| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| I don't he does | 7/8/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My husband and I have gone to a swinginger's club and hedI in Jamaiaca. I thought both were sleazy ...
A: Kathy, Even though this question isn't really about swinging per se but, actually about your ...
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| My wife brought up swinging... | 7/4/2009 | Analisa |
Q: Hey Analisa, My wife and I have been married for 10 years as of last January. We have made some ...
A: Shawn, Even though your letter really isn't about swinging and it's more about your relationship ...
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| question | 7/1/2009 | Leesa |
Q: My husband and I have been talking about swinging for a long time....I was wondering how to deal ...
A: Before you enter the swinging lifestyle make sure you have set your rules. No one should defer from ...
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| swinging | 6/29/2009 | Analisa |
Q: i am 30 and my wife is 22, we are very open minded, one day i suggested to bring my friend to my ...
A: Sameera, I will try to answer all of your questions but, when you ask me why your wife behaves or ...
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| Girlfriend wants to attend orgy : / | 6/24/2009 | Analisa |
Q: Well this is a bit tough for me for multiple reasons, but I am currently in Afghanistan. I will be ...
A: To answer the only questions I could glean from your follow-up: Q1. One of my chief concerns is that ...
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| Girlfriend wants to attend orgy : / | 6/24/2009 | Analisa |
Q: Well this is a bit tough for me for multiple reasons, but I am currently in Afghanistan. I will be ...
A: I will attempt to answer *all* of your questions. 1.How many problems do you see the swinging ...
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| pl help!! | 6/11/2009 | Chim Hedo |
Q: First let me thank you for your advice. I have one question for you... If a couple ( straight guy ...
A: Perfect scenario is that both people are comfortable with the playmate(s). From my own experience ...
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| pl help | 6/11/2009 | Analisa |
Q: First let me thank you for your advice. I have one question for you... If a couple ( straight guy ...
A: Niki, When we (my husband and I) first got into the LifeStyle, we were given some really great ...
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| THANKS FOR HELP | 6/11/2009 | Leesa |
Q: First let me thank you for your advice. I have one question for you... If a couple ( straight guy ...
A: In answer to your question, Everyone has to be comfortable with everything each of the persons do. ...
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| pl help!!! | 6/8/2009 | Leesa |
Q: Me and my boyfriend started dating in 2005. In 2006 we both decide to explore the swinging lifestyle ...
A: I read your email and wonder why you still attending swinging clubs. As you stated the lifestyle is ...
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| PLEASE HELP!! | 6/8/2009 | Analisa |
Q: Me and my boyfriend started dating in 2005. In 2006 we both decide to explore the swinging lifestyle ...
A: Nicki, First, I am sorry to hear things are not going well between you two. Second, it doesn't ...
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| Verification email... | 6/2/2009 | Leesa |
Q: We came for a look on Sat night, both agreed it was great, relaxed, layed back and the patrons were ...
A: Just let me know what your username is. Joining the website is not membership though of the club, ...
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| doubts about age.. | 5/31/2009 | Leesa |
Q: I am a woman in the sixties, a widow, and had not had much sex for some years. Recently I have met a ...
A: You are never too old to start swinging, Swinging is many different forms, and i simply hate the ...
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| third party sexual encounter | 5/26/2009 | Analisa |
Q: I have been dating my BF for two years and there was a time in the past that I had asked him what ...
A: Jenny, Then I would suggest dropping this and trying my other suggestion. If you really can't do ...
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| third party sexual encounter | 5/26/2009 | Analisa |
Q: I have been dating my BF for two years and there was a time in the past that I had asked him what ...
A: Jenny, I am reluctant to answer this as it really is not about swinging but more about how do you ...
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| new experience | 5/26/2009 | Leesa |
Q: we are entering this fun world for the first time, we have spoken (so many times) about doing this ...
A: Our experience was to ease in, go to a few parties, see what goes on and draw from that experience ...
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| Wife wants to Swing I am not sure | 5/22/2009 | Analisa |
Q: I need advice. My wife and I have been together for 15 years during which time she was overweight. ...
A: JC, Maybe rather talking via text you and your wife need to sit down and have an open and honest ...
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| How It Works | 5/19/2009 | Leesa |
Q: I am a 33 year old female with a 23 year old male fuck buddy. We have given 3somes a shot MFF and ...
A: Great to hear from you and sorry for the delay. Please dont ever attend our venue expecting sex or ...
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| starting swinging with confidence | 5/18/2009 | Leesa |
Q: Any tips on how to set aside morals imbedded to engage in a exciting sexual lifestyle. Fear ...
A: Sorry for the delay in my response to you i have been away. Swinging is an awesome experience for a ...
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| Roll Playing | 5/16/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My wife knows that I am really into the idea of swinging but she says she is not interested. I ...
A: Josh, Maybe you could try talking to her while the two of you are having sex. See if she gets ...
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| How do I get my partner interested! | 5/14/2009 | Leesa |
Q: I am really interested in having sex with my partner whilst being watched. I have been trying to ...
A: Sorry for the delay in answering i have been away. Please dont ever push your wife or it wont happen ...
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| wife dating | 5/10/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My wife and i have been married for seventeen years and have two kids. One turning sixteen and one ...
A: Rick, This is a very touchy subject and I am reluctant to give further advice. Again, your best ...
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| Friends First | 5/9/2009 | Analisa |
Q: We have been looking for openminded friends for some time with limited luck. We like to get to know ...
A: Geoff, Have you two tried attending events rather than online chatting? Have you reviewed any of my ...
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| Married woman has guilt | 5/9/2009 | Leesa |
Q: Admittedly, I can't find the exact category I think I'm looking for here on ExpertCentral. However, ...
A: I am sorry but i cannot help you. You see our lifestyle is not at all about infidelity, there is no ...
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| Live cam room | 5/6/2009 | Leesa |
Q: My partner and I spent our birthdays at CI this year and without a doubt had a great time. On our ...
A: No you cannot record, and no we dont keep any record, it is just beamed live through ...
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| Swinging with friends versus acquaintances | 5/5/2009 | Leesa |
Q: My boyfriend and I are looking into the swinging lifestyle and we come from two different views of ...
A: Sorry for the delay in answering i have been away. the lifestyle is all about communication, some ...
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| We want to start a threesome, but unsure how. | 4/28/2009 | Analisa |
Q: Hey Analisa, My wife and I have been married for 11 years now. And recently our sex lif have ...
A: Murray, Why don't you try inviting your "friend" over for dinner/drinks and see where things go ...
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| Trying to start off! :) | 4/26/2009 | Leesa |
Q: I’m a military husband and out on a deployment, reserves! So normally am always home, but a month ...
A: Hey there I am pleased you chose me to answer this question, i will need to tell you a bit about ...
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| Beginners! | 4/24/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My husband and I have been together for 13 years now and we have both wanted to experience the ...
A: LJ, It sounds like you two have thought this through completely. If you know of a local swing club ...
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| Threesome? | 4/23/2009 | Analisa |
Q: Analisa, Thanks for taking my question, I really appreciate it. My wife and I have been talking ...
A: Josh, First, we would recommend you & your wife be very clear with each other and set some ground ...
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| Unsure about swinging motives? | 4/22/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My husband and I are newlyweds, and we've been together for 4 years. We have both been pretty ...
A: Janelle, For you I am going to break one of my cardinal rules, NEVER give an opinion. Because you ...
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| CI | 4/18/2009 | Leesa |
Q: My long term partner and I have been talking about exploring sex with other people together for a ...
A: You and your partner can of course have sex in any manner you choose, that is your personal choice, ...
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| 3-some question | 4/17/2009 | Analisa |
Q: For you, was it the girl or the guy that was the main attraction in a 3-some, and why? Thanks so ...
A: Roger, The first time, it was my then boyfriend, he'd always wanted to do a threesome with his best ...
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| about swinging | 4/17/2009 | Leesa |
Q: I have had some people they only soft swap and i would like to know what that was. I have been in ...
A: My understanding of "soft swap" is that 2 couples may enjoy same room sex with their own partners ...
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| Swinging | 4/9/2009 | Chim Hedo |
Q: I have been married for 19 years. I am 47 and my wife is 51. In the past, my wife has admitted that ...
A: You really can't make any of this happen, but you can certainly get the wheels in motion. Have you ...
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| Starting the swining lifestyle | 4/6/2009 | Chim Hedo |
Q: My husband is really wanting to start experimenting with the swinging lifestyle. He is 58 and I am ...
A: It's very normal and common to struggle with the thoughts of him being with another woman. ...
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| swinging | 4/5/2009 | Leesa |
Q: recently my wife of 10 years discussed it and picked up a guy and i looked on while they had great ...
A: No it is not wrong. I will tell you what we do. Just last night we had a friend over, he stayed the ...
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| Confused | 4/2/2009 | Analisa |
Q: I realize you can't speak to my wife's feelings specifically, but I was hoping you might be ...
A: To answer your first question, yes it is perfectly "normal" for women to explore the bi side and ...
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| Adult swinging | 4/2/2009 | Leesa |
Q: My wife used to have great sex curiosity which is dying now.I have observed when she chat online she ...
A: I must say that you should never try and MAKE your wife do anything she doesnt want to do. Our ...
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| Swingers club? | 3/31/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My husband and I have been in the "lifestyle" for a while now. But we have only had threesomes and ...
A: Sarah, Wear whatever you feel most comfortable wearing. If you feel more confident in revealing ...
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