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About Analisa
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Expertise
Questions related to Swinging i.e. Why did you choose to become a swinger, He/She wants to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed, What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e. Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.

Experience
Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)

Organizations
NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P

Education/Credentials
Both of us are college educated professionals.

   

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SubjectDate AskedExpert

Married Couple10/9/2009Analisa
  Q: My husband and I have been wanting to have a threesome with another woman. I'm not exactly sure what ...
  A: Whit, THe only thing I can tell you is to work through any issues BEFORE bringing someone else in. ...
Married Couple10/8/2009Analisa
  Q: My husband and I have been wanting to have a threesome with another woman. I'm not exactly sure what ...
  A: Whit, My best recommendation for the two of you is to join one of my favorite sites for swingers ...
How to start?10/3/2009Analisa
  Q: how can convince my wife & how can get start?if u have pictures or ... we appreciate to have it to ...
  A: Saman, If you are talking about how to get started as swingers I would suggest you go to the ...
hpv9/30/2009Analisa
  Q: I recently got my PAP test back and it is once again abnormal. It shows high risk HPV. I had the ...
  A: Lynn, Have you thought about using protection? Also once you have HPV, then even if you get ...
no subject9/28/2009Analisa
  Q: My husband and I have been married for 8 years and have beaten the odds every time we're challenged, ...
  A: Melissa, If you have even the slightest doubt and feel/think" "should I postpone them a little ...
Virgin Newbie Guest9/28/2009Analisa
  Q: How does "the guest" bring up the idea of a threesome? Particularly if by "guest" I mean a single ...
  A: Fiona, As far as "gently seducing" I would recommend you think about all the things you like to ...
swinging and a phyusical handicap9/22/2009Analisa
  Q: I had polio at age 4 -- my right leg was paralysed and I wear a brace and walk with a limp. I have ...
  A: Don, I'm guessing you didn't check previous answered questions . . . In the LS there seems to be ...
Swinging First Time9/22/2009Leesa
  Q: I would like to get my wife into swinging. She has not done it before, and I am trying to find a way ...
  A: One thing to remember is that to never push your wife into the swinging side of it unless she and ...
Less than perfect body9/18/2009Analisa
  Q: Why does it seem like most people involved in the LS have flawless bodies? I had a poorly done ...
  A: Keis, I am not certain where it is that you are looking, that all you find are "flawless bodies". ...
Wants to introduce husband into a more experimental relationship9/16/2009Analisa
  Q: I am 18 years old and my husband is 21. We have only been married for 8 months. I am satisfied in ...
  A: Cassidy, There is no way for me to know or be able to say if your husband is or is not into ...
threesome with my wife9/16/2009Leesa
  Q: My wife and I have been wanting for a year to have a threesome with another woman but never actively ...
  A: There is really no easy way to do this. Make sure you are blunt and to the point, tell her exactly ...
want to know about wife swapping?9/16/2009Leesa
  Q: i have been hearing a lot of adventures sex in married life and their fantasy's I am also married ...
  A: Sometimes the thought of it is just as a turn on as doing it. Talk to eachother about it all, even ...
starting out with another newbie couple9/13/2009Analisa
  Q: My boyfriend and I have talked about being with another couple or with another female for a while ...
  A: Sarah, Yes, it would be best to meet someplace neutral like a restaurant, bar or hotel. Yes, it is ...
where to begin?9/10/2009Analisa
  Q: pretty much after our threesome with my ex. WE both would like to have other sexual partners but ...
  A: John, I would strongly recommend going to the NASCA.com website and first reading the FAQs, there ...
Should we?9/5/2009Analisa
  Q: Background: My wife and I have been together for 10 years, 6 of which we have been married. however ...
  A: John, I would STRONGLY recommend that you do NOT look to the swinging lifestyle to fix any issues ...
emotional affair8/27/2009Analisa
  Q: My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years, friends for 5. Prior to our marriage we had ...
  A: Tracey: To answer your question, I wont say you are wrong but, closer to incorrect. Any "protocol" ...
Is it ok...8/24/2009Analisa
  Q: Hey, So i was hoping for some advice. There is this guy that i really like who is engaged. He has ...
  A: Samantha, While it is admirable that you are concerned for their relationship, your concern is ...
Not sure to swing8/13/2009Analisa
  Q: we are married cpls arabs. we have been talking about swinging for the past 7 years but nothing ...
  A: Why don't you sit down with your wife and have a straightforward and honest conversation with her ...
should i stay or should i go now8/11/2009Analisa
  Q: Greetings Analisa, My name is Zella and I'm confused. Thank you for taking my question today. After ...
  A: I admire and respect the amazing person you seem to represent in your letter. Please understand any ...
Unplanned Encounter8/5/2009Analisa
  Q: My boyfriend and I spent an unexpected night swinging with another couple that we are close friends ...
  A: Your main concern should be your main relationship. How does your boyfriend feel? What does he want ...
Wanting to try this8/4/2009Analisa
  Q: my husband and I are thinking about swinging. How do we go about doing this? And is this against the ...
  A: I have a research website to recommend: www.nasca.com This is a great resource for questions ...
my boyfriend is swinging with a married woman8/4/2009Leesa
  Q: i dont really know what to do here. this is not the first time, but my boyfriend (now ex but we ...
  A: Honey, you deserve better. Be true to yourself, and move on and be happy, I know that is easy said, ...
my boyfriend is swinging with a married woman8/3/2009Leesa
  Q: i dont really know what to do here. this is not the first time, but my boyfriend (now ex but we ...
  A: One important thing that i noticed is that you said he was your X, and you just live together. I ...
wife is interested in swinging8/2/2009Analisa
  Q: I am american man, 52, with a Filipina wife, 40. She has told me she is interested in getting ...
  A: I went to the NASCA International website (www.nasca.com) and this was the only listing I could find ...
bisexuality and swinging7/28/2009Analisa
  Q: My wife and I are in out 20-ies, married for one year and decided to try swinging. We decided to ...
  A: Danny, Here are questions for you to answer for yourself (I don't need the answers). Did you enjoy ...
proposal of swinging7/27/2009Analisa
  Q: My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost a year now and I love her very very much. ...
  A: Let me try to answer all of your questions: Q1: When I finally do confront her how do I go about ...
Parting with swinging partners without offending7/24/2009Analisa
  Q: to make a long story short, my wife and I have enjoyed having sex with other, and find the ...
  A: That's too bad, I would suggest that you try honesty or even delaying her gratification until you ...
Age barrier7/14/2009Leesa
  Q: Are there people aged betweet 25 and 30 ish that go to CI??
  A: You are in the core group that goes to our club. Most young couples are sick of the fighting etc in ...
Swinging with a friend7/13/2009Leesa
  Q: I have a friend that I am very fond of and I believe the feeling is mutual. The problem is I have ...
  A: I hear what you are saying and can relate. You do need to set boundries and rules, and if you go to ...
Wife suddenly just dropped out of swinging.7/9/2009Analisa
  Q: My wife and I have been swinging for about 3 years now. We started back then because of my job and ...
  A: Dominick, I am guessing from you letter the two of you were 'separate' swingers (not same room or ...
I don't he does7/8/2009Analisa
  Q: My husband and I have gone to a swinginger's club and hedI in Jamaiaca. I thought both were sleazy ...
  A: Kathy, Even though this question isn't really about swinging per se but, actually about your ...
My wife brought up swinging...7/4/2009Analisa
  Q: Hey Analisa, My wife and I have been married for 10 years as of last January. We have made some ...
  A: Shawn, Even though your letter really isn't about swinging and it's more about your relationship ...
question7/1/2009Leesa
  Q: My husband and I have been talking about swinging for a long time....I was wondering how to deal ...
  A: Before you enter the swinging lifestyle make sure you have set your rules. No one should defer from ...
swinging6/29/2009Analisa
  Q: i am 30 and my wife is 22, we are very open minded, one day i suggested to bring my friend to my ...
  A: Sameera, I will try to answer all of your questions but, when you ask me why your wife behaves or ...
Girlfriend wants to attend orgy : /6/24/2009Analisa
  Q: Well this is a bit tough for me for multiple reasons, but I am currently in Afghanistan. I will be ...
  A: To answer the only questions I could glean from your follow-up: Q1. One of my chief concerns is that ...
Girlfriend wants to attend orgy : /6/24/2009Analisa
  Q: Well this is a bit tough for me for multiple reasons, but I am currently in Afghanistan. I will be ...
  A: I will attempt to answer *all* of your questions. 1.How many problems do you see the swinging ...
pl help!!6/11/2009Chim Hedo
  Q: First let me thank you for your advice. I have one question for you... If a couple ( straight guy ...
  A: Perfect scenario is that both people are comfortable with the playmate(s). From my own experience ...
pl help6/11/2009Analisa
  Q: First let me thank you for your advice. I have one question for you... If a couple ( straight guy ...
  A: Niki, When we (my husband and I) first got into the LifeStyle, we were given some really great ...
THANKS FOR HELP6/11/2009Leesa
  Q: First let me thank you for your advice. I have one question for you... If a couple ( straight guy ...
  A: In answer to your question, Everyone has to be comfortable with everything each of the persons do. ...
pl help!!!6/8/2009Leesa
  Q: Me and my boyfriend started dating in 2005. In 2006 we both decide to explore the swinging lifestyle ...
  A: I read your email and wonder why you still attending swinging clubs. As you stated the lifestyle is ...

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