About christina Cicchelli Expertise if you are seeking information on how to break into the adult industry, how to use pornography to enhance your sex life, how to find pornography that turns you on, and also how to make a living as an adult performer - then I'm the lady to speak to!
Getting into the adult industry can be easy, but to survive in the industry and find the best direction for yourself in this field is essential. As a former porn actress, I understand the pitfalls and successes that the porn industry has to offer. Pornography is a business, one that is patronized by a majority of us - whether it's by downloading a piece of an adult movie or buying a book by Jenna Jameson. You, too, can become a part of this industry. But, avoiding the mistakes and scams will make it easier for you. Also, knowing the pay rate and how to successfully chart your career will help you stay focused while having fun on set.
For those not interested in getting into porn, you might want to consider how adult films can help your sex life. Maybe you're searching for the right type of smut to satisfy you and/or your lover for a night, or maybe you want to make a private movie of your own. Contact me for help and guidance.
PLEASE DON'T ASK ME ABOUT LEGALITIES, LICENSES, PERMITS, OR ABOUT WHAT YOU LEGALLY NEED TO START YOUR OWN PORN BUSINESS -- i will prove unhelpful. Sorry.
Experience Christina Cicchelli is a "Sexventurer" of sorts; she's spent over five years as a sex worker and has experience in a myriad of industries, including phone sex and professional domination. As a Mistress, she has worked in several NYC Dungeons and also visited devoted clients on an independent basis. As a phone sex operator, she maintained a large amount of callers who sought her guidance, creativity, and experience in fetish and role-play.
Christina is best known for her career as a porn actress. Under the non de plume, Simone Valentino, she's performed in a handful of films. She received an AVN nomination for “Best Actress” for her role in Afrodite Superstar and also won “Best New Starlet” at the Feminist Porn Awards in 2008 for her role in Audacia Ray's The Bi Apple.
Christina is a columnist for $pread Magazine and writes about all things fetish in own blog, A Fantastic Nightmare. She is also Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross’s resident Fetish Blogger on their sex-positive website (Dodsonandross.com) and coaches individuals and couples who seeking kinky inspiration in the bedroom.
Publications $pread Magazine
Dodsonandross.com
A Fantastic Nightmare (My personal blog)
Education/Credentials College of New Rochelle
Graduated May 2007
Degree: English
Awards and Honors 2007: "Best New Starlet" - Feminist Porn Awards
2008: "Best New Actress - AVN Nomination
Past/Present Clients Black Mirror Production
Femmes Productions
Waking Vixen
Porno Jim
Question I'm a young male and I've been having problems in my sex life and was wondering weather it was me or the girls and if it's me wait can i do because when i have sex girls complain about me being to large/big to rough and lasting to long for them when having sex and they either end up stopping me and leaving or don't let me stick it in all the way and only let me use half and i never get to cum I'm becoming more discouraged about having sex because of this please help me
Answer Hey Free styler,
if girls are complaining that you're too rough, then you may need to change up your technique and your approach to sex.
There's nothing your penis can do to make it a sizable fit for every woman you meet. Penises and vaginas come in all sizes. But, there are several things you can do to help your female partner feel comfortable.
Have you tried foreplay? Give yourself plenty of time to touch, kiss, lick, and explore every part of her body, including her vagina. This time is necessary so the two of you can relax. From this hot steamy session, she'll get wet, and lubrication does wonders! This is also a good chance to find out if she's into rougher play or if she enjoys sensual touching and caressing more.
***REMEMBER: ROUGH SEX DOES NOT MEAN ROUGH PENETRATION!!!***
You can still have rough play and show aggression, but you don't have to do that through sex alone. If your playmate is game, then find out if she likes having her hair pulled, maybe she likes to have her nipples bitten or her butt smacked. Every woman is different and each woman defines certain techniques differently. So, before you even think about putting your dick near her, find out what she's into and play for a while before you get to penetration.
What I would also suggest is purchasing a vibrator or encouraging your lover to bring her own vibe along for the thrill of it. Hell, why not include a treasure trove of sex toys in the mix? Remember, you want to make the sex playful and enjoyable for the two of you. You know you have a huge penis but that doesn't mean you can't give her the pleasure she deserves while you have fun. So, spend some time playing with toys and masturbating with each other. I also encourage mutual masturbation (She performs a handjob while you play with her clit).
When the both of you feel fully aroused for penetration, then go for it. You may want to try different positions until the both of you find a comfortable way to enjoy sex. If you enjoy longer-lasting sex, then variety is key. If she's getting to a point where it might seem painful or too long, then pull out and play some more. If she needs to stop, then ask her to play with you until orgasm.
So, communication and play is key! You can also use just a dime-sized drop of water-based lube on your penis to help in case of pain or discomfort.
