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| Unsure what to do | 11/17/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: My husband and I are very much in love and we respect each other fully. We have openly discussed ...
A: A pat on the back girl for at least wanting to try!! How did you feel when you watched? When it was ...
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| Swinging interests | 11/17/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: My wife and I are interested in swinging, either a threesome with another man or with another ...
A: !! Congratulations!!!!!! I am so pleased to hear that everything went good for you guys on your ...
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| Understand me | 11/17/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: well here goes.. I have been with my current girlfriend (not wife) for like 5 months. We fell quick ...
A: ! Wow, you have a lot to say, but you say it so well. To begin with, you have only been ...
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| *** What should we do??? *** | 11/13/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 21. We've been together for over 2 years and are both in college. She's ...
A: You guys are definitely not ready to start swinging!! The lifestyle is for couples that are ...
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| Swinging interests | 11/13/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: My wife and I are interested in swinging, either a threesome with another man or with another ...
A: ! So basically it sounds like you both have the same fantasy.... your's just involves more ...
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| rules | 11/12/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: I'VE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY MATE FOR TWO YEARS. HE'S BEEN THE LIFESTYLE FOR A WHILE.SINCE ...
A: NO NO NO. There is a difference between the lifestyle and having an open relationship. Sounds ...
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| Swinging & Cheating | 11/7/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: About 2 years ago my hubby and I decided to try swinging and we met a 'nice' couple who seemed to ...
A: The fact that you and your husband were in the lifestyle for a brief period, set ground rules, then ...
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| how can i get my wife to try swinging | 11/4/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: i am really wanting to try to spice up my relationship i tried to talk my wife into letting me watch ...
A: Trying to "spice things up" or trying to fix a relationship? There is a difference. If you are ...
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| age for swinging | 11/1/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: I read that young couples should not do swinging because the emotions are too strong. That swinging ...
A: I would love to know your age!! There is no "right or wrong" age to get into swinging. Yes, you ...
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| Sex with other couple | 10/31/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: Last weekend it was my husband's birthday, he wanted to go to Live Oak Resort which is a nudist ...
A: Oh Kathy, that definitely puts a different perspective on it!!! He has set you up once, sounds like ...
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| Sex with other couple | 10/31/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: Last weekend it was my husband's birthday, he wanted to go to Live Oak Resort which is a nudist ...
A: ! Amazing what liquid courage can do. It's really not my place to agree with you, or tell you ...
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| Our possible first time | 10/27/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 15 years and have a solid relationship. we are able to admit ...
A: Great question!!!! Be mindful that everything is HER call. If she says no to a situation, don't ...
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| Our possible first time | 10/26/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 15 years and have a solid relationship. we are able to admit ...
A: Well Orlando sounds like you and your wife are on the same page, and ready for the next step!! In ...
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| my wife and two men | 10/26/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: My wife and I fantasize about her taking two men at once. She is turned on by it also, but we have ...
A: . Yummy!!! One of my favorite fantasies!! But one question. You say "you are ready to take it to ...
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| Adult swinging | 10/21/2008 | Chim Hedo |
Q: My husband has an extreme desire to be involved in a threesome with me and another man. He wants to ...
A: Wow sounds like you are a mixed bag of emotions about now. Big hugs to you. First of all, the ...
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| First time swinging encounter.. | 8/20/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My wife and I are close to having our first couple/couple experience. When I'm with my wife, I have ...
A: Mark, First thing I can tell you is ANY concerns or worries are legitimate. With that said, I ...
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| Gangbang | 8/18/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I'm an 18 year old girl and I'm in a monogamous relationship with my boyfriend. Recently, me and my ...
A: Fatima, To answer your'Is it common for couples to have sex with other people once without being in ...
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| Im new to this.... | 8/15/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I wanted to ask...my girl friend have been together for a bout 3 months now and it has came up twice ...
A: Thomas, The only thing I can suggest is leave it alone until she brings it up again. In the mean ...
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| Im new to this.... | 8/15/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I wanted to ask...my girl friend have been together for a bout 3 months now and it has came up twice ...
A: Thomas, First, you two need to talk, open, honest. Lay all your concerns on the table. Second, you ...
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| Virgin Orgy Fantasy | 8/10/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I'm a young single woman (21 years old), interested in the swinging lifestyle. I also happen to be ...
A: Franka, To begin with let me congratulate you on your attitude. Second, prior to answering your ...
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| Cheated? | 8/6/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I recently returned from a 4 day trip out of town. When me and my girlfriend became intimate and ...
A: James, I think you should be concerned that you are asking me this question instead of her. You ...
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| Crossing the Line | 8/5/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I have so much going through my mind right now, and I don't really know what to do about it. My ...
A: Nikita, I can not answer why anyone does what they do. With that said I feel you are in a situation ...
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| Creampie eating and swinging | 8/5/2008 | Analisa |
Q: About 2 months ago, my 21 year old neighbor couple introduced me to the swinging lifestyle. I have ...
A: Nick, One of the main precepts of the swinging LifeStyle is to do what you enjoy. If you enjoy this ...
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| Once a swinger ??? | 8/3/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I have spoken to many ppl about this - my partner of 5 months told me in the beginning of our ...
A: Lisa, I am not certain what you need from me. I CAN tell you that ANYTHING can be addictive if you ...
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| Once a swinger ??? | 7/31/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I have spoken to many ppl about this - my partner of 5 months told me in the beginning of our ...
A: Unfortunately I doubt if I can be of any real help in this situation. No-one can determine if ...
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| Trying for the first time | 7/23/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I have been dating someone for almost a year who has been in the lifestyle for several years. I ...
A: Stacey, You should not allow yourself to be "pressured" into doing ANYTHING you don't want to, ...
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| Use of Condoms | 7/23/2008 | Analisa |
Q: Analisa - I've read a few of your responses and have enjoyed your insight and recommendations. In ...
A: When I discuss condoms I am simply sharing a point of view that my husband & I have: While this is ...
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| idnetifying other sswingers | 6/30/2008 | Analisa |
Q: We are nudists and want to get into swinging. We know that some nudist camps have swingers, but we ...
A: Wes, As I am not a "formally identified nudist" I don't know that I can help you much. What I can ...
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| Want to try Swinging | 6/29/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My husband and I have talked about swinging for several years. we have talked about the good and ...
A: Karen, I would suggest checking into an online swinger site first. This way you can check out all ...
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| wanting to try | 6/28/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I am very secure with myself and my relationship with my wife which is a monogamist heterosexual ...
A: So Marcus, What are you asking here, I don't really see a question per-se? From your statement, I ...
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| Threesome with partner's friend has made me jealous | 6/28/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My LT partner and I have been swinging on and off for a couple of years, pretty much foursomes.Just ...
A: Suzee, What would you like me to help you with? I am not certain what your question is and I don't ...
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| A Crush | 6/23/2008 | Analisa |
Q: While in a college trip i met this guy who was still new in college. While on the trip we danced ...
A: Reeny, Stay away from this guy, he is BAD for your self-esteem. Worse even than your husband (at ...
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| black swingers clubs | 6/23/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My boyfriend and I are trying to spread our minds sexual and we would like to go to a swingers club ...
A: Sunnie, I am not sure what you are asking as I don't really get that there is a question here. If ...
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| My wife having sex with another man | 6/21/2008 | Analisa |
Q: We are a young couple and me and my wife are planning to go to a swinger's party. My wife seems ...
A: How I feel has little or no consideration in how your wife will feel, that is why I did not go down ...
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| My wife having sex with another man | 6/20/2008 | Analisa |
Q: We are a young couple and me and my wife are planning to go to a swinger's party. My wife seems ...
A: Answer to #1 - Yes, it is absolutely possible but then anything is possible. I can't say she would ...
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| single at club | 6/20/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I will be going on a business trip to Cincinnati and there is swinger clubs in near by dayton my ...
A: Talax, Unfortunately all I have are some old sayings in response . . . So here goes, single guys in ...
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| First Time | 6/20/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My question is that my husband and I are looking in to possibly bringing another woman in to the ...
A: K, Short answer is, yes. A strong marriage can survive anything EXCEPT dishonesty. My husband and I ...
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| My wife having sex with another man | 6/20/2008 | Analisa |
Q: We are a young couple and me and my wife are planning to go to a swinger's party. My wife seems ...
A: Janice, BEFORE you go to this party, you & your wife need to talk . . . about EVERYTHING; Your ...
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| First Time | 6/19/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My question is that my husband and I are looking in to possibly bringing another woman in to the ...
A: K, I would STRONGLY urge you to ask him just that question. Be prepared before you do to not get ...
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| no subject | 6/13/2008 | Analisa |
Q: my boyfriend and I have been swinging for the past three years now and we have been together for 5 ...
A: My suggestion is to start saying this to yourself EVERY morning in the mirror. "I am a normal, ...
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