be married to adopt a child?
  A: It really depends on how you plan to adopt. If you have someone you know who is pregnant and wants ...
adopting my brother12/2/2007
  Q: i'm 18 and in the army. my brother is 15 and lives with my father. under what circumstances (and if ...
  A: You don't mention why you want to adopt your brother. I can't think of a legal reason why you would ...
Want to be adopted11/8/2007
  Q: My mom is getting married soon to someone that I would love to have as my Dad, I am 18yrs old (NYC) ...
  A: Somewhere along the line your biological father's parental rights may have already been severed. ...
Paternity rights10/21/2007
  Q: We are considering adopting the child of our friend's sister. She is young, does not want the child, ...
  A: This is a situation that you have to tred carefully with. As anxious as you may be to adopt this ...
my husband passed away 4 yrs ago i want fiance to adopt my daughter10/6/2007
  Q: my husband passed away 4 yrs ago and my current boyfriend/fiance would like to adopt my daughter, i ...
  A: Since adoption is a legal court proceeding, you would have to contact an attorney to help you in ...
adoption of a step child from a past relationship8/28/2007
  Q: My boyfriends children have been living with us since May of this year. The oldest of the three boys ...
  A: Unfortunately, adoptions almost always involve a lawyer because if it is not done legally, there can ...
Adoption8/24/2007
  Q: Just wanted to know what is the paperwork I would need to get for my husband to legally adopt my 2 ...
  A: To begin an adoption, your best bet is to contact an attorney in your area. You will need to have a ...
Legal Guardianship8/18/2007
  Q: My name is Craig, thank you for helping us with this issue. My wife and I traveled to Louisiana ...
  A: Unfortunately, there really isn't any way I would know this. You most likely would have to contact ...
Adopting8/15/2007
  Q: I just had a baby that the real father wasnt "ready" to take care of and hasnt spoken to me or asked ...
  A: Yes, you would have to have the written permission of the birth father for an adoption to take ...
Step-parent Adoption8/7/2007
  Q: I would like to know how long you have to be married before a step-parent can adopt a child. ...
  A: I don't think how long you are married is a factor in the adoption of a step child. You most ...
Step parent adoption8/1/2007
  Q: I am going to adopt my non-biological son. I have been raising him for the last 9 years since he was ...
  A: Sorry for the delay, I was on vacation and forgot to note that in my profile. You say you were ...
can i go back to my father7/30/2007
  Q: I am 15 years of age. I was adopted at age 6, along with my biological sister to the same family. At ...
  A: It sounds like you've had some issues over the years. If you're in foster care, you must have a ...
adopting a 26 year old7/6/2007
  Q: I was married and the man had a 9 month old child. I have raised that child who is now 26. His ...
  A: First of all, I'm sorry for the delay in answering your question, but I was on vacation and forgot ...
My husband adopting my daughter Biological Father In Mexico7/2/2007
  Q: My husband wishes to adopt my three year old daughter who is not his biologically. My husband and I ...
  A: First of all, sorry it took so long to answer your question, but I was on vacation and forgot to ...
Sister giving me her baby6/4/2007
  Q: Colleen, My sister is currently pregnant and already has 4 children at home. She wants give up the ...
  A: Sorry for the delay in answering, but I was away from my computer for a few days. The best thing ...
adoption5/16/2007
  Q: i recieved a letter from my eldest daughter who was adopted some 16 years ago (what a suprise) she ...
  A: Since I have no information as to how your daughter was placed for adoption, I really don't know how ...
getting custody of my nephew5/2/2007
  Q: I have several questions, but i'll try to make this short. :) my husband's sister had a little baby ...
  A: I am not at all familiar with custody matters. However, I strongly suggest that if you do decide to ...
how can i adopt my sisters baby4/27/2007
  Q: my sister had a baby last year and she is failing to look after it.I am a UK citizen and my sister ...
  A: I'm sorry, I wish I could help with this, but I am totally unfamiliar with Irish laws on adoption. ...
No father on birth certificate4/9/2007
  Q: My daughter is now 3 1/2 years old. When she was born, I didn't put her biological father on the ...
  A: Legally, if the birth father was not named on the birth certificate, he would not have to sign in ...
stepchild adoption3/17/2007
  Q: my wife and i got married last year, our daughter is 20 months and we are expecting our son this ...
  A: Even though her biological father has not seen her, or paid child support, you would still have to ...
adoption3/10/2007
  Q: I am getting ready to go through the process of adopting a child from state of california. I am a ...
  A: Every state has their own laws with regard to the adoption process. However, I believe you will ...
adoption1/6/2007
  Q: I'm 16 years old and don't get along with my parents very well. i really don't like living at home ...
  A: You would need to consult an attorney to see about an adoption. I really don't think the courts ...
fathers name12/8/2006
  Q: Ok, theres is an ex gf who is pregnant and is saying the baby is mine, which i do not believe is ...
  A: Every state has different adoption laws, but in general, the courts prefer to have an adoption where ...
adoption11/2/2006
  Q: hi i have divorced from my ex and she has remarried now she wants her husband to adopt my two ...
  A: Every state has different laws, but I am pretty certain that no court would allow a step parent to ...
Taking the right steps for adoption10/2/2006
  Q: My name is Jennifer and I am a 27 year old mother of two lovely little boys. For the past three ...
  A: The best thing you can do is to contact an adoption agency in your area. Catholic Charities comes ...
adoption process9/20/2006
  Q: My husband & I have been approached about adopting a 3 month old baby. I understand that there is a ...
  A: Sorry it took me so long to reply, but I was away from my computer for a few days. Every state has ...
My neice wants to give us her unborn baby9/11/2006
  Q: My niece is having a baby boy and wants to give it up to for adoption to us her exboyfriend doenst ...
  A: If you haven't done so already, contact an attorney to help you with this. A home study will have ...
Adopting a Relative's Baby8/26/2006
  Q: I have a teenage cousin that is pregnant and has decided to make an adoption plan for the child. ...
  A: Yes, this would be considered a private adoption You would still be required to go through the ...
adoption of my oldest son by my husband8/7/2006
  Q: i have been married for seven years and my husband and i have two children one is both of ours the ...
  A: The costs to adopt a step child are not as much as a regular adoption. I would suggest you contact ...
adoption8/4/2006
  Q: how long does the process usually take? And is there an age limit to being able to adopt?
  A: there are is no cut and dried information on how long it takes or your age. if you're doing a ...
How can I get bio. mother to open up?7/20/2006
  Q: I have spent exciting week traveling from Florida to New Hampshire; met OLDER cousins, etc. I ...
  A: It sounds like your birth mother just doesn't want to speak with you at this time. Your finding her ...
adoption3/7/2006
  Q: Colleen, How does one go about private adoption, where do you start looking, what are the costs ...
  A: There are many ways, and many different types of costs, involved with "private" adoptions. The ...
Adopted brother1/27/2006
  Q: My 12 year old brother is adopted and has suffered from it for the past few years. He is angry at my ...
  A: Some children are more "sensitive" to the issue of being adopted than other children are. If it ...
wanting to adopt10/18/2004
  Q: I am on public assistant and I am in my late fifty, and I was wondering if I can adopt a baby?
  A: The current situation with adoption of babies is not good. Due to birth control and abortion, there ...
Adoption with close friends7/29/2004
  Q: We have very close friends who are adopting my daughter's child. My daughter is 17. Do you have any ...
  A: This can be a sticky situation, but workable if everyone cooperates. First of all, let me commend ...
adoption outside the books2/20/2004
  Q: I was hoping you could help me. Well I wouldn't call her a friend but someone I know is wanting to ...
  A: It really depends on what she has in mind. Does she want you to adopt the baby? Or just "take care ...
adoption of neice's baby2/17/2004
  Q: Colleen, I will get right to the point. My husband & I have had 3 miscariages in the past year & a ...
  A: I'm sorry it took me so long to get back to you, but I had a very bad week. This is a tricky ...
requirements3/20/2003
  Q: I'm looking for some information. Let me explain my situation. I am 36 and my husband of 6 years ...
  A: I say go for it! A home study creates so much anxiety in people, and there really isn't any reason ...

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