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Expert: Analisa - 5/12/2008


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Hey,

I saw you posted an answer to another girls question and I kinda really need assistance.  I have been fooling around with this guy for a couple of months.  We are nothing more than fuck buddies, he has a gf.  I know its bad news bears.  He has been really pushing a threesome with two guys.  I don't know what this would consist of, the actual act.  I am kinda interested but at the same time extremely uncomfortable.  Got any advice?  Please help.

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JJ,

Please first understand I have no judgement one way or another about someone else's lifestyle choices. How can just fuck buddies be bad news? Unless somewhere you are hoping it becomes more, then you are confused about 'nothing more than fuck buddies'.

MFM threesomes usually consist of two guys simultaneously penetrating one woman. This can consist of vaginal/oral, vaginal/anal or both vaginal at the same time.

I Googled 'Double Penetration' and found several links including Wikipedia definitions. You might want to check this search on Yahoo too.

As far as the uncomfortable part I would need to know what is making you uncomfortable to be able to assist in this area.

Hope this helps, let me know if you have any further questions.

Analisa

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