AboutAnalisa Expertise Questions related to Swinging i.e. Why did you choose to become a swinger, He/She wants
to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why
would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed,
What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to
do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other
swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team
Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e.
Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.
Experience Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)
Organizations NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P
Education/Credentials Both of us are college educated professionals.
Brian writes on 2008-05-06 19:15:32
ok' so i have had the same feelings. I told my wife about them many times in our marraige. 2 months ago i let it happen with a guy that she is realy attracted to and has been with twice before we got together. the next day i felt worse than ever. I asked details and she told me. it turned out to be the best sex she has ever had. ouch. she didnt come home right after like i thought. until 9 the next morning. he had sex with her d times that night. i didnt see this comming. when i asked if she would not do it again she told me she didnt know. the next friday she did it again knowing i didnt want her to. then the next friday it happend again with my consent. i told myself that it makes her happy even though i didnt enjoy it. that was the last time it has happend but she still has the desire and not to long ago i had to stop her from leaving to do it again. the only good thing is that she has been very sexual and our sex life has been great. i dont mind what happend when i am horny. byt most of the time i am hurt and cant get it out of my head. i am not sure what is going to happen in the future. its been a little over a month from the last time she slept with him and i still hurt. to sum up, DONT DO IT!
