Expert: Analisa - 12/21/2008

Question
My wife and I attended my company's Christmas party tonight. We had a very nice time, as we always do at this event. We always sit at a table with several couples who all know each other fairly well. There was a couple at the table that we go out with on occasion, about once or twice a year, and we always have a great time. We have went on overnight trips with them before, but always in separate rooms. This couples' wife told us that she would like to do something during our Christmas holiday and suggested sharing a room with a hot tub to cut down on costs. My wife and I both thought that this would be a fun getaway and agreed. We have known them for over a decade.

When we arrived at home, my wife told me, "Don't freak out, but the other couples' wife told me that they had started swinging and it had only improved their relationship." My wife then asked me if I would like to try this out and that she was fine with it, yes or no. Both wives had a bit too much to drink, but neither was out of control.

My question is this, am I wrong in assuming that the other couple might be interested in us? The shared room and hot tub seem to indicate this. I will talk to my wife tomorrow to see if she is still interested in the idea. I have actually thought about it, and I am attracted to my friend's wife.  

Answer
No, you are not wrong in assuming that they are interested from what you have described in your letter.

I would strongly suggest that you & your wife establish some ground rules BEFORE you go (i.e. condoms, kissing, anal, cuddling afterwards, etc.) other than that . . . enjoy yourselves.

Analisa