| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Married Couple | 10/9/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My husband and I have been wanting to have a threesome with another woman. I'm not exactly sure what ...
A: Whit, THe only thing I can tell you is to work through any issues BEFORE bringing someone else in. ...
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| Married Couple | 10/8/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My husband and I have been wanting to have a threesome with another woman. I'm not exactly sure what ...
A: Whit, My best recommendation for the two of you is to join one of my favorite sites for swingers ...
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| How to start? | 10/3/2009 | Analisa |
Q: how can convince my wife & how can get start?if u have pictures or ... we appreciate to have it to ...
A: Saman, If you are talking about how to get started as swingers I would suggest you go to the ...
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| hpv | 9/30/2009 | Analisa |
Q: I recently got my PAP test back and it is once again abnormal. It shows high risk HPV. I had the ...
A: Lynn, Have you thought about using protection? Also once you have HPV, then even if you get ...
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| no subject | 9/28/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 8 years and have beaten the odds every time we're challenged, ...
A: Melissa, If you have even the slightest doubt and feel/think" "should I postpone them a little ...
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| Virgin Newbie Guest | 9/28/2009 | Analisa |
Q: How does "the guest" bring up the idea of a threesome? Particularly if by "guest" I mean a single ...
A: Fiona, As far as "gently seducing" I would recommend you think about all the things you like to ...
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| swinging and a phyusical handicap | 9/22/2009 | Analisa |
Q: I had polio at age 4 -- my right leg was paralysed and I wear a brace and walk with a limp. I have ...
A: Don, I'm guessing you didn't check previous answered questions . . . In the LS there seems to be ...
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| Swinging First Time | 9/22/2009 | Leesa |
Q: I would like to get my wife into swinging. She has not done it before, and I am trying to find a way ...
A: One thing to remember is that to never push your wife into the swinging side of it unless she and ...
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| Less than perfect body | 9/18/2009 | Analisa |
Q: Why does it seem like most people involved in the LS have flawless bodies? I had a poorly done ...
A: Keis, I am not certain where it is that you are looking, that all you find are "flawless bodies". ...
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| Wants to introduce husband into a more experimental relationship | 9/16/2009 | Analisa |
Q: I am 18 years old and my husband is 21. We have only been married for 8 months. I am satisfied in ...
A: Cassidy, There is no way for me to know or be able to say if your husband is or is not into ...
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| threesome with my wife | 9/16/2009 | Leesa |
Q: My wife and I have been wanting for a year to have a threesome with another woman but never actively ...
A: There is really no easy way to do this. Make sure you are blunt and to the point, tell her exactly ...
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| want to know about wife swapping? | 9/16/2009 | Leesa |
Q: i have been hearing a lot of adventures sex in married life and their fantasy's I am also married ...
A: Sometimes the thought of it is just as a turn on as doing it. Talk to eachother about it all, even ...
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| starting out with another newbie couple | 9/13/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My boyfriend and I have talked about being with another couple or with another female for a while ...
A: Sarah, Yes, it would be best to meet someplace neutral like a restaurant, bar or hotel. Yes, it is ...
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| where to begin? | 9/10/2009 | Analisa |
Q: pretty much after our threesome with my ex. WE both would like to have other sexual partners but ...
A: John, I would strongly recommend going to the NASCA.com website and first reading the FAQs, there ...
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| Should we? | 9/5/2009 | Analisa |
Q: Background: My wife and I have been together for 10 years, 6 of which we have been married. however ...
A: John, I would STRONGLY recommend that you do NOT look to the swinging lifestyle to fix any issues ...
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| emotional affair | 8/27/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years, friends for 5. Prior to our marriage we had ...
A: Tracey: To answer your question, I wont say you are wrong but, closer to incorrect. Any "protocol" ...
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| Is it ok... | 8/24/2009 | Analisa |
Q: Hey, So i was hoping for some advice. There is this guy that i really like who is engaged. He has ...
A: Samantha, While it is admirable that you are concerned for their relationship, your concern is ...
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| Not sure to swing | 8/13/2009 | Analisa |
Q: we are married cpls arabs. we have been talking about swinging for the past 7 years but nothing ...
A: Why don't you sit down with your wife and have a straightforward and honest conversation with her ...
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| should i stay or should i go now | 8/11/2009 | Analisa |
Q: Greetings Analisa, My name is Zella and I'm confused. Thank you for taking my question today. After ...
A: I admire and respect the amazing person you seem to represent in your letter. Please understand any ...
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| Unplanned Encounter | 8/5/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My boyfriend and I spent an unexpected night swinging with another couple that we are close friends ...
A: Your main concern should be your main relationship. How does your boyfriend feel? What does he want ...
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| Wanting to try this | 8/4/2009 | Analisa |
Q: my husband and I are thinking about swinging. How do we go about doing this? And is this against the ...
A: I have a research website to recommend: www.nasca.com This is a great resource for questions ...
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| my boyfriend is swinging with a married woman | 8/4/2009 | Leesa |
Q: i dont really know what to do here. this is not the first time, but my boyfriend (now ex but we ...
A: Honey, you deserve better. Be true to yourself, and move on and be happy, I know that is easy said, ...
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| my boyfriend is swinging with a married woman | 8/3/2009 | Leesa |
Q: i dont really know what to do here. this is not the first time, but my boyfriend (now ex but we ...
A: One important thing that i noticed is that you said he was your X, and you just live together. I ...
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| wife is interested in swinging | 8/2/2009 | Analisa |
Q: I am american man, 52, with a Filipina wife, 40. She has told me she is interested in getting ...
A: I went to the NASCA International website (www.nasca.com) and this was the only listing I could find ...
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| bisexuality and swinging | 7/28/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My wife and I are in out 20-ies, married for one year and decided to try swinging. We decided to ...
A: Danny, Here are questions for you to answer for yourself (I don't need the answers). Did you enjoy ...
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| proposal of swinging | 7/27/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost a year now and I love her very very much. ...
A: Let me try to answer all of your questions: Q1: When I finally do confront her how do I go about ...
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| Parting with swinging partners without offending | 7/24/2009 | Analisa |
Q: to make a long story short, my wife and I have enjoyed having sex with other, and find the ...
A: That's too bad, I would suggest that you try honesty or even delaying her gratification until you ...
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| Age barrier | 7/14/2009 | Leesa |
Q: Are there people aged betweet 25 and 30 ish that go to CI??
A: You are in the core group that goes to our club. Most young couples are sick of the fighting etc in ...
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| Swinging with a friend | 7/13/2009 | Leesa |
Q: I have a friend that I am very fond of and I believe the feeling is mutual. The problem is I have ...
A: I hear what you are saying and can relate. You do need to set boundries and rules, and if you go to ...
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| Wife suddenly just dropped out of swinging. | 7/9/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My wife and I have been swinging for about 3 years now. We started back then because of my job and ...
A: Dominick, I am guessing from you letter the two of you were 'separate' swingers (not same room or ...
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| I don't he does | 7/8/2009 | Analisa |
Q: My husband and I have gone to a swinginger's club and hedI in Jamaiaca. I thought both were sleazy ...
A: Kathy, Even though this question isn't really about swinging per se but, actually about your ...
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| My wife brought up swinging... | 7/4/2009 | Analisa |
Q: Hey Analisa, My wife and I have been married for 10 years as of last January. We have made some ...
A: Shawn, Even though your letter really isn't about swinging and it's more about your relationship ...
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| question | 7/1/2009 | Leesa |
Q: My husband and I have been talking about swinging for a long time....I was wondering how to deal ...
A: Before you enter the swinging lifestyle make sure you have set your rules. No one should defer from ...
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| swinging | 6/29/2009 | Analisa |
Q: i am 30 and my wife is 22, we are very open minded, one day i suggested to bring my friend to my ...
A: Sameera, I will try to answer all of your questions but, when you ask me why your wife behaves or ...
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| Girlfriend wants to attend orgy : / | 6/24/2009 | Analisa |
Q: Well this is a bit tough for me for multiple reasons, but I am currently in Afghanistan. I will be ...
A: To answer the only questions I could glean from your follow-up: Q1. One of my chief concerns is that ...
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| Girlfriend wants to attend orgy : / | 6/24/2009 | Analisa |
Q: Well this is a bit tough for me for multiple reasons, but I am currently in Afghanistan. I will be ...
A: I will attempt to answer *all* of your questions. 1.How many problems do you see the swinging ...
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| pl help!! | 6/11/2009 | Chim Hedo |
Q: First let me thank you for your advice. I have one question for you... If a couple ( straight guy ...
A: Perfect scenario is that both people are comfortable with the playmate(s). From my own experience ...
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| pl help | 6/11/2009 | Analisa |
Q: First let me thank you for your advice. I have one question for you... If a couple ( straight guy ...
A: Niki, When we (my husband and I) first got into the LifeStyle, we were given some really great ...
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| THANKS FOR HELP | 6/11/2009 | Leesa |
Q: First let me thank you for your advice. I have one question for you... If a couple ( straight guy ...
A: In answer to your question, Everyone has to be comfortable with everything each of the persons do. ...
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| pl help!!! | 6/8/2009 | Leesa |
Q: Me and my boyfriend started dating in 2005. In 2006 we both decide to explore the swinging lifestyle ...
A: I read your email and wonder why you still attending swinging clubs. As you stated the lifestyle is ...
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