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| First time swinging encounter.. | 8/20/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My wife and I are close to having our first couple/couple experience. When I'm with my wife, I have ...
A: Mark, First thing I can tell you is ANY concerns or worries are legitimate. With that said, I ...
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| Gangbang | 8/18/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I'm an 18 year old girl and I'm in a monogamous relationship with my boyfriend. Recently, me and my ...
A: Fatima, To answer your'Is it common for couples to have sex with other people once without being in ...
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| Im new to this.... | 8/15/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I wanted to ask...my girl friend have been together for a bout 3 months now and it has came up twice ...
A: Thomas, The only thing I can suggest is leave it alone until she brings it up again. In the mean ...
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| Im new to this.... | 8/15/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I wanted to ask...my girl friend have been together for a bout 3 months now and it has came up twice ...
A: Thomas, First, you two need to talk, open, honest. Lay all your concerns on the table. Second, you ...
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| Virgin Orgy Fantasy | 8/10/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I'm a young single woman (21 years old), interested in the swinging lifestyle. I also happen to be ...
A: Franka, To begin with let me congratulate you on your attitude. Second, prior to answering your ...
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| Cheated? | 8/6/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I recently returned from a 4 day trip out of town. When me and my girlfriend became intimate and ...
A: James, I think you should be concerned that you are asking me this question instead of her. You ...
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| Crossing the Line | 8/5/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I have so much going through my mind right now, and I don't really know what to do about it. My ...
A: Nikita, I can not answer why anyone does what they do. With that said I feel you are in a situation ...
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| Creampie eating and swinging | 8/5/2008 | Analisa |
Q: About 2 months ago, my 21 year old neighbor couple introduced me to the swinging lifestyle. I have ...
A: Nick, One of the main precepts of the swinging LifeStyle is to do what you enjoy. If you enjoy this ...
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| Once a swinger ??? | 8/3/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I have spoken to many ppl about this - my partner of 5 months told me in the beginning of our ...
A: Lisa, I am not certain what you need from me. I CAN tell you that ANYTHING can be addictive if you ...
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| Once a swinger ??? | 7/31/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I have spoken to many ppl about this - my partner of 5 months told me in the beginning of our ...
A: Unfortunately I doubt if I can be of any real help in this situation. No-one can determine if ...
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| Trying for the first time | 7/23/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I have been dating someone for almost a year who has been in the lifestyle for several years. I ...
A: Stacey, You should not allow yourself to be "pressured" into doing ANYTHING you don't want to, ...
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| Use of Condoms | 7/23/2008 | Analisa |
Q: Analisa - I've read a few of your responses and have enjoyed your insight and recommendations. In ...
A: When I discuss condoms I am simply sharing a point of view that my husband & I have: While this is ...
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| idnetifying other sswingers | 6/30/2008 | Analisa |
Q: We are nudists and want to get into swinging. We know that some nudist camps have swingers, but we ...
A: Wes, As I am not a "formally identified nudist" I don't know that I can help you much. What I can ...
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| Want to try Swinging | 6/29/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My husband and I have talked about swinging for several years. we have talked about the good and ...
A: Karen, I would suggest checking into an online swinger site first. This way you can check out all ...
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| wanting to try | 6/28/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I am very secure with myself and my relationship with my wife which is a monogamist heterosexual ...
A: So Marcus, What are you asking here, I don't really see a question per-se? From your statement, I ...
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| Threesome with partner's friend has made me jealous | 6/28/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My LT partner and I have been swinging on and off for a couple of years, pretty much foursomes.Just ...
A: Suzee, What would you like me to help you with? I am not certain what your question is and I don't ...
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| A Crush | 6/23/2008 | Analisa |
Q: While in a college trip i met this guy who was still new in college. While on the trip we danced ...
A: Reeny, Stay away from this guy, he is BAD for your self-esteem. Worse even than your husband (at ...
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| black swingers clubs | 6/23/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My boyfriend and I are trying to spread our minds sexual and we would like to go to a swingers club ...
A: Sunnie, I am not sure what you are asking as I don't really get that there is a question here. If ...
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| My wife having sex with another man | 6/21/2008 | Analisa |
Q: We are a young couple and me and my wife are planning to go to a swinger's party. My wife seems ...
A: How I feel has little or no consideration in how your wife will feel, that is why I did not go down ...
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| My wife having sex with another man | 6/20/2008 | Analisa |
Q: We are a young couple and me and my wife are planning to go to a swinger's party. My wife seems ...
A: Answer to #1 - Yes, it is absolutely possible but then anything is possible. I can't say she would ...
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| single at club | 6/20/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I will be going on a business trip to Cincinnati and there is swinger clubs in near by dayton my ...
A: Talax, Unfortunately all I have are some old sayings in response . . . So here goes, single guys in ...
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| First Time | 6/20/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My question is that my husband and I are looking in to possibly bringing another woman in to the ...
A: K, Short answer is, yes. A strong marriage can survive anything EXCEPT dishonesty. My husband and I ...
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| My wife having sex with another man | 6/20/2008 | Analisa |
Q: We are a young couple and me and my wife are planning to go to a swinger's party. My wife seems ...
A: Janice, BEFORE you go to this party, you & your wife need to talk . . . about EVERYTHING; Your ...
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| First Time | 6/19/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My question is that my husband and I are looking in to possibly bringing another woman in to the ...
A: K, I would STRONGLY urge you to ask him just that question. Be prepared before you do to not get ...
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| no subject | 6/13/2008 | Analisa |
Q: my boyfriend and I have been swinging for the past three years now and we have been together for 5 ...
A: My suggestion is to start saying this to yourself EVERY morning in the mirror. "I am a normal, ...
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| swinging with a platonic friend | 6/12/2008 | Analisa |
Q: A female friend and I are considering going to a swingers club as a couple (mainly because it is ...
A: Joe, The first thing you might want to know is that the LifeStyle is NOT about misleading people, ...
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| finding what we want | 6/12/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My husband & I have recently found out about a local on site swing club. We are pretty excited to ...
A: Robin, I would make one more suggestion about your first visit . . . don't expect ANYTHING to ...
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| menage a trios | 6/11/2008 | Analisa |
Q: This isn't really specifically about swinging, but it is the closest subject I could find. My ...
A: Janelle, I would suggest registering with a "swingers" website as either a couple who are willing ...
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| no subject | 6/11/2008 | Analisa |
Q: my boyfriend and I have been swinging for the past three years now and we have been together for 5 ...
A: I think rather than second guessing your boyfriend maybe you should work on loving you. I know that ...
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| no subject | 6/9/2008 | Analisa |
Q: my boyfriend and I have been swinging for the past three years now and we have been together for 5 ...
A: Couples who are not happy in their relationships, should NOT be in the LifeStyle at all. This simply ...
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| Started swinging but where does it stop? | 6/7/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My fiance and I started initially at looking for 3somes with another girl to join us as an FFM. That ...
A: Lucy, I would suggest starting with honesty. Tell your fiance how you feel about his 'obsession' ...
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| Interested but nervous | 6/7/2008 | Analisa |
Q: So, an old lover recently popped up out of the blue...he had changed jobs and not left me any info ...
A: Rachel, For starters I think this is a bad plan all the way around but, if this is what you think ...
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| finding a third for a threesome | 5/20/2008 | Analisa |
Q: Hey Analisa, My girlfriend and I want to bring another woman into our bedroom, but we don't know ...
A: Jay, I have a couple of suggestions: 1. Check out a LifeStyle website (adultfriendfinders.com, ...
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| newbie rules | 5/13/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My wife and I are contemplating stepping into the lifestyle. My wife came of age in the 70's and ...
A: Mark, In answer to your first question, yes. Anyone who chooses to judge others is automatically ...
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| need a little help | 5/12/2008 | Analisa |
Q: Hey, I saw you posted an answer to another girls question and I kinda really need assistance. I ...
A: First things first, do NOT let anyone else make you feel bad about your life choices. Have you ...
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| need a little help | 5/12/2008 | Analisa |
Q: Hey, I saw you posted an answer to another girls question and I kinda really need assistance. I ...
A: JJ, Please first understand I have no judgement one way or another about someone else's lifestyle ...
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| Floating swingers club as a business | 5/6/2008 | Analisa |
Q: We have been swing for about 10 years and find the clubs range from great & safe to down and dirty. ...
A: lgeaux, I'm sure you already know the answer to this, all we ask is that you send us an invite ...
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| To be or not to be? | 4/24/2008 | Analisa |
Q: we currently have a pretty awkward situation and not sure what should we do? We are a typical east ...
A: Geetha & Mohan, I would strongly suggest the two of you discuss this first. Imagine what would the ...
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| single female | 4/21/2008 | Analisa |
Q: i really want to get into swinging but im not sure how to go about it as a single female.i have ...
A: Janice, We usually suggest meeting for dinner/drinks to get to know each other & see if the ...
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| Ref: question | 4/21/2008 | Analisa |
Q: Got a question. Lets say that a married woman is interested in you sexually but you know that it is ...
A: H Mahabir, I would say trust your gut, if you feel you might get caught up in some crazy drama then ...
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