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i am really wanting to try to spice up my relationship i tried to talk my wife into letting me watch her have sex with another guy what can i do to get her to try this

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Hi Larry!
  Trying to "spice things up" or trying to fix a relationship? There is a difference.  If you are looking to have a threesome, thinking that will help a relationship, your headed for disaster.
  You have tried talking to your wife into letting you watch her with another man, what was her response?  
  You really can't do anything to get her to try, she has to want to try.  Has she shown an interest? What level is your relationship at? I need more information before I can proceed.
Chim

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Chim Hedo

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Questions regarding the lifestyle between couples. How to get started, communication, establishing rules. Where to meet people. Feelings, and how to deal with them. Soft vs full swinging. Bi-sexual women in the lifestyle. Lifestyle vacations. Clubs, events and house parties. How to dress and not to dress. Introducing "Vanilla" friends.

Experience

Female 15 years in the lifestyle. Married 27.

Publications
Currently writing a book on the lifestyle.

Education/Credentials
human sexuality

Awards and Honors
Host couple at many large Canadian Events. Started Ontario's largest on-line lifestyle site. Host and MC for many Ontario clubs.

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