About Scotto Expertise I can answer questions ranging from:
People who want to swing but have questions.
People who want to put their toe in the water but don't want to become swingers.
Experience I have participated in numerous swinging situations in the past including moresomes and threesomes including mfm and fmf types.
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Education/Credentials Bachelors with some Masters work in business.
Expert: Scotto Date: 9/19/2007 Subject: 1st time and nervous
Question My husband and I have met a couple online, had cam sex with them, met them in person last week, and this Saturday for my birthday we are going to swing with them. After watching them on cam, we sort of know where we stand...her husband can last a lot longer than my husband. I'm pretty sure I know the answer but since I've never done this before I'm nervous in more ways than one. But...would it be ok to be with the other man then swap back to our own spouses? Or does this break some kind of swinger rule. The other question is since my husbands fantasy is to be with two women....I'm assuming if it's ok with the other couple we all are doing some kind of act together to ensure nobody is left out? Really overthinking this I guess. But no other place to turn to.
Answer Hi, I am not a 100% sure of your first question. Do you mean would it be okay to be with the other man(to completion) and then swap back to your spouse. If that's the question sure why not....or do you mean would it be okay to be with the other man for a while and then switch back before they orgasm? Are you going to be bareback? The men might object (some do and some don't) in going in for silky seconds. Either way there is no swinger rule broken.
Secondly, you might let the other couple know that your husband wants to be with two women and hopefully this is okay with them. Of course you are will to return the favor and double team her husband and while you're at it why not take a try at being double teamed by the men and watching your husband and the other husband double team the other woman. The point is the only rules to what you are doing is the rules that you and your partner agree to with the other couple. You are naked, relaxed--make sure you seize the moment and enjoy all the things you have wanted to do.
