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Expert: Analisa - 12/30/2008


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How can i talk my wife into haveing a threesome with me and another man? We some times use a dildo and she likes to see me watching her sucking it and fucking but says she does not want to do it for real. Help.

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Start with talk to her and actually listening to what she has to say instead of thinking about what you want. If you keep focusing on what you want, you will never really here what she is trying to tell you.

Try starting there.

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Analisa

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Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)

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