AboutAnalisa Expertise Questions related to Swinging i.e. Why did you choose to become a swinger, He/She wants
to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why
would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed,
What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to
do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other
swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team
Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e.
Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.
Experience Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)
Organizations NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P
Education/Credentials Both of us are college educated professionals.
Question Are there any swinger nightclubs in the washington dc area that might host a gathering or so during the weekdays and not just on saturdays or 3rd fridays of each month? We'd like to venture out to one of these places but, it just seems so hard to find anywhere to go when we have the time.
Answer Welby,
Since I am not familiar with the clubs in the D.C. area, the only suggestion I can make is to try to get to know some local Lifestylers and set up something at a vanilla location at first (like a networking social hour) and then work on finding people with similar interests. We do something here in Missouri that started out for the ladies called Martinis & Manicures. This is held at a local vanilla establishment on Wed. evenings and provides a no pressure situation for folks to meet.
