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SubjectDate AskedExpert
Biological father w/ adoption paperwork6/15/2011Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: I was hoping you could point me in the right direction. I have paperwork showing that I'm adopted ...
  A: This is a difficult question, but the quick answer is yes, he might have had to adopt you later, if ...
birth certificate.6/8/2011Adoption STAR
  Q: I hope you can help me as I'm at the end of my rope and out of ideas. Here is my situation. I was ...
  A: Do your parents have a copy of your birth records or medical records? Do they have a photo copy of ...
adoption6/8/2011Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: I have an odd question for you... Since I was 13 I have known that I am not able to have children do ...
  A: To answer your question directly, the fact that you receive social security disability should not ...
adopt a niece5/26/2011Terrie
  Q: My sister is a visiting scholar from China and just found out she is pregnant. She wants to give the ...
  A: You need a good lawyer and find out if this is possible when you have a birth father in another ...
long term foster care5/23/2011Adoption STAR
  Q: I am wondering if you would have knowledge of this kind of statistic: What percentage of children ...
  A: The statistic I am aware of is 11 years old but it will help answer your question... Today, more ...
adoption5/16/2011Terrie
  Q: My daughter has been living with my mother her whole life. She is 11 years old and my mom wants to ...
  A: If you sign papers for the adoption then your no longer the legal parent. Your mom might be able to ...
Adoption Subsidy turning 185/14/2011Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: We have adopted a special needs child who will be turning 18 in a couple weeks. His biological ...
  A: I would say that you should just give it time without doing anything. Let him visit and I would ...
adopting my ex girlfriends daughter5/9/2011Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: my ex girlfriends daughter lives with me and i would like to know how do i go about adopting her? ...
  A: You would need to go to the family court in your town and file a petition of adoption. Since her ...
Cousin Adopting Cousin4/28/2011Julie
  Q: Ok this is the situation, I have a 16 year old female cousin that was adoped as a new born by my ...
  A: This is a really tricky question as there are two states involved which means you would need to ...
family adopting family4/21/2011Julie
  Q: I am in Canada I do not know if this question can be answered. But i know of an aunt who adopted her ...
  A: Wow, what a complicated situation! I am unfamiliar with Canadian adoption law so I can't help you ...
Stepmother Adoption4/13/2011Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: My 6 year old daughter lost her mother last year. My current wife wants to adopt my daughter just ...
  A: I apologize for the delay in responding to this. You can go to the family court in your county and ...
reunification process4/1/2011Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: i need to know if it is possible for a child to return home after 3 months in foster care. my ...
  A: No coincidence. She is ensuring that everything is ready so that she can recommend reunification. ...
adoption3/18/2011Julie
  Q: We have been the sole carers of our 6 year old granddaughter since she was 4 months old can we adopt ...
  A: You will need an attorney involved who can help you through the process. I would call around ...
homestudy3/14/2011Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: I have a few questions regarding the home study process. I was wondering if the the social worker ...
  A: Yes, social workers will request that you provide 3 or so references that they will want to talk ...
Niece3/13/2011Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: My niece was adopted about two to three years ago and wanted to know if there was a way I can get in ...
  A: Since your niece is adopted, her adoptive parents are the only ones who can say whether or not to ...
Seeing niece after raising her3/12/2011Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: I raised my niece for 3 1/2 years from 2 months until she was 3 1/2. Then after that her mother ...
  A: Unfortunately, there is nothing that you can do. Although you had temporary custody at one time, it ...
adoption situation3/6/2011Terrie
  Q: .. My husband and I entered in to an adoption plan with a couple on January 26th. We had an ...
  A: Remember I am not a lawyer. Just a mom blessed through adoption. However as long as birthparents ...
adoption situation3/6/2011Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: .. My husband and I entered in to an adoption plan with a couple on January 26th. We had an ...
  A: First, I want to apologize as I am sure tht this is a challenging and stressful situation for you ...
found the "ideal" child3/6/2011Adoption STAR
  Q: I have been going through the home study process for over a year now. I have gone from one agency to ...
  A: Chelsea, Thank you for your question. Children waiting for adoptive families are profiled and are ...
may never meet my brother3/3/2011Adoption STAR
  Q: when my mom was around 14-16 years old she had a baby and she put him up for adoption and i would ...
  A: Alisia, Thank you for your question. Searching for an adoptee is not uncommon. It is important to ...
My nieces adoption2/15/2011Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: My husbands niece is pregnant. She has been approached by her friends parents about doing an open ...
  A: Since adoption laws vary somewhat from state to state and because I don't know all the facts, I ...
My son's missing history2/7/2011Alice Allen, Rev (ULC)
  Q: I recently found my long lost son who was in the Children and Youth System for over 14 yrs and now ...
  A: Josette, I am not qualified to help. I am happy to provide some direction to resources. Thank you ...
adopting my two little cousins1/28/2011Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: they are in foster care in the state of north Carolina in Alamance county. i would love to adopt ...
  A: I apologize for the delayed response. To answer your question, yes you could file an adoption ...
adoption1/28/2011Terrie
  Q: my question is i'm trying to adopt my greaT nephew which is my neices child. now she has given me ...
  A: You have to have a lawyer she will need to sign the papers I am guessing in front of whomever is ...
Adopting my neice1/26/2011Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: About five years ago my neice was taken from her mother because of drud related issues. She was ...
  A: Based on the information that you provided, it seems to me that you should be in contact with staff ...
Father's consent to adoption1/24/2011Alice Allen, Rev (ULC)
  Q: can a person be adopted without permission from the biological father?
  A: Sheila, no, in a word, unless his parental rights were terminated by the courts. Legal adoption ...
Adoption1/23/2011Colleen
  Q: Colleen, My name is Denae my husband and I have had my cousins baby since june 12,2010 the ...
  A: Sorry for the delay in answering, but I was away from my computer for a while. The next step in ...
Relative Placement1/21/2011Alice Allen, Rev (ULC)
  Q: 5 years ago my niece and nephew were taken from their birth parents and my husband and I were ...
  A: Jenifer, there are resources available to you (and to the parents of these children). Thank you for ...
adoption1/19/2011Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: I have legal guardianship of my brother's three children. The judge took all rights away from my ...
  A: The place to start the adoption process is to file a petition of adoption at the Family Court in ...
adopting my nephew1/10/2011Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: I'm 20 years old. My sister is 21 and has a 17 month old boy. The state took him away from her as ...
  A: Since your question involves giving you more than some basic information, I would strongly recommend ...
i was adopted at the age of 512/31/2010Colleen
  Q: how do i find out who my blood family is
  A: Your best source of information to get started are your parents. Your adoption paperwork may have ...
questions from adopted child12/28/2010Julie
  Q: My husband and I adopted two boys over two years ago. The oldest boy was removed at the age of 2. ...
  A: One of the best books out there is entitled "Toddler Adoption: The Weavers Craft.". At your son's ...
questions by adopted child12/28/2010Rachel
  Q: My husband and I adopted two boys over two years ago. The oldest boy was removed at the age of 2. ...
  A: April I'm afraid this is somewhat outside my area of expertise. I am used to older children 8 ...
questions from adopted child12/28/2010Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: My husband and I adopted two boys over two years ago. The oldest boy was removed at the age of 2. ...
  A: I have thought more about your quest for information and wanted to suggest a couple of other ...
kinship fostering in phoenix11/26/2010Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW
  Q: just wondering do i have to be an licensed kinship care in order to get the right amount founds to ...
  A: I first need to apologize for the delay in responding to your question. In order to receive his ...
URGENT !!!11/23/2010Adoption STAR
  Q: Story: I am a US citizen and i am looking to adopt my 15 yr old niece before she turns 16 in 4 ...
  A: This may be possible but also quite complicated. The best advice is to seek the advice of an ...
revoke adoption/ regain custody11/18/2010Peter C. Winkler, CSW
  Q: I am the biological mother of an 11 year old boy, that was adopted by my 76 year old grandmother ...
  A: I have forwarded your question to Alice Bussiere, a lawyer who works for the Youth Law Center in San ...
Birth Certificate11/16/2010Colleen
  Q: I adopted my son as a single parent. My son was 7 months when I met my boyfriend and is now 4yrs ...
  A: Your boyfriend's name cannot appear on the birth certificate unless he is the legal parent. As for ...
Consent for adoption11/8/2010Colleen
  Q: I have birth father's signed consent for adoption. However, due to unforeseen financial issues, the ...
  A: Sorry for the delay, I was away for a few days. Every state has their own laws with regard to ...
Should I contact my birth father?10/21/2010Alice Allen, Rev (ULC)
  Q: I was given up for adoption as an infant almost 51 years ago. At the culmination of a search to ...
  A: Sara, there are several ways to approach the search for information about your origins. Your way is ...

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Chandricka R. Mose, LCSW-C, LICSW, ACSW

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EXTENSIVE!! I can answer questions about issues pertaining to foster care, treatment foster care, foster care to adopt matters, kinship care, reunification and homestudy concerns and process.

Experience

I have 20 years of experience ih this arena. I have worked in preventing youth from entering care and provided case management to youth and families in care. I have conducted and supervised training for foster and adoptive parents in both the presercive and inservice phases. I have conducted and supervised parenting skills training for parents seeking to regain custody of their children. I also held positions as program supervisor and director of foster care services. I am an advocate for youth, professionals and parents that find theselves involved in the foster care and/or adoption process. I have also experienced foster care and adoption personally as I grew up with a mom who provided foster care services and have two adopted siblings.

Organizations
I am on the Advisory Committee of Kayla's Village. This is an advocacy and training organization for youth, professionals and parents involved with the child welfare system.

Publications
I have not been published, but serve as the social work expert at the Kayla's Village ask the expert free on-line service. I have also presented at a national conference on foster care and adoption issues.

Education/Credentials
I have a Bachelor of Social Work from Howard University and a Master of Science in Social Work from Columbia University. I am clinically licensed in both Maryland and Washington, DC.

Awards and Honors
I was once honored as Employee of the Year.

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