Adult Swinging/First time hosting newbie couple

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Expert: Analisa - 4/18/2008


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Hello my question is about hosting a newbie couple for fullswap same room play. we have been corresponding  with each other for a few weeks now first via email then cell phone and we seem to have hit off very well. We finally decided to pursue eahc other and made plans to get together for a few drinks then head over to our place. The husband and I are pretty much into each others wive's but they are a little nervous i think his wife more so since they have not done this before. What do you recommend we do to get things started are there any games maybe to lighten of the mood.

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Charlie,

We would suggest changing drinks then dinner, then head over to the house. Once there maybe a game of strip poker? Oldie but a goodie. Then you can try Strip Twister which then leads to Naked Twister.

Just remember back to your first time & keep everything light & easy. Let them set the pace so she doesn't feel pushed or pressured.

Good Luck & remember to have fun,
Analisa

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