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i really want to get into swinging but im not sure how to go about it as a single female.i have joined a site but my main fear is how do u get from talking on site to having sex with a couple.what is expected ...do you have to dress secuctively for the meet or are you expected to be naked ...these fears are overiding the fun i know i want to have
Janice,
We usually suggest meeting for dinner/drinks to get to know each other & see if the chemistry is there. This gives you the safety (being a single female) of meeting in a public place.
All you have to do is be yourself. You can dress seductively if you wish but, know one expects you to show up naked, if they do then you don't want to necessarily be there with them.
Hope this helps, let me know if you have any further questions.
Good Luck,
Analisa
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Analisa
Expertise
Questions related to Swinging i.e. Why did you choose to become a swinger, He/She wants to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed, What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e. Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.
Experience
Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)
Organizations
NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P
Education/Credentials
Both of us are college educated professionals.
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